A few days ago, Master You's daughter Yuanyuan wanted to take him home, because Master You had lived in his brother's house for a while, but Master You said that he would not go home with his daughter at all, and in his words, he trembled when he saw his daughter.
It is reasonable to say that Master You is not the next door Wu Lao'er, played by Zhao Benshan, why do you shiver for no reason when you see your relatives? Although Master You is not Wu Lao'er, he has Wu Lao'er's illness, cerebral infarction plus Parkinson's, even if he walks on crutches, he is slowly moving.
Master You said that he would not go home with his daughter at all, he said, my wife hated me for being clumsy, so she beat me, and you did this to me, how dare I go home?
Yuanyuan disagreed with her father's statement, as a daughter, she did smoke her father with her mother with the soles of her shoes, but this was to hate iron not steel, and the ultimate purpose was to let him strengthen his rehabilitation exercises, make his waist straight, and stand up.
The scars on the cheeks of Master Keyou clearly said that his wife and daughter were forcing him to complete something that he could not reach, and he could not stand and fall down, but did he have a bruise?
Yuanyuan said to her father in a serious tone, I don't want to do this to you, but I do this for my mother!
I understand Yuanyuan's idea that only when the father recovers a certain degree of self-care ability can the mother reduce the pressure of care and get a certain relief.
Yuanyuan came to the door to find her stepfather
Master You's younger brother, who is also Yuanyuan's uncle, can't see it, and the niece's so-called help for her father's rehabilitation training, even normal people are reluctant to do it, not to mention an old man who can't take care of himself, he accuses his niece of having an excessive attitude towards his father.
Yuanyuan felt that her uncle was just standing on the moral high ground to attack her, and she said bluntly to her uncle, you have not experienced the pain I have experienced, what qualifications do you have to accuse me?
The uncle ironically said, yes, I really haven't experienced what it's like to hit my father. It can be seen that the father is unwilling to go home with his daughter, and the uncle can't see it, which can only show that Yuanyuan and her mother have indeed done too much.
Don't blame Master You's brother for not waiting to see his niece, because Yuanyuan is not her niece at all, which means that Master You is not Yuanyuan's biological father either.
Master You and his wife Hao Dajie are a half-way couple, the two married 15 years ago, each had a daughter when they got married, of which Hao Dajie's daughter was Yuanyuan, when she was studying in Shanxi, after graduation, she moved her hukou to her stepfather's name.
Master You was sick for not a day or two, how did Yuanyuan start to force him to rehabilitate? The reason is simple, Master You has moved into her house.
It turned out that Master You and Sister Hao had been living in a nursing home before, so they had nothing to do with each other, and when they lived in the stepdaughter's house, they became stepdaughters to serve, how could Yuanyuan be willing to suffer this burden?
Master You said he didn't want to go home with his stepdaughter
If forcing Master You to recover can be seen that the mother and daughter are not very good to Master You, then the previous practice can be described as having bad intentions.
As early as the year before, Sister Hao did the work of Master You, asking her husband to transfer the only house in his name to her name, and the reason given by Sister Hao looked very reasonable:
If one day you go before me, I have to have a guarantee in case your daughter sweeps me out of the house.
It is normal to think about it, Hao Dajie was only 42 years old when she married Master You, and this year she is only 57 years old, whether in terms of age or physical health, Master You is much better, and she really needs a guarantee for the second half of her life.
Of course, Sister Hao will not ask for a house in vain, she gave Master You a promise that she would take care of him and send him to the end of his life.
With a promise to easily exchange for a house, Hao Dajie's shrewdness can be called a million profits, but afraid of being swept out of the door, obviously Master You is right? According to my speculation, the reason why Master You transferred the house to Sister Hao, in addition to being fooled by his wife's acting skills, there is also a brain that is not clear after the illness, right?
Master You's own daughter, Xiao Min, later discovered that the house had been transferred to her stepmother, for which she was very dissatisfied with her father and stepmother.
The wood has become a boat, Xiao Min gritted her teeth and endured, she thought, as long as the stepmother can give her father a pension, she will no longer care about the house.
Hao Dajie's acting skills are online
Hao Dajie's later operation, changing any normal person, can no longer believe that she can provide for her wife and children to the end, she actually sold this house, a total of 540,000 cash, and took the money for a small house that completely belongs to herself.
What does that mean? If the old house retains master You's shadow, the new house and Master You have no relationship at all, and master You's rest of life is arranged by Sister Hao at will.
Sure enough, after the house arrived, Sister Hao arranged Master You to the next step, and she tricked Master You into signing a divorce agreement with herself, and Master You was confused
target
Signed.
Sister Hao let Xiao Min carry the pot again:
I divorced you because I was afraid that your daughter would always come to haunt me, but it did not delay my commitment to give you a pension.
See? As long as the old two are divorced, in what capacity does Xiaomin still make trouble with Sister Hao?
Regardless of whether Master You gave the house and divorced it out of intention, Hao Dajie's salary is "sincere and sincere", after some operation, she takes care of her ex-husband's promise, Master You himself does not believe it, right?
