Text: Jing Ma
If the elderly in the family have no time or can't take the child because of physical reasons, many families can only ask a nanny, but when they ask a nanny, they are a little scared, after all, from time to time on the Internet, I see a nanny abusing children! #头条创作挑战赛#
Some nannies secretly give sleeping pills to their children, and some nannies pinch their children while their parents are away, or even scold and beat their children.
Last month, a Ms. Liu in Hunan said that she had spent 6,000 yuan to hire a nursery teacher in her family to abuse her child many times!
And when she found out that the nursery teacher was abusive to her child in the monitoring, and reprimanded her face-to-face, the nursery teacher looked indifferent and did not admit her mistakes.
Later, when the police came, the nursery teacher apologized, which also shows that it is definitely not the first time to do it, and the psychological quality is extremely high.
Li Xiangyu and her husband opened a small supermarket, and they didn't think it was very cost-effective to invite someone, so the two husbands and wives took turns to work in the supermarket.
When Li Xiangyu gave birth, her mother-in-law came to help, but when the child was half a year old, her mother-in-law accidentally broke her leg, so she called her father-in-law to take care of her mother-in-law. When hiring a nanny, Li Xiangyu also emphasized that she must be experienced.
After the nanny came, it happened to be the May Day holiday, and the flow of people in their supermarket became larger, and Li Xiangyu and her husband were busy in the supermarket day and night.
After being busy, I found that the child's crying became less after the nanny came, usually the child has to cry in the middle of the night to get up to drink milk, now basically not get up in the middle of the night, when the child comes home at night, the child has fallen asleep, I feel that the child is much more well-behaved.
Li Xiangyu's husband felt that there must be a demon when something went wrong, and the two couples wondered if it was the nanny who gave the child sleeping pills. After all, the things that the children usually eat are given by the nanny, although the mother-in-law watched it, but she turned around and put the sleeping pills into the milk powder or into the porridge, and the mother-in-law didn't know.
Fortunately, the couple has installed several pinhole cameras in the house in advance, and there are almost 360 degrees in the home.
The two couples turned up the monitoring and saw the scene very moved, it turned out that the nanny took her 6-month-old child, taught the child to do a variety of early education actions every day, let the child sit, and let the child lie on his stomach, his child was only 7 months old, so that he could already climb two steps, and also sang nursery rhymes to his son, which is not only a nanny, has become an early teacher.
The reason why the child sleeps so well at night is because he is often given activities during the day, and the child can naturally sleep well at night when the amount of activity is enough.
Li Xiangyu's husband came home at night and said to the nanny: Xiao Wang, you have been at our house for a while, the child is very good, I think what we give you is the salary of the nanny, you should be worthy of the salary of early education, so we give you an additional 500 yuan per month, thank you for bringing our children so well, so that the two couples can go to work without worries to make money.
The nanny was also very happy to hear it: Thank you, Brother Huang, I also went to learn some early education courses during this time, and found that it makes sense, it just so happens that your child is so young, I will teach the child according to the suggestions above the early education course, and I am also very happy if you think it is good.
Many parents are also very cold when they see some news about nannies on the Internet, and they don't even dare to hire a nanny, but what we can see is actually only a small part, and we can't waste food because of choking.
How to get a reliable babysitter? Mainly look at these points
The first point: choose between 30~45 years old
Babysitters of this age have already had children or brought a few children, and the physical quality is okay, so that they can be more assured with children, after all, some children have to get up in the middle of the night when they are young.
The second point: work experience
How many children have you brought with your work experience? How long have you been with it? If the nanny takes a child for a year or even more than two years, it means that the main family is actually satisfied. But if this nanny changes jobs frequently, she is not a confinement nanny, she is a nanny, and she will change the head of the family in half a month or two months, then you should be cautious.
Point 3: You can ask some professional questions
For example, how to make complementary food for children? What should I do if my child has a red buttocks? What is the coaxing of a child to sleep? If the nanny is honest or even pointing fingers at these professional questions, it is very likely that she is more experienced.
Point 4: Understand the basics of babysitting
For example, where is the home? Where is the Hukou booklet? Where is the ID card? Where is the detailed address of the home? It's better to have an introducer.
What do you think is the standard of a good babysitter?
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