In 2006, Venus and her German husband Hans, who had just been married for a year, went through divorce procedures.
The staff asked why the divorce was caused, and she replied that Germany had lost because of the World Cup.
So the two divorced, turned around and went to the police station to apply for the hukou of the three adopted children.
After the two went home hand in hand, they continued to live a family of five.
This divorce farce is just to get a hukou for the children,
Venus adopted three children before the two were married,
However, because Hans is a German, an international adoption certificate is required if the child is registered.
Originally, children can also get German hukou,
But Venus insisted that China's children must be Chinese hukou,
The two chose to divorce for the sake of the children, but continued to live together as the parents of the children.
It was not until 2018 that the children grew up and remarried, and a make-up wedding was held.
Venus with a knife mouth no one dares to mess with in the entertainment industry,
She has always been outspoken and admirable, and she said that the whole world admires only one person,
It is her husband Hans, the pressure she bears and criticizes, Hans also has to bear,
But he still chose to be with her and gave up the right to have children.
And the Venus couple endured, the three children she adopted, are also bearing,
What happened to this family of five, who were completely unrelated by blood?
Jin Xing is a talented dancer, who was admitted to the Shenyang Military Region Cultural and Labor Troupe at the age of 9.
At the age of 12, he was admitted to the Department of Military Dance, and at the age of 18, he created the original men's tiptoe dance.
When he was a child, he was always praised by the teacher because he danced too well.
It also makes the students feel unconvinced, and they can't jump him,
He was intercepted and beaten up after school.
But the jealousy of peers did not stop the pace of venus dancing,
He was the first gold medal in the men's group of the Tao Li Cup, and he has been performing abroad since the age of 18.
He has been invited to hold his own dance specials in various countries around the world.
Although it has achieved great success in the career,
But Venus has always wanted to be a woman deep down,
In his memory, when he was five years old, he was taken by his mother to take a bathhouse to take a bath.
Because he was a boy who was going to the men's bathhouse, the difference between men and women impressed him,
And he wanted to be a girl since he was six years old.
Even on a rainy day when it was thundering, he ran out alone,
I want to let a heavenly thunder split on myself, so that I can become a daughter,
But that didn't happen.
Although Venus is very good at dancing, the stage is also charming,
But he never had a girlfriend.
The only time I married a woman was in the United States.
In 1990, at the age of 23, he studied modern dance in the United States.
At that time, he wanted to get a U.S. green card, and getting married was the easiest way.
And his good friend just wanted to live in his house with his girlfriend.
So Venus married a good friend's girlfriend.
But only a nominal marriage, not living with each other at all, no feelings.
Later, his titular wife became pregnant, and the two divorced.
The fortune teller once said that Venus would marry three times, but he did not expect the first marriage to be so sloppy,
And her next two marriages were actually given to Hans.
At that time, Venus was already very sure that she wanted to be a woman,
As the only son in the family, he first had to face his parents.
Initially, Venus's parents strongly opposed their son's sex reassignment surgery.
But at that time, Venus had already made up his mind, and he repeatedly explained his mental journey to his parents.
His parents finally accepted his idea and reassured him,
If someone asks, you're a girl.
It was we who misbehaved you for so many years to raise you as a girl.
But as a dancer, Venus also has to face her own career,
He will change from a male dancer to a female dancer,
The dance style and form will change, and the operation is full of uncertainties.
Even so, Venus decided to take the risk of surgery.
And although this operation was successful, he finally became a woman,
but it also caused a medical malpractice that left her left leg nerve necrosis,
From the calf to the fingertips, there is no consciousness, which is a fatal blow for a dancer.
But when Venus is hard through a year of perseverance,
Letting her left leg return to its original state, she danced on stage as before,
You can show the lines of women, wear beautiful skirts,
His dance skills have not diminished at all, and he is still the leading dancer in China.
After becoming a woman, another dream is to become a mother,
She could not have children and could only realize this dream through adoption.
In 2000, she adopted her eldest son, who had just been born three days ago.
In 2002, she adopted her daughter, who was just three months old.
