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It's better to be kind than to be kind, listening to this sentence, do you think there is some truth in it? Today, we are going to talk about a person, who may be familiar to everyone, she is Venus, the queen who is well-known in the entertainment industry, she is a sharp comment king on the stage, but she is a gentle and considerate mother in life, she uses her tenacious heart and unique way to walk out of an extraordinary journey on the road of raising children
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First of all, I will tell you about the background of Venus, as a child born in a military family, Venus's life was different from the beginning, she showed a love for dance since she was a child, but the trouble of gender identity continued to stir in her heart, as time passed, she chose sex reassignment surgery, becoming a "unique" woman in the eyes of the outside world, after standing on the stage again, she not only had to face the doubts of the outside world, but also took on the responsibility of being an adoptive mother
On that autumn day in 2000, Venus met her first child, Dudu, at that time, she was facing great pressure and incomprehension, and people around her constantly questioned whether a person who was not related to the child could give enough love, and unexpectedly, Venus responded to all the doubts with love and action
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She told herself that the child is not a continuation of the blood relationship, but a heart-to-heart emotion, in order to play the role of a good mother as soon as possible, Venus is busy with trivial things every day, from changing diapers to bathing the child, every detail is not sloppy, although she was busy at first, but her attentive attitude made this mother-son relationship closer and closer
It didn't take long for Venus's second child to come into her life, this little girl named Nini also has unlimited potential, Venus pays more attention to her education, she will always provide children with rich extracurricular activities, encourage them to explore their interests, for Nini, Venus found that she has a strong interest in painting, and soon found a professional art teacher for her, this free learning environment, so that Nini showed great talent in art
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In order to satisfy his enthusiasm for football, Jin Xing immediately found him a football training class, looking at Xiao Bao running on the field, Jin Xing was not only pleased, but also felt that this was like a mother should do, she often accompanied Xiao Bao to practice, becoming his most solid backing
In the world of Venus, education is not a single oppressive education, but a kind of mutual trust, laughter and happy learning, she always believes in the concept of "happy education", believing that as long as children are happy, they can stimulate their potential
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Speaking of which, many people may start to worry about whether this extremely relaxed environment will cause children to become too lazy. In fact, Venus did not relax the principle requirements for children, in her heart, rules are an indispensable part of education, whenever children make mistakes, Venus will deal with them calmly, instead of simply scolding, she will sit down with children, reason, and help them understand where their mistakes are and why they should be corrected
I remember that once Xiaobao was naughty and trampled on the neighbor's garden without authorization, at this time, Venus was very angry, but she chose to deal with it calmly, and when Xiaobao came home, Venus did not get angry, but let him recall this incident by himself, unexpectedly, Xiaobao later took the initiative to go to the neighbor's house to apologize, and seriously helped to repair the garden, in this way, let him understand the seriousness of the problem, not just because of the punishment of the dissatisfaction
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As the mother of the children, she knows the power of her parents' example, she has never given up her career, and is still shining on the stage, every time she struggles, it is to create better conditions for the children, she hopes that the children will see not only her success, but also the hardships and persistence of working hard
Time flies, when the children gradually grow up, Venus's heart is full of a sense of achievement, and now, the boss Dudu has been engaged in artificial intelligence research in London, and seems to be climbing towards the peak of science and technology; Nini is about to publish her debut novel, becoming a veritable artist; As for Xiaobao, he has been admitted to a university in Hong Kong, and his future path is broader, such growth is not only the result of the children's own efforts, but also the highest embodiment of Venus's "nurturing grace".
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Someone has said that the dedication of nurturing grace is sometimes invisible to the outside world, and may even be misunderstood, which does not affect Venus to adhere to her beliefs, she always believes that no matter how the outside world evaluates, her inner firmness is the most important
In the face of the children's growing sense of independence, Venus pays special attention to communication with them, she never deprives the children of their opinions, and always listens to their ideas and suggestions as much as possible
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In such an environment, the children gradually become sunny and cheerful, brave to face the challenges of life, in the face of the previous criticism of her, Jin Xing has long stopped caring, she just wants to be a loving mother, with her love to influence everything around her, to cultivate more excellent people
With love and patience, Venus has successfully shaped the children's personalities and become the warmest guide on their life path, and when she looks back at the steps along the way, her heart is full of relief, because she knows that nurturing grace is like water, trickling down, nourishing the lives of children
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This nurture is not only Venus gives the children a warm family, but also invisible guidance and support, Nurture is the most precious wealth of parents, whether she can be biological or not, it does not affect the emotion between parents and children, Venus uses his own experience to let us understand that the family affection in the world is not only blood, love is the bond that can cross everything
The story of Venus has taught us a lot, birth and nurturing grace, is representing different levels of love, birth is to give life, and nurturing is to give the soul nourishment, I hope that every parent in the nurturing can accompany the children with sincerity and warmth, and achieve a better future
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