Adult love: transfer money and marry you.

If you don't have a lot of money, you have to have a lot of love.

I brushed a video this morning about a girl breaking up with her boyfriend.

In the video, it was supposed to be the seventh anniversary of the love anniversary that the two people celebrated together, but only the girl was left alone.

Alone, she took many of the places they had frequented over the years and walked again.

Everywhere she went, she looked forward to seeing him, but he didn't show up.

She bought herself two tulips and a small cake.

She said:

"There are 25 pieces of these two flowers, and you always said you wanted to send me, but until we separated, you didn't send them."

Seven years of feelings, survived a long-distance relationship, survived countless times of points and unions, and finally failed to enter the marriage as promised.

The song she had said she was going to sing to him at the wedding scene was now sung alone to the camera.

Watching the whole video, I felt infinite sighs in my heart.

Adult love, sweet words, promises of sea oaths, are really fragile, simply can not stand the test of time.

No wonder some people say:

"Adult love, either transfer money or marry you. Other than that, it's all bullshit! ”

Her friend Yuanyuan also broke up with her boyfriend last week.

The reason for their separation is very realistic, because the boys' families cannot afford the bride price.

In fact, it is not really impossible to give, but because they do not want to give.

They had said many times long before they broke up that they had been together for so long that it was time to consider getting engaged.

But every time this topic is mentioned, the boyfriend has a look of indifference, even an avoidant expression.

He always said that it was still early, or that their family's economy was not good and they could not come up with so much money.

Yuanyuan's parents originally ordered a dowry of 100,000 yuan, but Yuanyuan repeatedly pleaded, saying that the boyfriend's home conditions were not very good, don't be too embarrassed for them.

Under her soft and hard bubbles, her parents also relaxed, as long as eighty thousand, not one hundred thousand.

Mom told her:

"We want this money, not for ourselves. I hope that you can use this money to do something for your new family after you get married, and also to see their family's attitude. ”

But it is a pity that the man's family will not even give 80,000 yuan.

They had been together for three or four years, and Yuanyuan had almost never accepted the boy's financial contribution.

Every time they go on a date to eat, it's aa. Every New Year's Festival, the WeChat red envelopes he gave to Yuanyuan did not exceed one hundred yuan at a time.

Yuanyuan said:

"In fact, I'm really not trying to make money with him, our family wants a bride price, and we just want to see his attitude."

I told her that even if you wanted his money, you wouldn't be wrong.

They are all adults, love can not have the feelings of drinking water, talking about money is very normal, there is no need to be ashamed of it.

True love needs to be soaked in chai rice oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, bread is needed, and food, clothing, shelter and transportation need to be considered.

It is impossible for two people to live a life without mere love.

And now I believe more and more that love without considering marriage is as shallow and stupid as love without thinking about money.

A person who truly loves you will not only take the initiative to talk to you about money, but also take the initiative to plan you into the future and give you a home and home.

A while ago, Du Haitao and Shen Mengchen finally got married.

Their mutual friend revealed that in fact, Du Haitao had already proposed marriage a long time ago.

He had long been ready to marry her home and give her a home.

That day, seeing the Weibo hot search, I suddenly remembered Huang Zongze and Hu Xing'er, they had been together for seven or eight years, and the boys also knew how much the girls longed for marriage, but they had not acted.

There are also Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi, and the boy vows that when the girl is thirty years old, he will definitely marry her.

But the girl is thirty years old, waiting for a sentence: You have loved the sea, I have loved you.

The writer YiShu once said that no matter when, proposing marriage is the highest respect for a man's love for a woman.

If you don't have a lot of money, there's going to be a lot of love.

If there are neither, such love is like a bamboo basket hitting water, and the result is empty.

As long as the person who really loves you, even if you don't have to knock on the side, in the case of emotional development, he will take the initiative to discuss marriage with you.

Because if you really like someone, you want to have a future with her and have the rest of your life.

"Some people say that people's lives encounter love, encounter money is normal, only understanding is precious, I think this is ridiculous, in many cases, understanding is important, but love and money are more important." 」

Love and money are never contradictory relationships.

People who love you are not only willing to spend money for you, but are more willing to give you more time and love.

Chai rice oil and salt and wind and snow coexist, three meals a day and gentle romance coexist, you can wear suits and shoes to eat Western food together, you can also slippers and shorts to take you to eat roadside stalls.

The hukou book has your name on it, the keys to your home and the pay card are willing to give you, and the rest of your life.

Such a person who says that he loves you is worth your lifelong delivery.

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Author: Tea Tea, Source: Little Tea Night Reading (vipyq95), please contact the original author for authorization.