In 2003, she adopted her youngest son, who had just been born three days ago.
These three children are abandoned children from Beijing, Chongqing, northeast China,
Because of the special fate and Venus formed a new family.
Venus also became a single mother, earning money on milk powder while taking care of her children.
Her mom and sister both came running to help her.
And coincidentally, the younger son looks very much like her, and the daughter looks very much like her sister,
In particular, comparing the photos of Venus and her sister when they were young, they are exactly the same.
But Venus never intended to hide their origins from the children,
Even if they don't say it themselves, they will hear gossip outside.
Her eldest son, in particular, was the most mature of three children,
There is a feeling that the eldest brother is like a father, and he will also help his mother take care of his younger siblings.
Venus told him that she was not his biological mother,
Because I can't give birth to him, I can't give birth to him.
Another mother gave birth to him and made him her own child.
It is precisely because Venus sincerely believes in its educational concept that it treats children as friends to communicate,
Only then can children have their own judgment and opinions.
Later, when the children grew up and went to school, a classmate said to the eldest son,
Your mom used to be a man.
The eldest son replied mercilessly, so what, what is the matter with you.
Children know from a very young age that their mothers are different from others.
I am an adopted child, but I do not feel inferior because of it,
Venus strives to give them the same warmth and love as other children,
The house they live in is a fine villa, and the school they read is an international school.
Not worse than any other child.
But although Venus is a glamorous dancer,
But she also suffered a lot in order to raise these three children,
The milk powder money alone is three times, and she also went from the stage to the screen in order to make money.
In 2005, Venus served as a judge for the dance program "Starry Sky Wu Zhuangyuan".
In the show, not only the skills are shocking, but the poisonous tongue skills are even more impressive.
And Venus's retro shape is also very eye-catching, just right for the dress and cheongsam,
Sitting on the judges' bench without anger and arrogance, full of aura,
This show allows Venus to be known by more people, but the evaluation of her is still polarized.
After all, public opinion on transgender people at that time was not very friendly.
Then Venus immediately received a film invitation, the film party is from Thailand,
She was invited to play a female gangster, starring a Thai first-line actor.
At that time, Venus did not want to act, but the other party was too enthusiastic, and found her several times and three times.
So she offered a very high price, fifty thousand yuan a day.
Unexpectedly, the filmmaker immediately agreed, and this role must be her,
If Venus hadn't had these three children at that time, I'm afraid she wouldn't have lifted her head.
But in order to earn money to support her family, she took over the film.
Venus plays Lady Rose in the movie, a black boss who does illegal business,
Wearing a large diamond ring on his hand, he has exquisite makeup throughout, which is very similar to the shape of Venus himself,
You can feel the pressure across the screen.
In addition to the film, Venus also published an autobiography and often participated in interviews,
He performed everywhere with his own dance troupe and even opened a bar.
In addition to the glamorous side on the stage, privately she is also a hard-working mother,
Once she took her eldest son to Guangzhou to record a show.
Before lunch was over, the eldest son was going to go out to play, and Venus told him not to run far,
So I let the child play by himself, and waited until the dessert to think of getting the child back.
At this time, the eldest son had long since stopped playing outside, and there was no one in the whole hotel.
Venus was pale at the time, asking everyone in the team to help find the child,
She ran down the street and asked if she had seen her children.
At that time, she was like all mothers who lost their children.
It felt like the sky was falling, and I was going to faint as soon as it was dark.
Just then her eldest son got out of their interview car,
I was in a hurry to run to the toilet, and this was found by the staff.
Venus ran over and first gave the child a slap,
Then I hugged him and cried while saying that I would never run around again.
Since then, she has never dared to take her children out to work alone.
I don't dare to let my children go out and play by themselves.
It wasn't until Venus met Hans on the plane that the three children had a father.
However, at that time, Hans fell in love with Venus at first sight and immediately confessed.
Venus truthfully told his own situation, transgender, unable to have children,
He also has three adopted children, so let him seriously consider it.
