What should I do if I have a baby and don't have time to raise it?
Asking a babysitter to help keep an eye on the kids? Too expensive
Calling the elders in the family to take the children? The concept of parenting is different, and it is easy to have contradictions.
难~
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Recently, an incident happened in Zhejiang, which brought this issue to the hot discussion forum again.
The two-year-old baby Haohao had no symptoms of syphilis, and after the whole family screening, it was found that only the grandmother was positive.
Further understanding learned that grandma has a habit of like to chew food to feed Haohao. Doctors say that the only source of syphilis is syphilis patients, and if the patient contaminates the food due to oral bleeding, saliva, etc., the contaminated food can transmit syphilis to the person who eats it.
Therefore, this traditional way of feeding with chew feeding, with great risks, is now not recommended.
Because of this incident, this grandmother's behavior was also scolded by netizens.
This child was miserable by his grandmother, because even if syphilis is cured, with the current level of medical care, his syphilis test will be positive...
In other words, he probably doesn't want to participate in the units or activities that require physical examination reports in the future.
It's even a problem to find a wife or something...
How can there still be such a backward way of feeding?
Because of the different concepts of parenting, many expectant mothers do not agree with their grandparents to take care of their children.
But this thing also has drawbacks, and you have to be afraid to go home for a reunion dinner now.
The elders give vegetables to the younger generation, and the younger generation is afraid of any infectious bacteria and the like, so they dare not accept it;
The elders are sometimes afraid that the younger generation will dislike them, so they can only bluntly express "I've grown up again", and they don't dare to mess around with the dishes.
Now it seems that the difference in parenting concepts may really make the family relationship of the three generations gradually estranged.
So what to do?