Text/Wood Ye
01
Qiong Yao is really good at beautifying human nature.
When I was a child, I watched "Huan Zhu Gege", and I was touched by the friendship between Ziwei and Xiao Yanzi, and when I grew up, I found that those seemingly beautiful feelings were actually mixed with many realistic interests.
Take the case of Ziwei recognizing her father, she gave the keepsake to Xiao Yanzi, and as a result, Xiao Yanzi mistakenly became a Zhu Gege.
In this matter, Xiao Yanzi did not do enough bright and honest, saying that she was a good sister who suffered and shared, but betrayed Ziwei behind her back, not only occupied the father of others, but also robbed the status of Gege, which is really plastic sisterhood!
Xiao Yanzi's reason is that she has wanted to be addicted.
Isn't this reason also quite selfish? Put your feelings ahead of friendship.
Therefore, Ziwei's reaction was also very reasonable, crying at the parade procession that Xiaoyanzi had deceived her, and the sisters were about to turn against each other.
To tell the truth, no matter what reason Xiaoyanzi had, she did fail Ziwei. From Ziwei's point of view, she was deceived by Xiaoyanzi.
Even if Xiao Yanzi later took the initiative to admit her mistake and said that she was seriously injured at that time, she was confused for a while, in fact, it was not a reason for Ziwei to forgive. Even if you forgive with your mouth, you will resent the other party in your heart.
Just like you asked your friend to give a sum of money to your parents, but your friend swallowed it, and then cried with you, saying that he was injured at the time, just confused for a while, but now I can't think of it, please forgive me, what do you think?
Besides, it was the father who was robbed, and the recognition of the father was Ziwei Niang's last wish, how can this matter be forgiven?
However, Ziwei not only forgave Xiao Yanzi, the relationship between the two people was better than before.
When I was a child, I felt that these two people were really pure and beautiful, and then later, I didn't like Qiong Yao very much, and I felt that what she wrote was completely incompatible with human nature. Later, I found that Qiong Yao was really a master, she was not ignorant of human nature, but she quietly hid human nature behind the beauty.
02
Ziwei forgives Xiaoyanzi, partly because she is originally kind and affectionate, but the bigger reason is that this is the best choice at the moment.
The emperor had already recognized Xiao Yanzi, and he liked Xiao Yanzi very much, and decided that she was his own daughter. If Ziwei insisted on telling the truth, the emperor would not necessarily believe that she would not say it, and even if she did, it would be very awkward to get along later.
As Erkang said: "The emperor is the emperor after all, even if it is wrong, it is not wrong." He had already preconceived that Xiao Yanzi was still Zhu Ge ge, and now a Xia Ziwei had emerged, he must be thinking, he recognized a Huan Zhu Ge Ge, and now Ah Cat and Dog all wanted to be Ge Ge. ”
The emperor of a country, of course, the most important thing is the face, so Ziwei tells the truth, not only is it unpleasant, but also hits the emperor's face, even if she really proves that she is the emperor's daughter, the emperor will not like her from the heart, so that her life in the palace will not be good.
Moreover, Xiao Yanzi not only had preconceived notions to win the dragon's heart, but also won the support of the Five Brothers and Ertai. Xiao Yanzi also ran over so sincerely to apologize, crying to return Zhu Gege to Ziwei, preferring to die herself rather than fail Ziwei.
In this way, everyone's emotional balance will tilt towards the little swallow. Ziwei was living in Erkang's house again at that time, basically having nothing, and if she did not forgive Xiao Yanzi, it would be equivalent to losing all the hearts of the people.
A person who sent people under the fence made everyone think that she was cruel and how to live in the future.
It can be said that without forgiveness, she will not get any benefits, and forgiveness can bring a lot of benefits.
First of all, it captured the hearts of everyone, and she forgave Xiao Yanzi for this kind of thing, and everyone's emotional balance was naturally willing to tilt towards her, and she was more willing to help her.
Sure enough, after she forgave her, even Fujin wanted to accept her as a righteous daughter.
Secondly, to maintain the sister of Xiaoyanzi, people are already still Zhu Gege, there is such a Ge Ge sister, always good for themselves, even if they can not help themselves to recognize their father, at least, her identity will be elevated, only good for life and no harm.
