Yi Shu said that no matter when, proposing marriage is the highest respect a man has for a woman's love.
When women are younger, they often desire stable relationships and family marriages more than men, and most women are in love and rush to get married. But there are also a few women who may not be so serious about feelings, and they are in love just to play with men.
In relationships, both men and women may be deceived and hurt. As men, how do we identify women's sincerity? How to tell if this woman wants to marry us?
A woman really recognizes you and wants to marry you, and there will be performance in her, which is nothing more than accepting two words.
Tolstoy said that if you love a man, then love him as a whole, love him realistically as he is, not out of touch with reality, and hope that he will be like this and that....
So true love is actually all you can accept about that person, for better or for worse. If you find that your woman is willing to accept these things from you, it means that she really loves you, she recognizes you, and she wants to marry you.
01. Accept your ordinary
Pride and Prejudice has this sentence: Marriage without talking about money is absurd, and marriage that only talks about money is stupid. Frankly, money is too important for women, and women prefer rich men because women want to live a better life.
So if you are very ordinary and have no money, there is a woman who is willing to stay away and follow you. Whenever you have a problem with money, she is very patient to comfort and encourage you, and she will not put too much pressure on you.
In her eyes, she cares more about you than material. She believes that as long as you work together, you will live better and better. She does not dislike your ordinary, willing to fight with you, indicating that she is ready to go with you all the time.
It's a good woman, and you don't want to live up to her.
02. Accept your shortcomings
Young writer Zhang Hong once said: Marriage is not 1 + 1 = 2, but 0.5 + 0.5 = 1. That is, two people each cut off their own personality and shortcomings, and then make up together.
There is often a view on the Internet that marriage is one plus one equals two, and I still agree more with what young writer Zhang Hong said. After all, most of us are ordinary people, and our marriages are not strong unions, but warm together.
In my opinion, as ordinary people, we want to live a better life, no matter what, tolerance is essential. After all, no one in this world is perfect.
Not all people will tolerate our shortcomings, if a woman knows your shortcomings, she is willing to choose you, it means that she has long wanted to understand in her heart. She is going to marry you, she recognizes you, although you are not perfect, but you are the man she wants to marry, and these shortcomings in you cannot resist her determination to marry you.
03. Accept your family
We often say that when you marry you are not married to a certain person, but to all the social relations of that person. So what kind of family you marry, what kind of marriage you will have.
So when we choose our marriage partner, we also look at each other's original families.
Konishi is a girl with her own ideas, independence, and when she has not yet met her boyfriend Photon, Konishi thinks that the influence of the original family on the personality shaping of men and women is very important. Xiao Xi did not want the boyfriend he interacted with to have a psychological problem and an unsound personality, and at that time, Xiao Xi also asked the other party's original family to be happy and happy when he found a boyfriend.
Photon is from a single-parent family, in the memory of Photon's childhood, his parents often quarrel, it can be said that Photon's childhood and family life are not happy at all.
However, Konishi said that although Photon's original family was unfortunate, she loved Photon very much, and Photon was also a very responsible and responsible man, so Konishi finally decided to accept Photon's unfortunate original family.
A woman wants to marry you, that's it, no matter what your original family is, poor or rich, unhappy or happy, she will still choose to be with you and never give up.
Men need to know that a woman can accept you all, whether you are good or bad, shows that she trusts you very much, and she is willing to bring you into her world and suffer all the good and bad consequences with you. Such a woman is really brave and loves you. You must cherish and accept the ordinary, flawed, and family of the woman next to you, so that you will be happy.