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The opposite sex is a very sensitive thing to get along with. In this world, there is no such thing as a truly pure heterosexual relationship.
Most people of the opposite sex get along, one does not say, one pretends not to know. When two people are together, if they have different feelings, in fact, the relationship will deteriorate.
There is no so-called confidant between the opposite sex, and when you meet someone you like, you can actually show your heart generously.
But if you don't think about it, don't make each other embarrassed, otherwise you may not even be friends.
Therefore, the relationship between the opposite sex and the impure relationship begins with these three transformations, and it is not appropriate.
Start calling intimately
Two people get along together, originally maintain normal communication, and the title is generally not much of a problem.
But once the feelings begin to become intimate, the change from the title may give the other party a different feeling.
For example, starting to call each other dear and obedient is actually very easy to make the other party have other ideas.
If the other party is used to this state and title, slowly will acquiesce to this way, and they will become more and more intimate with each other, then the feelings have changed.
If there are no real thoughts between each other, don't give each other too many illusions and cause unnecessary conjectures.
Feelings, once they become ambiguous and intimate, may be a different situation.
Therefore, when dealing with feelings, be rational, do not casually make reverie behaviors, try to restrain yourself, keep a distance, perhaps the best way for each other.
Start to speak up
I believe that everyone will have a past in their hearts, and for ordinary people, they will not casually mention their past to others.
A lot of emotional change starts with listening. If you give your true inner thoughts and past to others, it will cause pressure on the other person.
For ordinary friends, they may only talk about some daily life, but they are more trusting and dependent people.
When you start exchanging secrets and confiding in each other, it is more about comforting each other and warming each other, which can easily cause dependence.
Once people talk about the past, their hearts will be more sensitive and fragile, and at this time they will want to find spiritual sustenance, which is easy to cause unnecessary impact on each other's relationship.
So, don't get too close to each other and don't say anything unless you really want to get to know each other better.
Start exposing your flaws
Most people will show their best side.
When a person will expose his shortcomings in front of you, it is more to attract your attention, to close the distance between you, to let you see his true side, and over time they will have different feelings for each other.
When a person does not have too much defense against you and tells you everything, this relationship is very intimate, which may make the other party mistakenly think that it is love.
To this end, the opposite sex should grasp the degree of good, like to treat sincerely, do not expose themselves while not willing to bear.
The relationship between the opposite sex should have a sense of boundaries, and once the feelings cross the line, the relationship deteriorates.
You may be friends, but because of your behavior, you can't go back to the previous state, and you may lose a best friend.
summary:
Feelings are something that is very complicated, and you have to consider the consequences before doing something.
Before you think about it yourself, don't create unnecessary thoughts for the other person, and don't give the other person the illusion, otherwise it will hurt each other.
Therefore, if the feelings are good, then make a decision, otherwise they will hurt each other.