"Dear Little Child" is a portrayal of the reality of marriage? Or is it really selling anxiety as the People's Daily says? Indeed, there is a suspicion of selling anxiety, but it is also a detailed portrayal of the real life of many families!
The suspicion is that it concentrates all the problems encountered in real marriage in one family, magnifies the painful side of marriage, and forgets the sweet side.
However, for example, in the process of a woman's pregnancy and childbirth, the skin spots become worse, the chest is loose and sagging, stretch marks, body shape, etc., which is indeed in real marriage, 90% of women will experience... Moreover, in reality, it may be worse, such as some people who have postpartum constipation, hemorrhoids, and even postpartum depression... Wait, and the play is only part of the performance.
Another example is the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which also abounds in the real family, not to mention whether the man brings or does not bring children together, and the problem of cheating, there are many in reality, right?
Indeed, women have some misery in marriage, and no one can replace them! However, they have the right to choose, to marry or not to marry, to have children or not to have children, but since they have chosen to marry and have children, they should anticipate the hardships they will have to endure and the problems they will face! However, in this process, "husband" is a very important role in determining whether your marriage will last.
Therefore, men, don't think that women should get married and have children, they should take their babies to wash and cook and do housework, or think that you women are pregnant and have children. Instead of being able to tolerate her, you can't empathize with her, you can also warm her with love and understand her... Then she will also feel that it is worth it to suffer more!
Each other leaves more beauty in each other's life, and when they encounter difficulties, they will read each other's good and have the courage to go on.