"Bells ring..." The urgent bell rang again.
It was impossible to count the number of incoming calls, Weng Fan pressed the answer button, heard the greeting was still the same, she hung up the phone sadly, turned off the phone, and then threw the phone aside and collapsed on the bed.
The ridicule, questioning and sarcasm on the phone made Weng Fan inexplicable, she changed into a comfortable position, and was about to take a nap, however, her thoughts unconsciously drifted to the first sight with Yang Zhenning.
In 1995, when Weng Fan was 18 years old, she became a freshman in the English Department of Shantou University.
Weng Fan came out beautifully and white, not only studying well, but also the backbone of the student union. Because of her conscientious and responsible work, she is often entrusted with heavy responsibilities by teachers.
In the summer of the first year, the first Chinese Physics Conference was held at Shantou University, and all the people who came to the meeting were giants in the field of physics. One of the physicists, who won the Nobel Prize at the age of 35, is Yang Zhenning.
Yang Zhenning came with his wife Du Zhili this time, and Weng Fan was arranged to receive them.
At that time, Yang Zhenning was 72 years old, and Du Zhili was also 68 years old.
Before meeting, Weng Fan imagined that Yang and Du must be old and hunched over, and they must hurry up to help when they meet.
But after meeting, the two "old people" broke Weng Fan's previous imagination, they not only had a stiff waist, but also had a smile in their eyes, and they couldn't see the image of twilight at all.
Weng Fan quickly relaxed his mind and acted as a guide for Yang Zhenning and his wife.
Weng Fan, Yang Zhenning and Du Zhili
The three of them walked around the campus and chatted, Yang Zhenning's profound knowledge made Weng Fan feel admired, and Weng Fan's cheerfulness and courtesy also left a good impression on Yang and Du, and they left contact information for each other when they separated.
After that, Weng Fan would write letters to Yang and Du from time to time, and ask for advice on the confusion in study and life, and every time she would receive a careful reply from the two.
Time flies in learning.
In 1999, after graduating from university, Weng Fan went to work in a company in Shantou, and because she did not think it was the same, she resigned a month later and went to work in a golf club in Shenzhen.
This job was done for 3 years, during which she met a Hong Kong clerk, and soon the two entered into marriage, but the huge difference between their married life and the personalities of the two made Weng Fan feel hard.
It is said that home is a warm harbor for people to relax, but Weng Fan does not feel this way at all. Two years later, the two divorced peacefully.
After the divorce, Weng Fan revived the idea of further study. In 2002, she was admitted to the postgraduate class of Guangdong University of Foreign Studies.
In 2003, Du Zhili died of illness at the age of 76. That winter, Yang Zhenning returned to Beijing from the United States, accepted the invitation of Tsinghua University's research work, and had planned to start living alone in his old age, but the arrival of a letter broke everything.
In early 2004, when Yang Zhenning went to Hong Kong to participate in academic exchanges, he suddenly received a postcard. After he looked at it, he found that Weng Fan had sent it from Guangzhou to the United States, because he was in Hong Kong, and the assistant had forwarded it from the United States to Hong Kong. In addition to the condolences, the postcard left a phone number.
It turned out that Weng Fan was sad after he knew that Du Zhili had passed away. At the same time, she thought that Yang Zhenning, who had lost his lover, was extremely sad! Thinking of this, she sent this letter of condolence to Yang Zhenning.
The two have not corresponded for many years, and this unexpected reception of Weng Fan's greetings, Yang Zhenning's heart is warm. Soon, he dialed Weng Fan's phone...
In February 2004, Weng Fan received an invitation from Yang Zhenning to meet at Sun Yat-sen University, which made Weng Fan excited, and she thought: Does the 82-year-old Yang Zhenning need help this time?
Just like the first time they met, Yang Zhenning was still energetic, talking and behaving at all like an 80-year-old man, and Weng Fan suddenly relaxed.
In getting along, the two did not have the tension between students and teachers, but relaxed and comfortable like friends. Weng Fan's liveliness and cheerfulness ignited Yang Zhenning's lonely heart at once.
