Many people know that Tu Lei is an emotional teacher, but they don't know that he has three love experiences.
In the program, the host Zhou Qun asked Tu Lei: "Are you familiar with Qiong Yao?" ”
But then I thought about it: "You are so cold, you should not be familiar with it." ”
How could Tu Lei, who has been in the battlefield for a long time, be overwhelmed by such a question, he said:
"I feel very good about Qiong Yao's work because we are all pure people.
To love, to love;
To hate, to hate.
Clear, clear, black and white. ”
Not only did he exaggerate Qiong Yao's works, but he also raised his own concept of love.
If it was more than ten years ago, Qiong Yao's love may still confuse everyone, but now who agrees with Qiong Yao's love?
Just like the sentence: "You just lost a leg, but Zi Ling lost love!"
Not to mention that Qiong Yao's own love is a dog blood drama.
How can it be pure?
Zhou Qun saw that he used so many adjectives.
While laughing, I asked doubtfully: How many times have you been in love with so many overlapping words?
3 times!
Tu Lei said that the first two paragraphs were all because of "distance".
And said with great vigour: height is not an issue; age is not an issue; but distance is really a problem.
His wife, Xiao Maruzi, is 9 years younger than Tu Lei.
She once said: Where there is you, there is my home.
It turns out that the way to eliminate the distance is that the other party follows him.
The mountains don't come, I pass, and that's nothing.
But Tu Lei's next words caused a lot of repercussions.
He spoke of his relationship with his wife: like a father like a brother.
Zhao Chuan, who was standing under the stage, was immediately unhappy.
He said: In my opinion, Tu Lei's wife raised him as a son.
When recording the show, the wife had to prepare all the clothes for him.
Write a memo on a slip of paper and gently put it in his pocket.
"Who else but my mother can do this?"
Coincidentally, Tu Lei also said such a thing: the bride is the new mother.
02
Although Tu Lei is known as an emotional mentor, his college major is computer.
If you don't enter this industry, IT is also the hottest industry in the next decade or so.
Enough for him to have no worries.
After graduation, he soon became the general manager of an engineering company.
Later, he moved to another company, and in March 2004, he was even promoted to the position of president's secretary.
It looks like everything is thriving.
However, Tu Lei also has a lofty ambition.
In order to make more money, he took a risk: doing business.
This time, however, fate did not favor him.
The hard-earned 500,000 yuan was cheated away in the blink of an eye.
On the show, Tu Lei also said that he was opportunistic and mercenary.
So being cheated is also deserved.
At that time, he thought that only money was pro,everything else was fake. ”
After the business was cheated.
Tu Lei, who had nothing, turned to the media industry.
At first, he worked as a commentator for a TV station, much like Meng Fei's previous job.
It's a newspaper news where you distill its point of view.
Borrow the topic to play a little, a bit like the current self-media.
He did a good job, very naturally.
In daily life, a humble gentleman's appearance,
Talking in the show, he is simply a knowledgeable scholar.
Later, he became an emotional mentor.
The rhetoric has changed dramatically, but the tone still maintains the original style.
It always gives people a feeling of bitterness and hatred, and they can't put it down.
The painting style also has a sense of déjà vu.
Unnatural is unnatural.
"Dress up as a cat" feels that Tu Lei, the most suitable person, is still a traditional news commentator.
But he couldn't stand the new style he brought to the emotional circle.
In the past, emotional guests were mostly gentle and elegant, and their words were gentle and gentle.
As soon as Tu Lei came, he immediately changed the silent rules of the past.
He was sharp and to the point;
He is ruthless and goes straight to the heart;
Unexpectedly, it is such a style that many viewers especially like.
Of course, it is inseparable from his own efforts.
For the frequent mouth out of the golden sentence, Tu Lei once explained:
I'm a pragmatist, and I'm not so much about reading as I'm talking about endorsing.
I memorized it first, and used it first.
After using it, slowly you will become your own person.
03
Before this, I also liked him quite a bit, three views of the right, sharp language.
Later, I once watched one of his episodes and have been insensitive ever since.
The female guest and the boyfriend are in love, and the man's grandfather does not like her to buy so many shoes.
Say she spends a lot of money.
However, every penny this girl spends is earned by herself.
Didn't spend her boyfriend's money.
The two people are not married, just lovers.
Before she married, the boy pointed fingers at her life and dress,
People try to make money and love to spend as much as they want, and they don't steal it.
Judging from the girl's speech and demeanor, she lives a very confident and happy life.
What's wrong with being able to meet your own needs?
I thought Tu Lei would help the female guests.
As a result, he blamed the girl all over the place.
Slowly found that Tu Lei gradually moved from sharp to extreme.
His eyes and opinions are indeed sharp.
Some thoughts hidden in the speech of the guests that are not self-aware or cannot be said can be observed.
However, it deliberately exaggerates the secondary, especially the dark side, to the main factor.
The guests could not argue, but they felt that something was inappropriate.