When Sister Hao invited Master You back to the sanatorium again, she was rejected by Master You, and the two had neither husband nor wife relations nor property relations, and Sister Hao could take care of herself in the nursing home with nursing staff.
Master You regretted it, he only wanted to return to the house money, otherwise there would be no place to retire.
Master You regretted his decision
What is a disagreement? What is a set of surfaces and a set behind? Looking at the inconsistent words and deeds of Sister Hao after her husband's illness, we can draw a basic judgment.
If it is a loving couple, shouldn't the normal script be that the wife will not abandon her husband after her husband is ill, and take care of her husband's recovery wholeheartedly?
Sister Hao never said not to take care of it, even after the divorce, she was still insisting on verbally fulfilling her promises, but her way of taking care was somewhat leisurely, and she and her husband moved to a nursing home together.
Look at it, the nursing home has nurses, not only can take care of the husband, but also take care of themselves by the way, anyway, the convalescent fee husband to pay, the husband's disease, not only did not restrain himself, but let himself live more comfortably.
Why do you have to go to a nursing home? Because the house was sold by Hao Dajie, her reason was justified, and she let her husband use the house as a name in exchange for her commitment to the second half of her husband's life.
Why do you have to get a divorce? Because he was afraid that after selling the house, the husband's own daughter would come to the door to make trouble, so he cleared up the relationship and let Xiao Min make a name for himself.
The reason why Ming Xiuzhan secretly crossed Chen Cang, normal people can see at a glance what she thinks, and the blame is that Master You is often confused after he is ill, lacking normal cognition and judgment, he is too eager to be taken care of, so he makes this kind of confused thing.
Ask Sister Hao, won't your conscience hurt?
Sister Hao and Yuanyuan
A slap does not make a sound, Hao Dajie's divine operation is inseparable from Master You's divine cooperation, even if Master You is confused, he should remember that he still has a daughter, and major life choices should greet relatives, which is common sense.
Why did Sister Hao successfully get Master You's house? Why did you successfully sign a divorce agreement with Master You? Because Master You is confused when he understands, for example, when he lets himself fall into the empty wealth, he is confused, and when he regrets it, he understands.
But Master You's own daughter Xiao Min is a person who understands, if Xiao Min intervenes, Master You's marriage can be divorced, but the house is absolutely impossible to give, the house is the bottom line of any person who is a child for his parents, after all, it is his own property.
Master You are confused, you should also understand, what is the difference between blood relatives and relatives who are not related by blood, for example, the simplest example, your stepdaughter Yuanyuan in the name of helping you recover with the sole of your shoes to smoke you, if you change to your daughter Xiaomin, will she do such a hand to the father who is seriously ill and has mobility problems?
The biggest mistake Master You made was that after being confused, he also made a claim for his wife's so-called promise, and didn't he know that every practical action of Sister Hao was the opposite of verbal promise.
Confusion is not terrible, there are always sober people to think for you, willing to stand on your side, often relatives.
Yuanyuan and mediator
Although the husband and wife are also husband and wife, Master You's encounter still reminds us that remarriage is different from the first marriage, and there is nothing wrong with leaving a back road for yourself while treating each other with sincerity.
Whoever it is, remarriage is much more complicated than the situation faced by the first marriage, because reorganizing the family requires more consideration of two practical factors:
First, in terms of emotional investment, it is impossible to reorganize the family as sincerely as the first marriage, not only have their children distracted, but also have reservations because of the impact of the previous marriage breakdown, anyway, they can't be distracted.
Second, the reorganization of the family in the distribution of property, but also because of the existence of their respective children to become complicated, after all, the two common children naturally inherit property, and the two children brought over to compete for property, is a different concept.
What does Master You eat more than just a dumb loss? The divorce is small, the transfer of the house is big, and his self-assertion has made himself lose his real pension dependence at the same time, but also let his daughter lose the power of legal inheritance of property, which has harmed two generations.
It is necessary for remarried couples to sign a prenuptial agreement before marriage, clearly demarcating the boundaries of the property of both parties and the responsibilities and obligations they need to bear, even if the marriage changes, they can rely on the agreement to get together and disperse, eliminating a lot of trouble.
Master You still underestimates the evil of human nature, and sometimes it is the law rather than marriage that can protect rights and interests.
Mother and daughter
postscript:
Master You finally regretted it, it was the stepwife and stepdaughter who used the soles of the shoes to force him to carry out rehabilitation training, so that he was sober, and the so-called commitment of the stepwife to take care of himself in the second half of his life was to take the soles of the shoes with his stepdaughter to smoke himself?
This shoe sole not only woke up Master You, but also made him realize that he was really homeless.
In the next step, if Master You wants to protect his vital interests, there is only one way to go, that is, to sell the house money back through the law, as long as he can prove that when the house is transferred, he belongs to the person with limited capacity, after all, when people are confused, there is no third-party family present, and the agreement can not be counted.
If you can recover the money from the sale of the house, I hope that Master You's own daughter Xiaomin will keep the money instead of her father, and her own daughter will not ignore her father at any time, even if one day her father leaves, Xiaomin can also justifiably inherit the family property.
Master You told us from personal experience that what can really give people a pension is the ticket in his pocket and the food in his home, which has nothing to do with any promise.