The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be said to be a problem that is difficult to distinguish between right and wrong and difficult to solve. Sometimes it is justified to say that the public is reasonable, and the mother is reasonable, but in fact, there is no so-called right or wrong in the problem, but just look at the problem from your own point of view. In Taierzhuang, Shandong, such a thing happened, the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law quarreled, the mother-in-law's behavior can be said to be described as tough, she sat down directly on the floor of the living room, patted the floor with slippers, and then directly lay on the ground and rolled, and such a scene was recorded by the daughter-in-law, and the son next to her stood indifferent. This is also because this contradiction often occurs in the family, the son has become accustomed to it, the mother and wife are all meat for him, and it is not appropriate to help anyone, so no one helps. Not to mention the problem of quarrels between them, the son is not able to solve, so he can only stand silently to the side and watch things develop.
Quarreling with the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law lay on the ground and rolled, and the son stood indifferent
When the woman posted this video on the Internet, she explained the best problem between her and her mother-in-law, which turned out to be just a simple trivial matter, and the mother-in-law held on to it. This is not once or twice, since the mother-in-law has lived in their home, often interfering in their lives, feeling that the daughter-in-law is not satisfied with what she does.
This time and the daughter-in-law quarrel, the mother-in-law is to feel that her son is being bullied at home, and even feel that the daughter-in-law is too strong, so as a mother, she wants to protect her son as much as possible, and a fierce quarrel occurred with the daughter-in-law. In fact, this is completely unnecessary, because the mode of getting along between husband and wife is their own business, and neither person feels that there is a problem, but enjoys it, and what do other people do with so much?
In order to avoid her son's loss, this mother-in-law really managed enough, playing tricks at home, lying on the ground and rolling. I would like to say that an old lady in her 50s is really open-minded and completely disregards her face.
In the face of such a scene, her son stood indifferent, just watched quietly, did not persuade his mother to get up, did not accuse his wife, and completely acted as a person who had nothing to do, as if watching the hilarity from the side.
The reason my son was indifferent was because he was used to it, and this kind of thing often happened in the family, and he did not have the ability to solve it
In fact, this son stood aside without persuasion, feeling that it did not matter to himself, because he was used to this kind of quarrel often occurring at home, often because of a little trivial matter, but he did not have the ability to solve it. On the one hand is the mother who has raised him for many years, and on the other hand is the wife who will spend the rest of his life with him, the palms of his hands and the backs of his hands are full of flesh, and he does not want to offend anyone.
And the mother and wife are from their own point of view to see the problem, the public is justified, the mother says that the wife is reasonable, for this kind of thing, he has no way to give a clear right and wrong, can only stand on the side silently, which is actually an irresponsible performance. Because the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law originally had no relationship, it was because of this man that their lives were closely related. As a son, as a husband, he has the responsibility and obligation to coordinate the contradictions that occur in the family and stabilize the harmony of the family, rather than standing idly by and letting things develop.
So in my opinion, this son standing on the side indifferent, is really too irresponsible, and his actions like this are a manifestation of lack of responsibility. You know, he didn't want to offend his mother and wife, but his inaction had hurt both of them even more.