Because of love and life, there are so many comprehensive factors.
But in terms of effect, the sharp point of view is cool.
The audience was excited to see Tu Lei criticizing others, and they were eager to praise and praise, and they were also happy.
If there is a transition between the stage and the stage, will you still applaud the mistakes of others?
But you're done, you don't have to be responsible, but can those couples still be together?
Pushing guests into corners, there are few options.
What's even more ridiculous is that the advice given by Tu Lei after he was emotionally excited was either to break up or divorce.
In fact, he was covering up the results of his extreme speech.
There are some words in love that cannot be put on the surface,
Say it and there is no room or possibility,
It was possible that they were still together, and it was impossible for him to make an output after a meal.
It's more of a bowl of poisonous chicken soup than inspirational.
From his words, we see many times that they are negative: anger, judgment, criticism.
On the other hand, it is also confirmed that Tu Lei habitually instills his own views into others.
If you can't succeed, then you have to start "angrily reprimanding" and "criticizing".
Cai Kangyong once commented:
This person cannot afford to suffer a single loss.
I'm really curious, Tu Lei, how many negative words will be used today.
Therefore, some netizens joked that Tu Lei only brought half an ear on the stage, but with two mouths.
If neither mouth is convinced, then increase the volume.
But his "bitter mouth" from The Perspective of God, can the two people on the stage really listen to it?
People on this show are hoping to solve emotional problems and hope to reconcile.
But this so-called emotional mentor blindly attacks the wrong party,
Therefore, some people jokingly said: Tu Lei is more like an emotional judge than an emotional mentor.
When it comes to emotional regulation, there is basically no excessive warming.
Directly enter the stage of quick knife cutting and chaos, and start from the emotional weakness of others.
Thus transforming himself into a host and becoming a master of the moral high ground.
Attack someone else's weakness at their most vulnerable moment.
Thus gaining the initiative.
Is it possible to be a moral warrior and have a sense of victory?
Could it be that the feeling of looking down increases the adreno hormones?
Guests came to ask for help to solve the problem,
Finally, it becomes a show for Tu Lei, and you can enjoy the output when sitting on the stage.
Finally, I am for your own good, and the round field is round.
As a result, the guests also bowed and said thank you.
04
This is also true of you, tu lei's language is often excessive.
As long as the opinions are different, he will use a very high voice to refute and suppress.
If you go along with his wishes, you hold it everywhere.
If it is not pleasing to the eye, directly use a tough tone to make the people on the stage unable to speak.
Sometimes several guests in the audience had to listen to him.
He likes to dig holes for candidates and try to make new gimmicks on stage.
Although I don't know, is this really Tu Lei, or is it for the effect of the show?
Anyway, I think there is a shelf: the microphone is not loud enough, he wants to lose his temper;
"Assessment questions" are a few seconds late, and he also has to call;
As a host, there is no smiling face all the time, and there is no affinity at all.
In the variety show, Cai Kangyong said: Tu Lei seems to be not afraid of black.
The person next to him took over and said more directly: This is his selling point.
Tu Lei has a certain ability to summarize and generalize,
But sometimes he speaks arrogantly, and there is no room for a little sand in his eyes.
The responsibility as a moderator is the round field,
The responsibility of being a guest is to provide advice,
Instead of being like a host surnamed Zhang, highlighting the individual.
It's okay to be sharp, but it's not necessary to be sarcastic.
Therefore, some people say that Tu Lei is a person with a big mouth and a small heart, and can only speak for himself and cannot listen to others.
He is a "chicken soup expert" who combines temperament and contrivance.
There was a girl who had the honor of partnering with Tu Lei to host.
At that time, she was still a student, and she was dressed in simple clothes and was slightly immature.
There are no tall dresses, and I can't afford a professional makeup artist.
Tu Lei glanced at it coldly and asked with a slight contempt: This is the female host?
If this is a girl's problem, it is understandable.
Then the next behavior is debatable.
After the two took the stage, After Tu Lei took care of himself and finished his lines,
Said one sentence: I'm done, it's your turn!
At the time, he didn't put down the microphone or talk about mike.
The audience listened clearly.
You can imagine how embarrassed this girl was at that time.
Sometimes, what you say doesn't mean.
But what he does may be the true background.
As he likes to post some reasonable words on video software.
Every time, he put on a cold expression, and what he said in his mouth was chicken soup for the soul of righteous words.
He was serious, full of preaching, and his tone was very twisted.
As a result, he had a bunch of fans, and he couldn't hold it up.
Then live streaming with goods.
At this time, I felt extremely violated!
Therefore, some people just don't like him, he can speak, he can speak, he has content.
But it is also extreme and lacks tolerance.
Born as a host with a four-sided expression, he likes to interrupt other people's words with a loud voice and force output.
Coupled with the metaphorical comparison sentence form, it seems very imposing.
The raw taste is overflowing.
Therefore, some people have described Tu Lei as such, he is like the villain in the TV series.