Indeed, Yang Zhenning was very lonely, and he was especially afraid of this loneliness. His good friend, the English mathematician Hamilton, not only lived a long period of solitude after his wife's death, but even had food stains on the pages of the book.
Yang Zhenning resolutely did not want such a day. After Weng Fan left, Yang Zhenning felt strange.
After that, Weng Fan frequently received calls from Yang Zhenning, and he often told Weng Fan about his life. Weng Fan also gradually got used to gossiping with him every day.
Once, Weng Fan and his girlfriend were shopping, and happened to receive a call from Yang Zhenning, hung up the phone, and the girlfriend asked her: Professor Yang will not like you, right? Otherwise, with his status, he wouldn't have called you so often!
When Weng Fan heard this, his heart blushed like a fawn.
"If you admire a man and happen to know that the man likes you, you'll be particularly likely to fall in love with him..."
Weng Fan said that this kind of love born of worship had already sprouted from the bottom of her heart, but she had not yet realized it.
In May 2004, when hong Kong's phoenix blossomed, Yang Zhenning invited Weng Fan to play in Shek O.
It was a drizzle that day, and the two of them walked side by side in the rain, and the air was full of romantic and pleasant atmosphere.
When we were about to reach the beach, there was a section of the road that was particularly steep, and it was particularly difficult to walk on a wet and slippery day, so the two tacitly held each other's hands.
Weng Fan felt a burst of joy in her heart, she found that she liked the feeling of being held by Yang Zhenning, and this play made each other's position in their hearts heavier.
After going back, Yang Zhenning also invited Weng Fan to be a guest at his "Guigenju" at Tsinghua University, Yang Zhenning instructed the nanny to make a delicious meal for Weng Fan, and Weng Fan found that Yang Zhenning had not only not been Westernized for many years, but also retained a very traditional eating habit, and his heart was even more favorable.
After the meal, the two drank tea and chatted together, and the more they felt tacit understanding in the conversation.
After the beijing trip, Weng Fan went to Shanxi to travel, those days she was always restless, from time to time in her mind appeared Yang Zhenning's appearance, she noticed, surprised! Did you fall in love with him? How is this possible?
Weng Fan calmed herself down, she thought that in addition to Yang Zhenning's age, the man's charm emitted by him was still very attractive to him, and she was probably in love with him!
What to do? Ignoring her feelings, she couldn't do it, since there was no way to escape, the only way to surrender to love! But the huge age difference of 54 years old worried her deeply.
Once caught in love, feelings are like a flood of beasts.
Separated from the loved one, how can you talk with your heart full of thoughts?
Weng Fan began to write English poems, she poured all her feelings into the poems, and after writing them, she sent them to Yang Zhenning, who revised them and sent them back.
The feelings of the two grew violently in the continuous Hongyan biography.
If you want to see if one person is suitable for the other half, then go on a trip together and experience the perceptual feelings of travel.
In the 2004 National Day holiday, the two met to travel to Beihai, Yang Zhenning knew that Weng Fan loved to take pictures, so he carefully chose a digital camera to send. The two rode a tandem bicycle downstream of the blue sky and white clouds, shuttling through the coconut grove path...
This trip filled the hearts of the two with joy, Yang Zhenning is old but not lacking in youth, Weng Fan likes this, which makes her unguard her age.
After the trip, the two went home separately. Within a few days, Yang Zhenning couldn't help but propose to Weng Fan on the phone.
When Weng Fan heard the marriage proposal, her head was suddenly confused, and after slowing down, she shyly quipped: Where is the marriage proposal that does not send roses, does not send rings?
Yang Zhenning heard Weng Fan's response, knew that she had promised herself, and excitedly promised that the next time we met, we would definitely send it!
After Weng Fan agreed to Yang Zhenning's marriage proposal, a very practical question arose: how to make parents accept this yearless love?
In November 2004, Weng Fan returned to his hometown.
