In 2006, Venus called Hans, who was working, and said, "You fly to Shenyang quickly, we will divorce the marriage", the beloved woman wants to be separated from herself, but Hans said: That's great.
Without saying a word, I bought a plane ticket, but I didn't expect That Venus to come directly to the Civil Affairs Bureau with Hans, and the two spent 50 yuan and divorced in 5 minutes.
When the staff heard the reason for the divorce, their faces turned red and white. However, as soon as I left the Civil Affairs Bureau, I entered the police station.
In 2004, Venus flew back to Shanghai after a performance in Paris, and in the waiting room of the Paris airport, Venus saw a man wearing a gray suit, a golden tie, and a particularly serious German face.
Hans said that when he first saw Venus, she burned a Shanghai child flower head, wore a moped leather coat, miniskirt and high-heeled boots, carried a dog bag in her left hand and a Chihuahua in her right hand.
Venus, who is holding her pet dog "Youyi", worries about disturbing Hans on the side, apologizes to him politely, and the two begin to chat.
Hans revealed his liking for Venus, but Venus was not very cold: "I am a woman who will be a big burden, I have three children, from three different fathers!" ”
She once said: "I adopted 3, not 1, so that they can be each other's support, and do not have to face the eyes and discussion of others alone." ”
Her intention was to scare Hans away, but it didn't happen, and Hans was more curious about her and more fond of her.
Venus was honest and told him all about his identity as a dancer and his transgender experience, and Hans was stunned.
The strict Hans, thoughtful all night, the next day he solemnly called Venus and decided to be with her.
In June 2004, Venus and Hans established a relationship, and they married eight months later.
A year after the marriage, Venus's adopted eldest son reached school age, and she called Hans, who was working, and said, "You quickly fly to Shenyang, we will divorce the marriage."
Venus specifically consulted the content of the adoption section, and the staff explained to her:
"International adoption procedures are particularly cumbersome, and it takes a lot of time to go back and forth."
Venus thought for a moment, she felt that the child's schooling could not wait, so Venus had to think of a way that was not the way.
Hans received a call from Venus, who had just lost the match of his favorite ball game the night before, and was still immersed in grief, but he did not expect to be surprised by a phone call from Venus early the next morning.
At first, Hans was happy to hear Venus mention the divorce because he heard That Venus talk to his girlfriend, and the fortune teller told her that he would have to go through 3 marriages in this life.
Hans has been grumbling about this, which has become a heart disease that he cannot erase.
Venus and Hans's marriage was the second time, which meant that if others were right, he could not stay with Venus.
So, when he heard Venus mention divorce him, his first reaction was: That's great!
After leaving and getting married again, Venus experienced 3 marriages, which happened to be his third term.
And the staff felt so strange, it turned out that she was the staff member who gave Venus a marriage license, she asked Venus:
"You've only been married for a year, so why get divorced?"
Venus thought for a moment and said, "Last night the German team lost the ball game, I don't want to talk to the German, I want to find an Italian." ”
When the staff heard this explanation, their faces turned red and white, and they didn't know what to say, but could only sigh in their hearts: The reasons for divorce for people now are getting stranger and stranger.
After the two completed the divorce procedures, it can be said that they rushed to the police station as quickly as possible.
As soon as the two entered the police station, Venus threw the divorce certificate in the window for handling household registration business and said: You hurry up and settle down for my son!
Now that the child can go to school normally, the two are also at ease.
Venus said: "Thank you Hans for understanding this special system in China."
Later, someone asked Venus: "Just divorce, are you not afraid that Hans will run away later?" ”
Venus said with a look of indifference, "What are you afraid of?" Children come first, and without him I want children too."
Hans was not angry about this, he said: "Even if we don't get married, our feelings are precious and priceless, but if the feelings change, what is the use of the marriage certificate paper?"
A reporter once interviewed Hans with such a sharp question: Since you don't mind Venus's past, how do you and Venus live as husband and wife?
It was an awkward question, but Hans answered it in just four words: I love her.
It is really worthy of being looked at by Venus, and the emotional intelligence is really high!
In 2018, Venus and Hans remarried. Before Hans, Venus had been married once. This is the 3rd time Venus has been married.
Hans said happily, "It's okay, the 2nd and 3rd times were me." ”
Venus once said: I respect all artists, but I have never admired anyone in my life.
The only thing I admire is Hans, marry me, he's so daring!
Be able to accept Venus's complex past, try to understand Chinese culture, and treat these three unrelated children as if they were their own children.
I have to say that Hans really paid a lot in this relationship and is an amazing man.
Venus, as the first transgender person in the Chinese mainland, has been controversial.
She changed from a man to a woman, then married a German man, adopted 3 children, overcame the world, lived out her true self, and harvested a career, love and a happy life with children.
As at her wedding, her mom said, "They deserve the best!"
Have the courage to pursue what you like, don't care about the world's vision, love your children, love your country, and attach great importance to your family.
On stage, she is a dancer with a unique charm; in the company, she is a woman who can make decisive decisions.
She can always let Hans see a different side, always attract him, so that he can be willing to make sacrifices.
After getting to know each other deeply, two people can still love so purely, which is probably two interesting souls!
The love of Venus and Hans is both ordinary and great. Don't care about the worldly vision, just two hearts that fit.
The most touching emotion in the world is this!
