Text: Jade cherishes poems
Editor|Jade Cherish Poems
Preface
Seeing Zhao Liying's "uncompromising" in marriage, I slowly understood why Venus told her: You are strong in love because you haven't met the right person.
For the public, the marriage between Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng was made public very suddenly, and they separated quickly. After three years of marriage, becoming a wife, and becoming a mother, what did she experience? What made her resolutely leave the "siege of marriage"?
Insecure other half
They have been married for three years, they have not had a wedding, they have not held any public ceremonies. In the past three years, everyone has been looking forward to seeing Zhao Liying wearing a wedding dress, but they have waited and waited, and only they have an official divorce announcement.
In someone else's marriage, the insecure may be the woman. In this marriage, I feel insecure Feng Shaofeng. When he was on a variety show, he was once asked why he didn't wear a wedding ring. Facing the camera, he admitted that he did not have a wedding ring, and his wife did not give him a wedding ring.
I didn't believe it at the time when I heard a big star say such a thing, but after thinking about it, their various performances after being together, it seems that the absence of a wedding ring can also be explained. Their marriage came very suddenly, and at that time, less than five months had passed since the filming of their collaborative work "Know" ended.
After Zhao Liying officially announced the news of receiving the certificate, almost the entire Internet exploded, saying everything, some people blessed, some questioned, and some people followed the clues to analyze when they were together. In the eyes of many people, he is not Zhao Liying's "good match", because he is really a well-known "flowery person" in the circle.
Before getting the certificate with Zhao Liying, his "gossip girlfriend" was so many that he couldn't count them on one hand.
Playboy Love
When "Palace Lock Heart Jade" became popular, he and the heroine Yang Mi were rumored to be in love because of the play, and there were many people who were optimistic about them at that time, and some even predicted that they would enter the marriage hall. However, the following year, Yang Mi officially announced his relationship with Hawick Lau.
After the fate with Yang Mi came to an abrupt end, Feng Shaofeng ushered in a new relationship as soon as he turned around. This time, he fell in love with Ni Ni, who was born in "Mou Girl". Ni Ni's appearance made him taste the sweetness of love, and when he was in love, he also took the initiative to help Ni Ni match and introduce network resources.
It can be said that he gave Ni Ni a lot of help at that time. The three years they have been together is enviable, and it is not an exaggeration to say that they are a "model couple" in the entertainment industry. Their happiness is real, and it's true that they don't have fate. Not long after they were together, they still became strangers.
After leaving Ni Ni, Feng Shaofeng began to embark on a "bohemian and uninhibited love road". He has had romantic ties with many female stars such as Song Qian , Lin Yun , etc., but none of the female stars can really make him feel at ease, make him stop and start to take on the responsibilities of the family.
When people walk among the flowers, how can they not get wet?
Although he has read countless women, he is not without nemesis. For him, Zhao Liying is the "nemesis". After meeting Zhao Liying, his temperament changed greatly. He is no longer the playboy, he has become a low-key family man. Not only does he not shy away from talking about Zhao Liying on the show, but sometimes he takes the initiative to show affection.
When he was on a variety show, many of the topics he mentioned couldn't avoid Zhao Liying and his son. Feng Shaofeng's words and deeds have infected many audiences, and those who were not optimistic about him have also changed their opinion of him a little. But in reality, it's all about appearances.
The root of marital disagreement
As the saying goes, if people drink water, they know whether they are warm or cold. Whether this marriage is happy or not, only the parties themselves know. It is true that he loves Zhao Liying, and it is also true that he is "not confident" in front of her.
In an interview, Zhao Liying once said that she is a very strong person in love, and sometimes she can't tell whether the other party is a boyfriend or a staff member, and in serious cases, she may not be able to take care of the other party's feelings. Zhao Liying is really in a word, after meeting him, her "strength" slowly appeared in her marriage.
It is no exaggeration to say that Zhao Liying's "strength" has already appeared in marriage. She is the dominant one in the marriage. If Feng Shaofeng was dominant in his marriage, he would definitely not face the camera and talk about his troubles. He said that he often thinks about whether Zhao Liying really likes to marry him, or is it to fall in love, or to be with him for marriage.
Maybe when he married Zhao Liying and went home, Feng Shaofeng didn't think that marriage would become his "cage", which made him doubt his life. Maybe until the divorce, he didn't really understand what Zhao Liying wanted. Jin Xing has always been famous for "speaking upright" in the circle, I think that when he was close to Zhao Liying, she had already seen the "shortcomings" in Zhao Liying's marriage.
In Jin Xing's eyes, the reason why Zhao Liying is "strong in love" is because he didn't meet the right person. Now look at Zhao Liying's "lonely" marriage, this is indeed true. Zhao Liying has never been a woman who is willing to bow to fate, there are many people in the entertainment industry who have a similar starting point to her, but there are few people who have reached her height.
The choice of the big heroine
Along the way, she relied on a sense of courage and a sense of hardship. She was born in a rural area, and she can achieve today's achievements because of her own efforts. Zhao Liying has endured hardships and knows what it's like to live a hard life. worked hard in the entertainment industry, and it took her ten years to wait for the opportunity to become famous.
In the past ten years, she has run countless tricks, she has sat on the cold bench one after another, she has seen the people around her explode overnight, and she has also tasted the grinding of gossip.
From the day she stepped into the industry, she knew she had no way out, let alone someone to rely on. In order to gain a firm foothold, she can only face the test of wind and rain, no matter how strong the wind and rain are, she can't give up.
is different from Zhao Liying, Feng Shaofeng is the pride of the sky, he was a rich young master before his debut, and he was God's favorite after his debut, and he was prosperous all the way.
Anyone with a discerning eye can see that they are people of two worlds, because they can come together because of love, but love cannot be perfect, and the difference between the three views and the difference in origin is difficult to change.
The older generation often says that you have to find a "right match" to be happy, and now it seems that there is some truth to this, love is beautiful, and reality is cruel. After all, people can't live in beautiful illusions all the time in this life, and sooner or later they must open their eyes and accept the test of the world. She is sober, she sees the shortcomings of marriage clearly, and she also makes a break.
epilogue
If you have to use two words to summarize Zhao Liying's life path, I think the word "headwind" is more appropriate, she was born to play against the wind, she has never been a little woman without a pattern, the world she sees is vast, it is impossible for her to give up her dreams, and it is even more ridiculous to make her a vassal of the family.
Whether it is in the past or in the future, she will be free. This is her attitude towards life, marriage can't trap her, and reality won't defeat her. She's destined to live a shining life, don't you think?