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My name is Wang Lin and I am almost 40 years old this year. I used to think that I was living a fairly happy life, with a husband who cares about the family and a naughty and cute son. However, life is always full of unpredictable uncertainties, and my life has changed completely in one incredible turn after another.
I am an ordinary housewife, and my daily life is as usual, I will wake up early, cook breakfast for my husband, and then send him to work. After that, I would be busy taking care of the house, and occasionally chatting with the neighbors and sharing some household chores. My husband is a gentle and steady person, and although he sometimes has some troubles at work, he always cleans up these worries and tries not to worry me when he comes home.
And my son Xiao Ming is a naughty but sensible child, he has good grades in school, and he often comes back to us with some awards to see, and my husband and I are always proud of his progress. Although he can be mischievous sometimes, those are just minor faults, and I can always tolerate and understand them.
However, my life changed with a single phone call. It was an ordinary afternoon, and I was preparing dinner when I suddenly received a call from my husband, who told me in a nervous voice that he was going to marry a young girl. I couldn't believe my ears, and my heart was filled with endless loss and anger. I asked him why, but he didn't hesitate, just saying that he and I didn't have a relationship anymore. Hearing this, I felt like a thunderbolt from the blue, and I desperately asked him what was going on, but he just kept avoiding it. Finally, the call ended, and I stood in the kitchen staring blankly at my phone, tears streaming down my face.
After that, my life was like losing my center of gravity and everything became extremely difficult. My husband left home, his job was lost, and I had to take on the burden of the family on my own. I tried to keep myself busy so that I wouldn't think about the things that made me sad, but whenever the lonely night came, I couldn't control my thoughts and could only cry silently alone.
And what makes me even more heartbroken is that my son Xiao Ming seems to have been affected by his father's departure. He began to become rebellious, stopped listening to my advice, often did not return late at night, and did not tell me where he went. I tried to communicate with him and persuade him to change his mind, but he just coldly avoided my topic. Gradually, I felt powerless and hopeless, as if the whole world was saying to me: You are already a wasted person.
I looked at Xiao Ming, who was becoming more and more strange in front of me, and my heart was full of helplessness and anxiety. I used to think that I would be able to lead him to a bright future, but now, I feel helpless and even helpless. I tried to find my husband and hope that he would face this problem with me, but he kept running away from him, as if he had left us behind.
"Xiao Ming, what the hell are you doing?" I asked anxiously, standing in the doorway, looking at his embarrassed appearance.
Xiao Ming raised his head, his eyes revealing a hint of indifference and indifference, "It's nothing, I just went out to breathe." ”
"Breathable? At this time, are you still out there? My voice rose up, "Do you know how sad this is for me?" Your dad has left us, you can't let yourself do that anymore! ”
Xiao Ming suddenly sneered, "Left?" I don't feel sorry for him to leave what we should have done a long time ago. ”
My heart pounded, and I tried to control my emotions and try to calm myself down. "Xiao Ming, how can you say that? Your dad also left for something, and you can't blame him blindly. ”
Xiao Ming retorted mercilessly, "I know that he left because he had a new woman." He doesn't love you for a long time, do you still expect him to come back? ”
These words were like a sharp knife into my heart, and I felt a sharp pain. I tried to hold back my tears and try to calm my emotions. "Anyway, he is your dad after all, and we should give each other some understanding and tolerance. You can't give up on your future just because of that. ”
Xiao Ming was silent for a moment, then smiled mockingly, "Future? What future do I have for me? I knew I was destined to be like him, useless. ”
When I heard this, my heart was even more painful. How I wish I could give him some hope and courage, but the reality is so cruel. I knew that I had to find a way to change this situation and not let Xiao Ming continue down the wrong path. But what can I do?
I decided to ask for help, even though I didn't know where to start. In my loneliness and despair, I recalled some episodes of conversations I used to have with my neighbors' aunts, who always seemed to know some solutions to family problems. So, I decided to talk to them.
The next morning, I knocked on the door of my neighbor's aunt, Aunt Li. Aunt Li is an older and experienced woman, she is always friendly to me, and I am sure she will give me some good advice.
