As the old saying goes, when you get married, these two kinds of people must stay away, one is Ma Bao Man, and the other is "Voldemort".
These two kinds of people are moths in the marriage relationship, and their feelings are also in a confused state, without their own opinions, turning a blind eye to the hardships and efforts of their partners, and their minds are on the original family.
Such a person is not suitable for marriage at all, and will only bring endless burdens to the partner, making a good marriage a shackle for both parties.
Unfortunately, the protagonist today, he met a real "Voldemort".
Guo Chao and Xiao Meng have been married for more than a year, the two people are not highly educated, and the work is also a very ordinary working class, so the wages of the two people add up to barely reach 10,000 yuan per month.
Guo Chao is not afraid of hardship, every day he wants to do more work, and save money when he returns home. In two years, the couple can change to a bigger house and have a child, so that there is hope for life.
Although the national super league is well planned, real life will always run counter to ideals.
Xiao Meng has a younger brother in the family who does not learn any techniques. Xiao Meng thinks that she is the eldest sister, and it is a matter of course to take care of her younger brother. When there is nothing to do, he will stuff some pocket money for his brother, and even buy him valuable designer shoes.
At the beginning, Guo Chao thought that this was just a simple comparison of being a sister and a younger brother.
Guo Chao is a man who takes care of his family, and all his income is handed over to his wife Xiaomeng to manage. Because Xiaomeng himself is also a very frugal person and has an orderly plan for life, Guo Chao is not worried.
But after a long time, Guo Chao found that there was something wrong with Xiao Meng. It is reasonable to say that there is no secret between husband and wife, but Xiaomeng will always deliberately call behind his back, and his whereabouts are also sneaky.
Guo Chao as a husband naturally left a special eye, one day after dinner, both people sat on the sofa to watch TV, Xiao Meng's mobile phone rang again, and then Xiao Meng quickly went to the toilet, Guo Chao also followed closely behind and quietly listened to Xiao Meng at the door of the toilet to listen to what Xiao Meng said.
Although he only listened to a few sentences, Guo Chao also understood the reason for Xiao Meng's abnormality, and it turned out that Xiao Meng often gave the money earned by the two people behind his back to his brother to spend.
Although Xiao Meng's younger brother is not very good in his career, his mouth is very sweet, and he coaxes his sister to willingly transfer money to him every time.
On the surface, what the National Super Knows has already subsidized twenty or thirty thousand yuan before and after, not to mention those who secretly beat it behind their backs.
Now the two brothers and sisters directly behind their backs to contact, that is certainly not a small amount, so the national super specially took a time to check the bank card of the family deposit, and found that there were only a few thousand yuan on the card.
This made the national super instantly angry, two people married for more than a year, no car loan mortgage, saving four thousand five thousand a month is certainly no problem, how can it be more than a few thousand a year, where did this money go?
So that night, Guo Chao sat on the sofa waiting for Xiao Meng to return, and his face was not very good.
Seeing Xiao Meng open the door and come in, Guo Chao didn't even want to ask: Why is there only 5,000 yuan in the card, and the rest of the money is not taken by you to spend it on your brother?
Xiao Meng saw that her husband was angry, and without saying a word, he bowed his head and was silent, and it seemed that he had acquiesced. Guo Chao looked at Xiao Meng's appearance and was also angry, while reprimanding Xiao Meng for not being measured, while saying that Xiao Meng's younger brother did not learn no techniques.
Slowly the two men became more agitated, and after more than a year of marriage, the two broke out for the first time.
Guo Chao asked Xiaomeng not to subsidize her brother anymore, but Xiaomeng felt that the eldest sister was like a mother, and she had to take on various responsibilities for her brother.
The two quarreled about this matter for more than half a year, and every three forks and five were cold-eyed, even so, Xiaomeng still did not realize his mistake, and whenever his brother had any needs, he would still transfer money to his brother in a big way.
The intolerable GuoChao finally chose to divorce, he shouted a little dream: Your brother is a bottomless pit, if you can't understand it yourself, then let's not be together, divorce.
As soon as the husband said that divorce could frighten Xiao Meng, even with his brain cleared up a lot, he repeatedly promised that he would never subsidize his brother, and the quarrel between husband and wife was only stopped.
Guo Chao saw his wife's assurance and thought that his wife was sincerely correcting it, and did not return the salary card, and the two people continued to live the previous life.
Xiao Meng did calm down for a while and did not give money to his brother, but after a long time, Xiao Meng could not stand up to his brother's soft and hard bubbles, and turned from the open side to secretly transferring money to his brother, Guo Chao was busy at work, and did not fortify Xiao Meng, so he was completely unaware of his wife's secret behavior.
Until Little Dream Appendicitis was hospitalized, minimally invasive surgery was required in the hospital. Looking at Xiao Meng lying on the hospital bed because of the pain, Guo Chao was heartbroken and broke down, and quickly took the bank card to withdraw money.
Enter ten thousand, the result shows that the balance is insufficient, and then enter five thousand, or show the balance is insufficient. In the end, the national super only took 2,000 yuan out, but 2,000 yuan was simply not enough money for hospitalization and surgery.
Helpless, Guo Chao could only call relatives and friends to borrow money, which allowed Xiaomeng to successfully perform the operation.
It was also at this moment that Guo Chao realized the terrible point of "helping the brother demon", so that not only could not save a penny, but even all the money earned would be used to fill the pit of the little dream brother, and if the parents and family needed anything in the future, they could not get a penny out, such a day was really terrible.
After his wife's illness was almost recovered, Guo Chao still chose to divorce.
He told Xiaomeng that the money for your surgery was borrowed, and you didn't have to pay it back, but let's get a divorce. Thank you for letting me stop the loss in time, otherwise the next time if I am lying in the hospital and encounter this situation, it is estimated that I will only have to wait for death.
The little dream in the case was confused about feelings and affection because it was not measured, and eventually led to the loss of this marriage.
At the same time, it also tells everyone a truth, the small family after marriage is also our home, and it is our first home, which is to be operated in the main position. There is nothing wrong with loving your brother, but if you are a bottomless pit-like brother, blindly indulging in your brother is not good for yourself.
So it's okay to help siblings, but to help without principle will only backfire.
These actions are slowly destroying your marriage.
If a woman wants to be happy after marriage, she must have a discussion with her husband about everything, not be self-centered.
It is even more important not to put the cart before the horse and let others affect the feelings between themselves and their husbands.