Moreover, as long as she forgives XiaoYanzi, Xiao Yanzi will never be able to raise her head in front of her, because Xiao Yanzi is the one who has done something wrong, and Ziwei is the one who forgives generously. Xiao Yanzi should always miss this love, and then return it with more affection.
Ziwei is a person who is very good at judging the hour and sizing up the situation, which can also be seen from the third part. After Xiao Yanzi and the fifth brother left the palace, she quickly became friends with Zhihua.
If you change Xiaoyanzi, you will definitely not do this, because in Xiaoyanzi's heart, feelings come first, and in Ziwei's heart, realistic interests are more important than friendship.
03
Like Ziwei, who has selfish intentions, there is also Erkang.
He likes Ziwei and wants to marry Ziwei into the door, but he is opposed by his parents, because Erkang is the future horse that the emperor looks up to, and his marriage does not count by himself, and even his parents cannot be the lord.
If Ziwei does not restore her gege identity, she will not be able to match Erkang, nor can she talk about marriage, even if she is a concubine.
Therefore, Erkang suggested to everyone that Ziwei enter the palace and find an opportunity to tell the truth.
On the surface, what he said was: "My wishful thinking is that the true and false are true and false, and the emperor likes it, and he is reluctant to do so, maybe he will accept the two of them together." ”
But in fact, according to normal logic, as long as Ziwei enters the palace, the emperor may discover Ziwei's identity, and even if the true and false grids are exposed, it is only Xiaoyanzi who is in danger.
The emperor could not kill his daughter, he could only kill the counterfeits.
Xiao Yanzi did not know the stakes, the fifth brother knew, so he was the first to stand up against it, and Ertai also objected, accusing Erkang of being too dangerous and selfish to do so.
Miraculously, even Ziwei said, "Ertai is right, I don't do it, as long as it threatens Xiao Yanzi, I won't do it, you are really selfish." Originally, what you were most afraid of was that Xiao Yanzi's identity would be seen through, and now you actually made such a proposal, you are so terrible. ”
Brother Wu and Ertai like Little Swallow, and it is normal to oppose it. It is very interesting that Ziwei opposes, and when she opposes, she says that Erkang is selfish, and it is not Erkang who recognizes his father, how can he be selfish?
It shows that Ziwei has guessed the truth behind it, and Erkang wants Ziwei to recognize her father, and they can only be together if they recognize her father. Of course, Ziwei wanted to be with Erkang, but she had already established a persona with heavy feelings before, and now whether she was sincere or false, she had to continue to maintain this persona.
Anyway, as long as Xiao Yanzi agrees, this thing can be done. And Ziwei can always occupy a moral advantage.
In fact, Ziwei also knew the stakes of this matter, but she still refused while entering the palace, in the end, she did not really want to refuse. The matter of recognizing daddy is too important, a thousand times more important than XiaoYanzi.
In the third part, when Xiaoyanzi was about to kill the emperor, Ziwei blocked in front and said: I will not let you kill my father!
Her choice is already obvious, if you must choose one of the two, of course, you have to father.
This can also understand why xiaoyanzi left the palace later, and Ziwei never went to see her again, but became friends with Zhihua. Between her and Xiaoyanzi, in addition to feelings, more dependent on interests. When the interests are large enough, they are the best friends, when there is a conflict of interests, they can turn against each other, and when there is no interest, there is no need to communicate.
Don't be chilled, this is the truth of human nature.
Qiong Yao gave Ziwei the best ending, because Aunt Qiong Yao understood too well, a person who can calmly think in the face of anything and make a decision after weighing the pros and cons has no reason to be bad.
And a person who is impulsive and reckless in the face of things and will only be emotional will live like a small swallow.
Ziwei played a bad hand well, although there are trade-offs and selfish sides, but it has not harmed people, and she has a sincere heart for people, such a person is actually very perfect.
The most important thing about making friends is to allow each other's feelings to be less pure, otherwise, I am afraid that I will not be able to make a few friends in my life. After all, people like Xiaoyanzi are too few and too few, and such people are generally not easy to live well.