"Wang Lin, what's wrong? Is there anything I can help with? Aunt Li asked straight to the point.
I stammered and confided in her about my predicament, describing the situation of my husband's departure and my son's rebellion. Aunt Li listened to my story, her eyes full of compassion and understanding.
"Wang Lin, I can understand your current mood. However, you can't be helpless in the face of this situation, you have to be strong and find a way to solve it. Aunt Li said in a firm tone.
I nodded, looking at her gratefully. "But I really don't know what to do. I felt like I had reached a point where I couldn't go back. ”
Aunt Li smiled, "Child, you have to believe that nothing is impossible." First of all, you have to have a good talk with Xiao Ming and listen to his thoughts and inner voice. Perhaps, he just needs some care and understanding. ”
I thought silently for a while, and felt that Aunt Li had a point. "Well, I'll give it a try. Thank you, Aunt Li, your advice is really important to me. ”
Aunt Li smiled and patted me on the shoulder, "You're welcome, Wang Lin, remember, you are not fighting alone, we will all support you." ”
I felt a warmth welling up in my heart, and I decided to take her advice as soon as possible and have a good talk with Xiao Ming. I know that it will be a challenging process, but I am willing to work for the harmony of the family.
When I got home, I found Ming playing a game in his room. He frowned when he saw me come in, clearly not welcoming me.
"Mom, are you bothering me again?" Xiao Ming said impatiently.
I tried to keep my composure and sat on the edge of his bed, "Xiao Ming, we need to have a good talk." ”
Xiao Ming turned around and looked at me disdainfully, "What are you talking about?" You want to educate me again? ”
I shook my head, "No, I want to know what you think." Why did you become so rebellious? Do you have any confusion or dissatisfaction? ”
A trace of hesitation flashed on Xiao Ming's face, but he quickly became indifferent again, "It's nothing, I just don't like you to care about me." ”
I took a deep breath and tried to keep my emotions in check. "Xiao Ming, you know what? I have always loved you and I will support you no matter what happens. You can share anything with me and I will listen. ”
Xiao Ming was silent for a moment, as if thinking about my words. Eventually, he sighed and put down the game console in his hand, "Perhaps, I just feel lost and lonely." ”
My heart moved, and this might be the answer I had been looking for. "Why do you feel lost and lonely?"
Xiao Ming raised his head, and there was a hint of helplessness in his eyes, "Because Dad left us, because I felt useless." ”
My heart was like a knife, I never thought that Xiao Ming would feel so depressed because of her husband's departure. "Xiao Ming, you are not useless, you have your own dreams and future. You have to believe that as long as you work hard, everything will be fine. ”
Xiao Ming lowered his head and pondered silently. I know this is just the beginning and we still have a long way to go, but I believe that if we put this together, everything will change. I held Xiao Ming's hand tightly and vowed to accompany him through every difficulty and give him a warm home.
As time went on, the communication between me and Xiao Ming gradually increased, and he began to gradually open up and share his thoughts and troubles with me. I realized that our relationship was slowly improving, and I was incredibly gratified.
With the joint efforts of Xiao Ming and me, he gradually got rid of the rebellious stage, began to study hard, and found his interests. I gave him as much support and encouragement as I could, helping him through the difficult times of growing up.
At the same time, I also try to adjust my mindset and learn to accept and face all the challenges in life. Although my husband's departure was a huge blow to me, I couldn't bask in grief all the time, I had to pick myself up for myself and my son.
In the process, I also received help and support from my relatives and friends. They always cared about me and Xiao Ming, gave us selfless care and help, and made me feel the sincere friendship between my family.
Slowly, I began to regain my confidence and courage in life. I know that despite the great tribulations I have experienced, I have not been struck down by life, and I still have the strength to meet the challenges ahead.
In the end, Xiao Ming and I walked out of the shadows together and regained the hope and joy of life. We have become each other's strongest support, facing each day together.
Now, looking back, I know that every setback in life is an experience of growth, and every difficulty is an opportunity for transformation. I am grateful for everything life has given me to become stronger and more mature.
Despite the pain, I still have hope that tomorrow will be better. I am willing to use my strength and courage to meet every challenge in life and create my own happiness and joy.
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