He looked aggressive, but his martial arts were higher than mine.
A person with a saintly posture can still hold out one or two wise words from time to time.
In addition, he speaks very magnetically and his pronunciation is particularly intriguing.
I can't get used to it, but I can't beat it, which is really unpleasant!
05
Completely different from this is Cai Kangyong, the two feel that the aura is obviously incompatible.
But there was a variety show "IMHO" that put the two together.
At the beginning, Cai Kangyong said:
Tu Lei always feels like PUA if he has some words, and he has also said in his previous programs that he can say that the other party is very unconfident.
Belittling and suppressing others makes people subconsciously feel uncomfortable.
But you poke him for the reason he gives you discomfort, and he can always cleverly circle back.
The two chatted and also broke up with each other.
The innuendo between jokes is also another mild irony.
Tu Lei first commented that Cai Kangyong "spoke softly and seriously.".
Cai Kangyong shouted directly: "If you are praised by others, you will be very happy, but it feels creepy to be said by you."
I don't know whether it was self-deprecation or anger, Tu Lei immediately responded: "When I praise anyone, who is not far from bad luck."
Cai Kangyong did not want to show weakness and said: "You should have no friends like this."
I didn't expect a word.
Tu Lei directly broke the news of his experience of breaking off friendship with friends:
Once, he went to a good friend's house for dinner, and the friend jokingly said to his wife:
"It wasn't me who begged to marry you, it was you who insisted on marrying me."
Tu Lei immediately got adrenaline up, and it was a slap on the wrist.
Subsequently, the two families did not communicate with each other again.
Seeing such a serious and unsmiling Tu Lei, Cai Kangyong asked questions about his entertainment activities:
"Do you play mahjong".
Although Tu Lei generously admitted: Although he likes to play mahjong, no one wants to play with me.
When asked why, Tu Lei's answer shocked the audience:
"Playing mahjong is like going to the battlefield, no small talk is allowed, and every round will be reviewed."
Seeing this, you may wonder:
Why can Tu Lei, who has such ordinary interpersonal relationships in life, become an emotional master who frequently explodes golden sentences on the screen?
This has to mention "Love Defense War".
In the show, ordinary people like us can rarely watch less.
So, there is a sentence on the Internet that summarizes it very well:
China is full of wonders, emotional mediation is half the sky;
It is gold that will always shine, and it is strange that will always make your eyes shine.
The parties involved in the flowing water, the iron dog blood plot, there are still people who can't get tired of watching.
Why?
Because the show understands the audience's gossip psychology very well, it will set up a great contrast at the beginning.
As it goes: Why did they end up as husbands and daughters?
Just looking at the title can make people's blood boil, who can resist their curiosity?
Then, through round after round of games, the two sides slowly revealed the truth.
After the atmosphere was set off, Tu Lei opened his mouth.
When he angrily opened his eyes and jumped out of the golden sentence, it was the moment when the big mothers pursued and screamed.
For the "very good" parties, Tu Lei said bluntly: You will not have a good ending!
For the "scumbag", Tu Lei angrily rebuked: shameless, so I don't talk to him.
To those who broke the connection with the ex, Tu Lei scolded: You are the disaster water!
To the interloper, he scolded: You are a thief, and the thief will be punished!
Regardless of whether it is a man or a woman on the stage, there is always one party that will be said by Tu Lei to be invisible!
They are more like being scolded than regulating emotions!
How to do it like Tu Lei in one word?
In fact, you just need to use a meaningful tone of voice to say nonsense.
With this text:
Women must choose the kind that can take them to the hospital in person.
Help them with housework, pick them up from work,
And when the menstrual period comes,
The man who helped them boil brown sugar water by hand.
If that's not the case, then this man is hardly worth entrusting your whole life with.
According to this pure theory, it is useless for anyone to argue.
He also said this "famous aphorism": a man in a normal state at home should be ranked behind the dog.
This is typical kitsch.
In order to cater to some viewers, there is no lower limit to speech, and the flattery of "strong words" is reasonable.
Underneath a face pretending to be upright is "vigorous mindfulness".
The reason why Tu Lei is so hot is because he understands the psychology of the melon-eating masses.
Many popular "cool dramas" must appear within two or three episodes, and there must be plots of good and good, and evil and evil.
In Tu Lei's show, a story on the stage lasts at most ten minutes.
The plot is more ups and downs and more compact than the TV series.
Once started, it is difficult to brake, and the audience will involuntarily participate in the discussion:
"Will this boy reject her?";
"Can Little Three win?";
"It's all so excessive, this woman is still so unattainable!"
Once the ending is reversed, I am full of asterisks: Oh, can you still do this?
But after reading it, everyone thinks: dog blood? It's bloody!
Enjoyable? It's also really enjoyable!
So ah, some shows to watch a happy, on the line;
Some people's chicken soup sounds comfortable, and it's enough.
Don't take this into your life as "truth."
That's a stress-relieving release agent, that's all!