"Finally survived until the child is 3 years old and can go to kindergarten", most parents think so. But do you know that the small class of the child's transition will make the child adapt to the kindergarten in advance, but not all babies are suitable for going.
The two-year-old baby went to the kindergarten small class, and MengWa's daily performance made Bao Mom regret it
Her friend Yuanyuan's daughter is two years old, and she has already found a kindergarten for her child and is ready to send her to school next year. But before that, in order to let the child adapt to the life of the kindergarten in advance, she first reported a kindergarten transition class for the child, that is, the "small class".
Because the daughter was brought up by Yuanyuan, the daughter always likes to stick to her and does not put her father in her eyes. Moreover, Yuanyuan's daughter's self-care ability is also relatively poor, eating, drinking water, and going to the toilet, all of which are inseparable from the help of her mother. There was no way, Yuanyuan could only send her daughter to the kindergarten class.
In this "small class", all the children under the age of three are sent in by parents in order to cultivate their children's self-care ability and lay a good foundation for kindergarten.
Yuanyuan paid her daughter for half a year's fee, and as a result, her daughter cried every morning and broke her heart and lungs, and she was sick for a week after two days. Sick to go again, sick again, Yuanyuan are worried about the hair has gray hair, really regret should not give the child this "small class".
So, is it not a "small class" that all children cannot attend kindergarten? No, not so absolutely, in my experience, I think there are still certain benefits to going to kindergarten small classes, which can help children adapt to kindergarten life in advance, and when the child officially goes to kindergarten, there will be no more serious separation anxiety problems.
However, parents should also look at the specific situation of their children to see whether they should apply for this class, and some children are indeed not suitable for kindergarten in advance.
Children whose parents are more dependent
Some parents are because their children are too dependent on their parents, always clinging to their mothers, and their self-care ability is relatively poor, and parents only give their children this "small class", in fact, it is not right to do so. Because the child is too dependent on her parents, it means that her sense of security is poor, and she cannot leave her parents before the age of three.
Why? Because 0 to 3 years old is a critical period for young children to cultivate a sense of security, their ability to survive at this stage is very limited. Therefore, in spirit and life are very dependent on parents, this kind of spiritual need is not replaced by others, parents should try to accompany their children as much as possible.
When the child's sense of security is full, the difficulties he encounters in kindergarten will be relatively small. The more dependent the child is, the worse the child's sense of security, and the more parents should not let the child leave his side early.
A baby whose physical fitness is not very good.
The child leaves the parents to go to a strange place and be with the strange person, which is a double test for the child's psychology and body. Many children with poor physical fitness often get sick after going to kindergarten after the age of 3, not to mention going to a "small class" at the age of two.
Children who are not very physically fit, they often get sick after they go, the most heart-wrenching is still the mother, and the child can not get the actual exercise. Therefore, children with poor physical fitness should try not to go to work "small class" to avoid frequent illness of children.
Babies who don't have good language skills.
The level of language expression ability development of each child is actually very different, if your child's language expression ability is relatively poor, it will be difficult to communicate with kindergarten teachers and children. Therefore, the child's language ability is not very good, do not send to the kindergarten "small class" in advance, otherwise it may cause interpersonal difficulties, and once the child is not social for a long time, it will have a great impact on her personality.
Of course, the above three types of babies are not static, if the relevant abilities are improved, the child can still be sent to kindergarten. So what do parents do so their children are ready for kindergarten?
▼ Cultivate children's self-care ability in advance, and it is easier for children to go to kindergarten.
Children go to kindergarten and at home is not the same, a lot of things have to be done by themselves. Therefore, parents can cultivate their children's independence in advance, eat, drink, dress, sleep, they must let the children do it themselves, must not be used to it, or parents do it single-handedly.
In fact, the best way to cultivate children's self-care ability is to use the way of playing games to take children to do these things together, or to use the reward mechanism of behavioral habits to drive children to do housework. For example, when the child has completed the behavior of eating on his own, we can reward the child with the small red flower sticker that the kindergarten likes to use, which is really effective for the child.
▼ Guide children to yearn for kindergarten life.
Parents communicate more with their children before they go to kindergarten, guide their children to yearn for kindergarten life, and can also alleviate their children's anxiety about entering kindergarten. For example, you can take your child to visit the kindergarten, and you can guide your child by reading picture books and other ways to make the child have a beautiful yearning for the kindergarten.
▼ Cultivate children's language expression skills and social communication skills in advance.
Language expression skills and social communication skills are necessary for children to live in kindergarten collectives. If your child's language skills are poor, they may have difficulty interacting with other children. Therefore, parents can talk and chat with their children, read parents and children, or take their children out to contact more people, so that they can cultivate their children's language expression ability and social communication skills in advance, so that it is easier for children to enter kindergarten.
Children always have to go to kindergarten, in order to better adapt, parents should make plans early. And sooner or later the child will leave the side of the parents and parents, we are ready to let the child grow step by step, and each step of the child's growth will be more smooth.
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