Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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In the relationship, the more men take the initiative in the relationship, the more women's happiness bursts, and the relationship will be more lasting!
Therefore, many times, some women listen to such "poisonous chicken soup", and some "initiatives" for men lack the ability to identify true love.
In the interaction between men and women, not all the initiatives of men are for the purpose of managing love.
In the eyes of some women, some of the initiatives of men are to regard themselves as "their own people". In fact, some of the initiatives of men are precisely because they do not love, how can they regard women as their own?
Here, to remind women - the more men fake love, the more active these 3 situations are:
First: Take the initiative to tell you that you are "poor"
In the relationship between men and women, honesty is inevitable. But when a man is really in love with a woman, even if he is really poor, he will not tell the woman.
Because, the man who really loves you, if he is really weak in financial strength, he will work harder to give you a future. Even, if a man is not financially strong enough, he will even confess to you with appropriate delay.
Never think that a man who fully exposes his poor self to you is overwhelmed by loving you too much.
If a man talks to you about love, but takes the initiative to tell you that he is poor, he must not love you! His purpose in "confessing" to you in this way is nothing more than two:
I want you to be willing to love him and be financially "satisfied".
Don't want to pay anything for the relationship at all! After all, there is no cost to move your mouth!
Money is a necessity for a person's life! Money is not a panacea, but no money is impossible!
However, when it comes to money, in order not to let people go astray for material desires and harm others and harm themselves, we must guide others positively while disciplining ourselves, and we are always familiar with each other as the way of survival of "a gentleman loves money and has a way".
In order to get out of the predicament and make your quality of life better and better, you must make positive efforts not to destroy the rest of your life and not to let others become consumers of your own desires.
This is the way a person lives that deserves to be praised.
The man who gives you money doesn't necessarily love you, but the man who never spends money on you doesn't love you.
In particular, a poor man who doesn't spend money and cries only loves money (and most likely, he loves the money in your pocket)!
Second: Take the initiative to cross the line with you, but never confess
In this open moment of marriage and love, the ambiguity and transgression between men and women are often mistaken for the prelude to the establishment of a relationship between men and women.
In the face of men's enthusiasm, women generally think they are loved. When a man and himself transgress, the woman rejoices even more! But in fact, feelings that cannot be formally expressed have never had anything to do with love.
Men who cross the line with you but do not love you have the following performance:
Will chat with you every day, and the message log is filled with ambiguity.
I will talk to you a lot of love words, but all of them are all alluded to in the most euphemistic form.
Will be alone with you very late and will give you the same care and comfort as your boyfriend.
They will hold your hand, pat you on the head, and even hug you in your arms when you feel bad or cold.
In his mobile phone, there will be photos of you, and it will also capture your most beautiful moments one by one!
Because there are other people of the opposite sex who contact you, they will use a non-angry language, and you are yin and yang weird!
In an interaction that crosses the line, you think you're just making a confession. In fact, you are nothing more than the object of his enjoyment of being admired. Or maybe you're just one of his centrally air-conditioned warmers!
Some men are like this, disturbing your heart with ambiguity, but never thinking of inviting you into his life! He knows his own transgressions and ambiguities, but he never wants to be responsible for your affection.
Therefore, you can only stay in the stage where the lovers above the friend are not enough, and you are always tormented by being sad together, separated and unwilling!
How can a man who truly loves you be willing to let you be in an ambiguous relationship for a long time? If he truly loves you, he will give you a formal confession.
If a man's ambiguous relationship with you has lasted for more than 3 months, you can consider stopping the loss in time!
Third: Actively hide your relationship
Two people who truly love each other will not deliberately bask in happiness. They will only inadvertently present each other in their own lives at certain moments because they love each other deeply, and they are not afraid of the light of the relationship.
In the feelings, let the relationship between each other see the light, is a necessary way in the relationship management!
If, a man who says he loves you, but never wants to see your relationship, or even very much minds that you show the relationship to someone you know together...
It just goes to show that you've never been loved! At least, you've never been deeply loved!
In the hearts of men who actively hide your relationship, in addition to affirming that the odds of the rest of your life are slim, your relationship will have infinite uncertainty.
If a man really loves you, your flaws and strengths are where he accepts and loves deeply, so he will tell the world about your relationship from the heart and naturally.
If a man doesn't love you, he cares a lot about the exposure of your relationship! Because he doesn't love you, he is worried that the light of your relationship will affect his "normal life" - the marriage relationship he really wants to have!
Don't listen to men who are saying that there are too many "reasonable reasons" that you need to hide from the relationship. You, unless it is a special work need, do not need to hide the existence of relationships at all. Isn't it?
If, a man hides your relationship, from this moment on:
Let you no longer have a relationship with each other, is the best respect for yourself.
Otherwise, you're being too rude to yourself!
A man, if he really loves you, will not take the initiative in the three situations of confession on the word "poor", not confessing but crossing the line, and hiding the relationship!
In a woman's life, marriage and love life can be most related to happiness. Life is short, don't waste too much precious time, energy, and even money because of a man who doesn't love himself.
Only by giving up the wrong person can we usher in the right person!
No matter how affectionate you are to a man, he does not love you, what is the meaning of your affection?
Women, to know how to love themselves.
A woman's love for herself starts with choosing the right lover!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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