When it comes to emotional programs, I have to say "Love Defense War", I think this show can be described as a fire all over the country, and the ratings of the first ten years have only increased. Host Zhao Chuan and emotional mentor Tu Lei are deeply loved by everyone.
Tu Lei is serious and steady, Zhao Chuan is mature and introverted, and the two have a very good grasp of emotional comments, and they are witty and humorous, which is why the show can remain enduring. But compared to the happiness and satisfaction of Tu Lei's emotional life, Zhao Chuan is not so lucky.
After two failed marriages and then remarried, netizens called him a masquerade master. So why is there a serious polarization of their reputation now? Why have I hosted emotional programs for many years, but my love life is in a mess?
Zhao Chuan was born in Chengdu, Sichuan in 1972, his father was a Hubei native and his mother was a Sichuan native, and he grew up in a privileged family and lived a very rich life. But in fact, Zhao Chuan's birth was an accident, the original parents have given birth to a daughter, and no longer intend to have a child. His mother originally wanted to fight him, but she was stopped by her aunt, and because of this, her father was doubly protective of him.
After birth, Zhao Chuan is also a smart child, from small to large academic performance has been among the best, the university was admitted to the Zhejiang College of Media, successfully became a student of the Department of Broadcasting, actively participated in extracurricular hosting activities during the school period is to hope to be able to realize their hosting dream after graduation.
However, shortly after graduation, at the strong request of his parents, Zhao Chuan helplessly returned to Sichuan to develop, and his parents trusted him to find a job as a journalist. Zhao Chuan, who is sensible and obedient, is also very serious in his work and is deeply recognized by colleagues and leaders.
Slowly Zhao Chuan also reached the age of starting a family, due to his shy personality has not found a girlfriend, his parents are also very anxious, and later met his first wife under the introduction of colleagues. She is good-looking, and she is also a host on the stage, and because her profession is almost basically a peer, the two people are very talkative.
In the process of getting along, the two were also very happy, and soon the two entered the palace of marriage and officially became husband and wife.
At that time, Zhao Chuan was in the ascendancy of his career, busy with field work every day, and his wife was also very sensible and virtuous, understanding that her husband's difficulties were not easy, so she also took on the responsibility of taking care of the family.
But this marriage did not go on for a long time because of the wife's silent efforts, and it can be said that a marriage without materials is really like a mess. The gathering of two people makes Zhao Chuan feel that there is a lack of tolerance in this relationship, so after her career has further developed, she chose to end this marriage, and later claimed in the program that there was a problem with the foundation of this marriage, which may be exactly that sentence, and the marriage that is too hasty must be dangerous.
So after the divorce, Zhao Chuan chose to leave Sichuan for his career and go to Beijing to develop.
In 2000, Zhao Chuan joined a media company in Beijing, where he met his second wife. Although the career did not have much improvement, after 8 years of work is still unknown, but Zhao Chuan has gained love.
The other is a painter, sweet-looking and intelligent, although the profession is different, but it does not affect the combination of the two people, the two only got along for three months before getting married. At this time, Zhao Chuan may have forgotten the reason for the failure of the previous marriage and once again chose to flash marriage.
This time, his wife also gave birth to a lovely son for him, and the family of three lived a happy and happy life. Although his wife is not a media person, with her rich experience, she believes that Zhao Chuan should develop into the television media industry. So at the suggestion of his wife, Zhao Chuan then hosted "Who Says It Again" of Beijing Satellite TV, "Parents of the World" of Shandong Satellite TV, and "45 Minutes of Live" of Inner Mongolia Satellite TV.
With these programs laying the foundation for himself, Zhao Chuan jumped from a journalist to a famous host. However, after becoming famous, Zhao Chuan did not remember the goodness of his second wife, but once again abandoned his wife who was single-minded about himself.
Regarding his second failed marriage, Zhao Chuan explained it this way, feeling that he had no way to forgive his wife and that he had grown and matured in the development of his career. The description of his wife's complete forgetting of his help and being unforgivable also seems to be that the wife has made some serious mistake, and the words are all dissatisfaction with the wife.
He said that at that time, he was alone in Beijing, and he had never met a talent in his career, and he was very eager for someone to care for him and love himself. So the union with his wife at that time was just a spiritual comfort that people look for when they were lonely.
That is to say, this relationship is wrong from the beginning, and finally he lightly summarized this failed marriage with immaturity and too young, and I have to say that the emotion expert is an emotional expert, and the irresponsibility of the feelings is so wen Zou Zou, whether it is the first marriage or the second marriage, he did not pay 100%, nor did he treat it sincerely, as if it was time or happened to be under certain conditions, and the coincidence chose this person.
Did he really love these two wives? We don't know, but the two wives were indeed let down by him.
