Most people want to be happy for a lifetime, and they can go from green silk to whitehead with the person who walks into marriage.
However, it is easy to get a certificate, but it takes a lot of thought to want a lifetime of love. Marriage is a profound science, and no one dares to pack a ticket to say that everything can be worry-free for a lifetime without effort.
Even if the foundation of the relationship is good, if you don't know how to manage it, over time, love will be exhausted.
If you want to be harmonious and have a firm feeling, you must understand that some details of each other's relationship are very important. Those loving couples usually do these things before going to bed to ensure the long-term stability of the relationship.
See if you've done that?
01 Talk about each other's thoughts before going to bed
In today's society, the development of the network, mobile phones have become an indispensable part of life. Someone quipped that the time and number of times in a day to look at the phone is more and longer than the time to see the partner. This is not an exaggeration.
Since smartphones have become the communication end of everyone's hands, family, couples, friends, etc. have less and less time to talk and chat, often face to face, and may also hold mobile phones to communicate.
It is said that the development of communication has made the feelings between people more and more indifferent, including husband and wife.
Two people are obviously lying on the same bed, close at hand, but they are one person and one machine in hand, indulging in the world of the Internet and unable to extricate themselves.
Such a situation is actually very unfavorable to the promotion of couples' feelings, and may even be lost in the mobile phone, after all, the social platform is developed, it is convenient to communicate with the outside world, and human nature is difficult to withstand the test.
Loving couples often do not appear to hold their mobile phones before going to bed, but will take off the masks they have worn for a day, let go of all the disturbances in the outside world, and treat each other calmly.
Talk about the things you have recently encountered, your feelings in your heart, what difficulties you have encountered, seek each other's spiritual comfort, and find a solution to the problem together.
It is said that communication and communication are a bridge between husband and wife, and the best secret to maintaining marriage is to understand the thoughts in each other's hearts and find ways to pay.
The reason why some couples no longer have feelings and marriage cannot go on is that they are immersed in their own world, refuse to communicate and communicate, so that there are many contradictions and frictions, and as a result, feelings are also consumed indefinitely.
Before going to bed, it is the most relaxing time of the day, remove the protection of the soul, open and honest, in order to let the other party feel your sincerity.
02 Talk about housework
Modern people have a lot of work pressure and a heavy burden on their shoulders, and it is easy to ignore some things in the family.
But marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also the relationship and relationship between the whole family, children, the elderly, and relatives and friends, which can not be taken into account, it is easy to have very serious consequences.
In terms of children's education, if the husband and wife always argue in front of the child, it is easy to cause the child not to know which party to listen to, so it is actually a good choice to put the husband and wife communication on the child's education before going to bed to talk.
If there are elderly people in the family, sometimes because of the identity of the daughter-in-law or son-in-law, the small contradiction is aggravated. But if the husband and wife can do some communication in this regard before going to bed, the two agree on the same opinion, and the family dispute is avoided.
Busy work during the day, returning home from work to do housework, managing children and the elderly, husband and wife also only have time to understand each other's thoughts before going to bed, so before going to bed, the relationship between relatives and friends, all the trivial matters in the family, for the long-term harmony and stability of the family, in fact, has a very important role.
03 Resolve the day's contradictions
Marriage is different from love, love is a matter of two people, but marriage contains a lot.
When two people live together, it is inevitable that contradictions and disputes will arise because of various habits or trivialities. However, it is not terrible that problems arise between husband and wife, and the terrible thing is that they do not know how to solve them in time, so that contradictions accumulate too much.
When the accumulation reaches a certain point, I am afraid that there is no way to solve it, and at that time, any one thing can lead to the disintegration of the marriage.
Therefore, loving couples understand that the contradictions of the day are resolved on the same day, as far as possible, before going to bed, the husband and wife communicate well, and spread out the ideas in their hearts and views on the problem, so that they will not accumulate contradictions.
With the idea of complaining and gambling, the number of times is more, and the days are long, which is not conducive to the development of feelings in a good direction.
04 Express your feelings before going to bed
Many people feel that confession is a matter of love, and they have become husband and wife, and it is too meaty to say things like "I love you". But in fact, this is not the case.
Most people like to be noticed by each other and determine each other's affection for themselves, which is called "security" in marriage.
Between husband and wife, the most important thing is loyalty and trust, and love should be expressed so that the other party can feel it.
If before going to bed, couples often say "I love you" to each other, or have intimate behaviors such as hugging and kissing, falling asleep with this sweet feeling is of great help to deepen the feelings of the couple.
And those loving couples will not be stingy in saying "love".
Xi Murong said that marriage is not only two people facing each other from now on, marriage should be two people holding hands to face the world together.
From the life of one person to the state of two people, not only lying on one bed, can ensure a lifetime of harmony and happiness.
A truly beautiful marriage will not isolate you and my world, but penetrate each other into each other's bits and pieces.
The two sides take into account each other's feelings, will consider the problem from the perspective of the other party, and the two people hold hands and feel each other's temperature at any time.
And any relationship needs to be managed with heart.
If husband and wife can do these things before going to bed, I believe that the love between each other will become deeper and deeper, and life will become more and more beautiful.
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