Weng Fan was regarded as a pearl in the palm of her hand by her father Weng Yunguang since she was a child, and because of her family's wealth, her parents hurt her like a princess.
When she said that she wanted to marry Yang Zhenning, who was 54 years old, her parents were really surprised, and how the marriage looked bad for their daughter, they did not support it.
But Weng Fan is very calm, she calmly chats with her parents, gently tells her parents the details of this relationship, and frankly solves all the worries of her parents, and affirms and identifies this relationship...
Father Weng Yunguang was impressed, he said: I understand my daughter's choice, Xiaofan is willing to make sacrifices to take care of Professor Yang in his old age, this is glorious! ”
My daughter is happy and happy! Enlightened parents eventually accepted.
On Christmas Eve 2004, Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning officially registered their marriage at the Shantou Civil Affairs Bureau.
The two had just been immersed in the atmosphere of marriage, and the next public opinion storm gave them a blow.
After receiving the license, Yang Zhenning sent an email to relatives and friends to share the joy of marriage, but somehow the news spread, followed by the news that "28-year-old Weng Fan and 82-year-old Yang Zhenning got married" became the news headline, and public opinion was in an uproar...
All of a sudden, all kinds of comments on the Internet came flooding in: some people said that Weng Fan married so many physicists who were bigger than themselves, either by name or by money, and that she took advantage of the situation to ascend to the position...
Some people say that Yang Zhenning is cheating on little girls, old cows eating tender grass, disrespecting the old, and so on...
After that, there were all kinds of phone calls, and Weng Fan's phone was attacked by various groups...
After the shutdown, the whole world was clean, and although she was bored in her heart, she was not afraid at all, because the two of them had a premonition and were mentally prepared.
No matter how others criticize, it will not affect the feelings of the two, but make them cherish each other more and more.
Thinking of this, his heart gradually settled down, and Weng Fan fell into a deep sleep...
In order to accompany her husband to go to bed early and get up early, Weng Fan first made changes to his work and diet.
She loves to stay up at night, travel, surf the Internet, and eat junk food. These bad habits were adjusted by her efforts after marriage: she got up at 8 o'clock in the morning, went to bed at 9 o'clock at night, and replaced junk food with green food...
Regular routines and diets not only make her body healthier, but even her skin becomes whiter and translucent.
During the day, Yang Zhenning went to work, and Weng Fan read, studied, and revised papers at home.
Dinner is usually held at 6:00. After the meal, the two of them went for a walk with ten fingers to consume food, chatting while walking. Yang Zhenning will tell Weng Fan the story of a famous physicist, and will tell interesting things about traveling around the world before... Weng Fan listened quietly every time.
After returning home, the two would huddle in the sofa, listening to classical music and chatting and reading. Moving, they will heatly discuss the plot;
The two will also watch DVDs together, chase dramas together, and whoever watches a good TV series will recommend it to each other.
Yang Zhenning loves to take DV, Weng Fan loves to take pictures, they will take videos and photos when they go there, the walls of the home are full of photos of two people, whenever there is a guest visit, Weng Fan will tirelessly introduce one by one, each one represents a good memory.
When they are idle, the two like to drive for a ride, and Yang Zhenning always likes to be a driver. When the car slowly moved forward, Weng Fan did not enjoy the scenery outside the window, and only liked to look at her husband gently.
And Yang Zhenning liked his wife's gaze like this, as if he was illuminated by a soft ray of sunshine.
The two also have a small game about tacit understanding, and every time they watch the exhibition, they will quietly write down the paintings they are most satisfied with. At the end of the exhibition, the two exchange secrets to see if they have chosen the same painting. Amazingly, they can guess almost every time.
They will also write affectionate poems for each other, Yang Zhenning wrote to Weng Fan:
Oh sweet angel,
You really are God's last gift.
To my old soul,
A joy of returning to youth.
Not scheming and considerate,
Brave and curious and light and dexterous,
Vibrant and cute and playful,
Yes, eternal youth!
Weng Fan will also write to Yang Zhenning:
My dear
Although there are too many barriers between us,
And what are you afraid of?
