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Rousseau once said: "Not only can love not be bought and sold, but money will inevitably kill love." ”
Whenever it comes to love, people will inevitably weigh it together with money, as someone said, love needs to have a certain material basis, and no one can get rid of the material to pursue the wind and snow.
Therefore, people agree that a man is good to a woman, but he is stingy in terms of money, then he is not true love.
There is such a pair of guests in "Love Defense War", the girl's own conditions are good, the family is superior, the annual income is also in the upper middle level in the local area, the boy's income is far less than that of the girl, but the girl is particularly concerned about the care.
Usually the two are together, the girl spends more money, and the boy wears and uses it for the girl to buy. Originally, the girl thought that she was now earning a higher income, and it was also appropriate to pay more, because the two were originally dating for the purpose of marriage.
But when it came time to talk about marriage, the boy hesitated, because the girl's family asked the boy to give a dowry of 100,000 yuan, and the boy said that there was no money in the family, and he himself did not save enough money.
The girl's parents believe that the bride price must be, because it can test whether the man is sincere, but although the woman's parents are very determined, the boy still finds some excuses to say that he cannot get the bride price.
The girl was anxious, she said to the boy, the annual salary is almost 100,000, why wouldn't she pay this bride price?
Finally, the host broke the truth in a word, he said that some men just like to pretend to be confused, and he repeatedly stressed that there is no money, not really no money, but do not want to marry this woman.
Some men, although they usually treat people very well, understand the wind and snow, but when they mention money, they will be instigated in seconds, either crying poorly, or looking for various excuses.
Money is indeed the touchstone of love, a man is not worth your heart, try it with money to know.
01 The man who cries poor is not worthy of deep friendship
Some people say that there are only two kinds of people who like to cry poor, either he is very inferior or he is very selfish. In fact, most people who cry poor are the latter, that is to say, they are too selfish to give what they should have paid, and crying poor is to win sympathy and pity and evade responsibility.
A friend once told a story about himself, for a while his studio was not running well, the capital chain was broken, but at the same time he also received several big customers, as long as the funds can be turned around normally, he can immediately turn over the salted fish.
Therefore, he wanted to find a few friends who usually had a good relationship with him to discuss and borrow some money to turn around. But before he could borrow money, one of them began to complain one after another that the economy was sluggish, that the business had lost money, and that the family's daily living expenses were a problem.
Hearing him say this, my friend naturally did not dare to mention the matter of borrowing money again.
But a few days later, my friend heard the man elsewhere talking about what business he had invested in and how much money he had made. The friend realized that his misery was nothing more than crying poverty, in fact, he just didn't want to lend money to others.
Usually speak very well, you can insert a knife into the ribs of your friends, you can see the righteousness of your brothers above all else, but it is really time to use money to glimpse people's hearts.
True friends, when you encounter difficulties, will do their best to help you, and those who avoid things are not worth your deep friendship.
02 Men who like to cry poor don't make a big fuss
Crying poverty is actually a kind of negative energy, and people who like to hang the words "poor" or "no money" on their lips will also be poor in their hearts.
There is a theory called the Law of Attraction, which basically says that what you have in mind will inspire you. Putting poverty on the lips will naturally inspire poverty. Because this is a very negative hint, this kind of hint will make a person's heart desolate and barren.
A writer once said, "People who like to cry poor will never get rich." ”
There are a few boys who made an appointment to start a business together before graduation, but after graduation, when the real knife began to be used, one of the boys said that his family conditions were not good, and he could not come up with the funds to start a business, so he quit their entrepreneurial team.
After the boy quit the team began to look for a job, the first job of the interview is to do business, in order to facilitate the work, the company leader suggested that he first go to the test for a driver's license, and then the company can be equipped with a car, but just graduated he paid the rent there is little left, so he told the company leader that he has no money in hand, the driver's license can only wait and then take the test.
A period of time has passed, and the performance of others is booming, only he has lost a lot of big orders because of inconvenient transportation.
Just when he complained that life was not easy, the group of friends who had started a business had already improved in their careers.
So he began to regret that when the opportunity was in front of him, he did not try his best to seize it, always using no money as an excuse to miss a lot of opportunities to succeed.
Some netizens have said that people's temporary mediocrity in materials is not terrible, what is terrible is that his heart is also poor.
A person who likes to cry poor must be a person who internally denies himself, who does not believe that he can change his life through hard work, or always adopt a wait-and-see attitude when facing opportunities. But opportunities are fleeting and won't always be waiting for you where you are.
Often, those who like to cry poor end up really as they say, life is barren.
03 Women should stay away from crying poor men
Zhang Ailing said: "You can use any way to get love, but it takes wisdom to maintain love." ”
Many women will lose their minds in the face of love, they believe that there is no money and material, there will also be love, they believe in "sentient drinking water", think that talking about money hurts feelings.
But too much reality tells us that love without material and money as a support is not far away.
And men are a responsibility in a relationship and marriage, and they must not shrink back and escape when they need money.
Just like the male guest in "Love Defense War", although his annual salary is not much, but give himself two years, the bride price money can always be saved, why he insists that he can't take out this money, it is nothing more than never thinking of taking it, as the host said, he is not without money, he does not want to marry the woman next to him.
The person who really loves you, no matter what you ask, he will try his best to satisfy you, and he will not be stingy in terms of money, but if a man does not associate with you with sincerity from the beginning, he will definitely find all kinds of excuses to avoid responsibility. When you meet the kind of man who often puts "no money" on his lips, it is best to stay away early.
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