After experiencing these two failed marriages, Zhao Chuan shifted more energy to his career and ushered in the peak of his career. Began to host the "Love Defense War", and cooperated with the love mentor Tu Lei, the two people in the show's comments are sharp and unique, witnessing the couples in the show from tit-for-tat to reconciled.
Zhao Chuan, who has a chicken feather in real life, has given pertinent suggestions again and again in the show, which really makes people feel a little ironic.
With this show, Zhao Chuan has become one of the famous hosts and one of the most popular emotional experts.
No one expected that Zhao Chuan, who had achieved brilliant achievements in his career, had tasted all the hardships in his feelings. He himself said that he even thought about not getting married again. But sometimes fate can't be stopped, and at the peak of his career, Zhao Chuan met his third wife on a business trip.
The third wife is a flight attendant, and the appearance and temperament needless to say, must be very outstanding.
Zhao Chuan fell in love with him at first sight and immediately launched a fierce pursuit, because he was already a famous host at the time, and at the home of this layer of aura, the flight attendant quickly threw herself into his arms.
In Zhao Chuan's eyes, this flight attendant was very good, even comparing the three sisters of the Song family with it. Although the age difference between the two people is 16 years, it does not prevent two people who love each other from being together.
Because of the flight attendant's work, it is difficult for two people to spend a long time together. However, in order to be able to meet his girlfriend, Zhao Chuan will deliberately buy a flight taken by his girlfriend every time, and his girlfriend is also very moved. The relationship between the two people is very sweet, but this relationship has been strongly opposed by the woman's parents.
On the one hand, Zhao Chuan has experienced two failed marriages and believes that Zhao Chuan is a unreliable man. On the other hand, the two are 16 years apart. In addition, parents have seen Zhao Chuan's program on TV, and they feel that Zhao Chuan's personality is a bit strong, and I am afraid that his daughter will be wronged.
After learning that his girlfriend's parents were not satisfied with him, Zhao Chuan wrote a letter of more than 3,000 words to persuade the other party. In the letter, he counted the various faults of his two wives, said that he was the one who had been wronged, and promised that he would be friendly to women.
The simple and kind parents were also touched by Zhao Chuan's sincerity and agreed to the marriage of the two people. In this way, Zhao Chuan let his two wives become his stepping stones and successfully embraced the beauty.
However, the good life did not last long, after marriage, Zhao Chuan's nature began to be exposed, and Zhao Chuan, who had a strong desire to control, asked his wife to choose only one in her career and family, and the words were forcing her wife to make a choice.
The wife who loves Zhao Chuan had no choice but to give up her job, made a compromise and finally returned to the family and became a housewife. In fact, Zhao Chuan is not a first-line host, if he had not participated in a program called "Man's World", we may not know his love life so far.
In the show, he talked about his three love lives, and many remarks that ruined the three views also greatly reduced his image in the eyes of the audience.
Zhao Chuan, who did not expect to look very positive in the show, handled his emotional life so hastily, taking advantage of the feelings of his first two wives not only did not know gratitude, but also counted their discomfort, putting himself in the position of a victim, which was really shameless.
I thought that with the growth of age and experience, Zhao Chuan could change something, but I did not expect that the third wife could only be at his mercy. The audience can't help but question, why should such a person be the emotional mentor of others? What right does he have to dictate the feelings of others?
On the other hand, the love mentor Tu Lei in the show, although he does not smile and be fierce in the show, it can be seen that Tu Lei is a person with three views, and the comments in the show are also very sharp.
It can be said that some viewers watch the show only to see Tu Lei's comments, and Tu Lei in life is also a good husband and loves his wife.
Different from Zhao Chuan's return to his wife's family, Tu Lei chose to reduce his work and spend more time with his family, and bid farewell to the stage of "Love Defense War". And this is exactly the agreement between the wife and him at that time, agreeing to reduce the work when the child is 5 years old, accompanying his daughter more, Tu Lei also abided by the agreement, I have to say that such a man is a good man, know how to respect each other, the feelings of the two people can go further.
But then again, it's hard to tell who's right and who's wrong.
It is believed that Zhao Chuan also loved each other deeply in the early days of getting along with his two wives, but later after entering into marriage, he was consumed by chai rice oil and salt. Now Zhao Chuan has also met the person he thinks is right in his life, and he also hopes that this time he can learn the lessons of the previous two failed marriages, take the people around him seriously, and live up to the sacrifices his wife has made for him and for this family.
After all, in addition to being a husband, he is also a father.
It is his responsibility to let his children live in a harmonious and stable family, and I hope that he can reap happiness in this married life. What do you think about Zhao Chuan's tortuous emotional life? Welcome to leave a comment in the comment area!