Fearful,
I don't know where I can talk to your heart.
Binocular gaze,
What I saw was a pair of peaceful eyes that hid a deep sense of spring heartbeat,
Even though your smiling eyes have been less focused.
When the dark clouds darken the sky and the approach suddenly gathers twists and turns,
I had to leave you...
Romance is never just the preserve of youth, and youth has nothing to do with age. Weng Fan likes Yang Zhenning's youthful atmosphere in maturity.
But Yang Zhenning is old, and illness accidents often occur.
In 2010, 88-year-old Yang Zhenning suddenly had a high fever, was unconscious, could not even understand what others were saying, and was transferred to the intensive care unit at the time of crisis.
During the period, Weng Fan took meticulous care, poured out the and peed, and fed and wiped himself.
Fortunately, Yang Zhenning was not in serious trouble, and when he was discharged from the hospital safely, Weng Fan lost a lot of weight.
In the past few years, Yang Zhenning has been hospitalized many times, and all of them are weng Fan's intimate care. The people around them all sighed when they saw it in their eyes: If there was no Weng Fan, how lonely and miserable Yang Zhenning's later life would be!
In addition to taking care of Yang Zhenning, Weng Fan did not forget to improve himself. In 2011, she entered the School of Architecture of Tsinghua University to pursue a doctorate; she also studied French, tai chi, played the piano, and followed Yang Zhenning to participate in various academic exchanges and activities...
No matter where you go, you can see the two people clasping their ten fingers, Yang Zhenning holding Weng Fan's hand, and his heart is extremely solid.
Some time ago, the media broke the details of Yang Zhenning's will: all the property was left to his sons, and Weng Fan finally got only the right to use a villa.
There is a lot of discussion in the outside world, there is ridicule, there is approval. Either way, it must have been the result of the two men's deliberations. Such a result also makes the statement of "Weng Fan seeking wealth" self-defeating.
This year, Weng Fan is 45 years old, although she has entered middle age, she is becoming more and more calm and charming. From the age of 28 to 45, she and Yang Zhenning have spent sixteen spring and autumn seasons.
To this day, many people still do not understand this yearless love, but the two can see openly, Yang Zhenning said: "Now many people are difficult to understand, but after thirty or forty years, people will find that this is a very good romance." ”
Oh, yes!
Love, there is the warmth of the ear sideburns, there is the tacit comfort of two unspoken, and there is a long stream of thin water accompanied by the hand.
Weng Fan thanked Yang Zhenning for creating this pure world for him, the waves were not alarming, peaceful and quiet, and she enjoyed such a life.
She had rejuvenated his life, and he had enriched her soul.
Pure and warm, for two people, it is enough.
I also hope that the public will pay attention to physicist Yang Zhenning, after he returned to China, after discovering this problem through the investigation of college student education, he said many times: If you want to build a scientific and technological power, you must start mathematical, physical and chemical enlightenment education as soon as possible, cultivate more top mathematical, physical and chemical talents for the country, and prepare to take over to the older generation of scientists.
Huawei CEO Ren Zhengfei also once said: China is not a lack of chips to make equipment, but a lack of talent, as long as there are talents, all scientific and technological problems, can be solved, but the training of scientific research talents requires a long process, not overnight can be completed.
Foreign children, at the age of 3-5 years old, began to receive basic mathematical, physical and chemical education, while mainland children have to wait until junior high school to receive mathematical, physical and chemical education, missed the best enlightenment period, in their most receptive to scientific knowledge at the age, parents are forcing their children to learn English, practice piano, learn calligraphy, personally imprisoned the children's scientific thoughts.
In the consciousness of many parents, learning English well can better show the child's excellence, and the future is better to go abroad for further study, but do not know that English is only a language, it is not too late to learn when needed, and scientific and technological knowledge is the foundation of the child's future, learn physics well, in order to go all over the world without fear.
I believe that every parent is looking forward to Jackie Chan, looking forward to the female chengfeng, at the end of the article for all parents to share a good book, don't miss it!
Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!