In recent years, there has been a growing debate on the Internet about "love between young and old", and the vast majority of people believe that the reason why old and young love is not accepted by the world is because the age difference between the two sides is too large.
As the old host of emotional programs, Zhao Chuan, who is accustomed to watching all kinds of things in the world, also mentioned more than once in the show: "Particularly successful women want to find an older partner, people will only think that she is very powerful; but ordinary women looking for a man who is much older than themselves, but it seems that the problems are full of controversy from the outside world!" ”
According to this point of view, Zhao Chuan's words have reshaped a new perspective on "old and young love" for us. He used "particularly successful" and "ordinary women" to summarize the most significant differences between different old and young love, and the answer is obvious: in the final analysis, it is still a human problem, and the key factor is the attitude and practice of the parties to this relationship.
Whether such a statement can withstand scrutiny or not is left unchecked for the time being, because such a statement is indeed enough to be discerned. The time goes back to 2008, when the 82-year-old Yang Zhenning just reported that he and 28-year-old Weng Fan entered the marriage, and the debate on the other side has been spreading to this day.
In the face of the outside world's incomprehension, Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan still insist on each other's choice, and the two have been together for more than ten years. In order to take care of her elderly husband wholeheartedly, Weng Fan, who is in his youth, has developed a good habit of "going to bed early" since marriage...
It is reported that the first encounter between Professor Yang Zhenning and Ms. Weng Fan occurred in Chaoshan University, when Weng Fan was in his prime, not only had excellent grades but also had a cheerful and lively personality, as a student representative who received Yang Zhenning and his wife, he left a deep impression on Yang Zhenning and his wife. Before finishing the lecture and leaving the lecture, Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan exchanged contact information.
Since this encounter, Yang Zhenning and his wife and Weng Fan have often exchanged letters. At that time, Weng Fan was diligent and studious, deeply appreciated by Yang Zhenning and his wife, and often helped Weng Fan solve many academic confusions, and the relationship between Yang Zhenning and his wife and Weng Fan also underwent subtle changes.
After graduation, Weng Fan, for a long time did not contact Yang Zhenning and his wife, it is said that they got married early, and then left, after divorce, they re-studied for a master's degree, smart intelligence and diligent efforts, Weng Fan was very smoothly admitted to graduate school. Just when Weng Fan was immersed in the joy of success in the examination, a letter from Yang Zhenning gave her a big blow, that is, the death of Mrs. Yang Zhenning.
Since the death of his wife, Yang Zhenning has not been able to get out of the pain of widowhood for a long time, and whenever he returns home after work to face the cold pot and cold stove, Yang Zhenning's heart is chilling, after all, the two have walked hand in hand through more than 50 spring, summer, autumn and winter. Whoever sees this loneliness will be distressed, and why can't Weng Fan feel it?
Considering that Mr. Yang Zhenning was left unattended by his side, Weng Fan often comforted him in letters, 1, 3, 5, 10... In the exchange of letters back and forth, Weng Fan finally took Yang Zhenning out and reborn. Later, Yang Zhenning invited Weng Fan to meet many times, and after meeting, the two gradually broke through the shackles, and their feelings quickly warmed up, from the initial letters to telephone exchanges.
It is said that what really made Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan have the impulse to join hands for the rest of their lives was a trip to Guangxi together. "That day, the sky was not beautiful, and we were walking on the country road full of flowers, the road was slippery, and our hands were subconsciously tied together. I never thought that this tie had never been separated! Recalling this beautiful memory, Yang Zhenning's inner joy overflowed into words.
After returning home, Yang Zhenning thought for a long time and proposed to Weng Fan on the phone. At this point, this couple, who have crossed the 54-year-old age gap, has officially opened a new chapter in each other's lives.
After marriage, Weng Fan did pay a lot, in order to be able to adjust her husband's work and rest habits, Weng Fan did not spend less thought: "I have always had the habit of staying up late to read books, since the two of us got married, I was afraid of delaying his rest, often waiting for him to sleep before sneaking to the study alone, reading tired of reading before returning to the bedroom." ”
Speaking of which, the daily life of Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning is actually not much different from that of ordinary couples, and the life of three meals a day is plain and happy. Sometimes married life is really not so complicated, but it is more and more reliable under the understanding of both parties. For example, when Weng Fan "played a little clever" to deceive Yang Zhenning into going to bed early, for example, when Yang Zhenning "saw through and did not say broken" pretended to go to bed early...
In fact, they have been together for more than ten years, although it is different from the era and mainstream identity, but sometimes I have to admit that some love can transcend the world and age. Professor Yang Zhenning is undoubtedly great, but Ms. Weng Fan herself is also good enough, gossip has not stopped all these years, but their marriage has also continued. Yang Zhenning's fruitful life deserves our respect, and the same should be true for his family!
So, in accordance with the four seasons, the flowers bloom and fall, and the focus is on enjoying the process. Sometimes the laws of marriage will also be violated, and once the laws are violated, they will be retrograde and will become the focus, and everyone's eyes will inevitably focus on each other. Some people are watching the hilarity, some people are smacking their mouths is not worth it, some people are hyping, some people are earning traffic, whether it is bitter or sweet, maybe only I know.
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