This cinematic plot frightened Hanston,
He thought about it for one night, and the next day decided to spend his life with Venus.
But initially the children of Venus did not accept this father,
They even thought he was going to snatch their mom.
Once, when Hans was driving, he naturally shook Venus's hand,
Then the eldest son in the back seat suddenly separated their hands and said, "Drive well."
Even Venus bought Hans a hat,
My son would complain about how he didn't earn money himself.
But Hans really treated the three children as if they were his own.
Venus is very busy at work, most of the time he is to pick up and drop off the children to and from school,
He is also willing to take time out of his time to play Ultraman games with his children.
He even bought Ultraman toys and CDs for kids with Venus on his back.
Later, the children mixed with Hans every day, and they became closer and closer to this man.
Originally, they didn't even shout uncles at home, but directly called Hans,
Later, after eating a KFC meal, they changed their name to Dad.
Hans also decided to stay in China and the family formed a traditional family of five.
They rented a bungalow villa in the bustling area of Shanghai,
Inside the female protagonist, Venus, who is busy at work, often does not go home,
Instead, Hans shouldered the responsibility of caring for the children.
But the three children's education method is still traditional Chinese.
For the three children the learning requirements are the same, to complete the homework,
However, it is not required to take the first place in the exam, and it is necessary to exercise appropriately and reasonably control the game time.
For the only daughter in the family, she is also required to learn many traditional skills of embroidery and female worker.
She was also encouraged to learn cooking from her grandmother, and Venus always said to her daughter,
Play mobile phones, iPads can be anyone, embroidery is not everyone can learn.
Venus wants to let the traditional beauty precipitate in the bones of her daughter, and must be rich,
She also protects this daughter the most, and the eldest son opened his own Weibo very early.
The younger son also followed Venus to Lu Yuyou, only this daughter almost never showed up,
Even if you post photos, you must deliberately code your daughter's face.
The personalities of the three children are also completely different, and the eldest son is very sensible from childhood to adulthood.
Take care of your younger siblings like a little adult, many things just need to tell your brother,
Naturally, he would teach his brother and sister well.
The younger sister's personality is more quiet, and the younger brother is very naughty,
The verbal kung fu is even more first-class, and even the poisonous tongue Venus will often be silenced.
Now Venus's eldest son is 21 years old and is studying at a university in the UK.
His name is Jin Ziyong, and he has grown into a handsome man with thick eyebrows and big eyes.
I often share my daily life, especially football-related content, on Weibo.
The eldest son also once sent birthday wishes to his mother Venus on Weibo,
When "Venus Show" was about to return, he also specially reprinted this Weibo to express congratulations.
Other than that, he has no connection with the entertainment industry.
Venus's daughter has also gone abroad to study, and the younger son is still studying in China.
There is no intention of getting involved in the entertainment industry, and they are growing up well.
And Hans, who has lived in China for more than a decade, has changed from a foreigner to a Chinese husband.
Venus once took him with him to participate in the variety reality show "The Amazing Race",
At the same time, the guests also included Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang.
In the show, Venus is very fond of the costumes of the theater,
After putting on one piece, I am not satisfied, and I still have to try on the second and third pieces.
And you have to let Hans go to the dressing room to help.
Hans blurted out standard Mandarin, annoyed to death, making Guo Jingjing and his wife laugh,
Although the appearance of the performer looks like a domineering and exposed woman,
But inside like all little girls who love beauty, Hans also has a straight male side,
This multinational couple has gone hand in hand for more than a decade.
On her 51st birthday, Hans gave her a birthday present.
A custom-made oil painting is also a wedding photo of the two people remarrying.
In the past ten years, the two have not been bound by marriage.
He is also not related to his three children by blood,
That's how five people become a happy family.
Raise children to be healthy, happy, sensible adults.
Venus and Hans are also as loving as ever.
Although Venus's sharp mouth has provoked a lot of right and wrong, her evaluation has always been mixed,
But she is indeed a good wife, a good mother, responsible and responsible,
Such a golden sister who does not say a word, perfect!
| Nancy
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