Tu Lei's "history of disillusionment", his story is far worse than you think

Some people say: "As long as anyone who has listened to Tu Lei's program will be conquered by his charm",

Tu Lei on the stage has a cold face and poisonous tongue, sharp words, and can break the true meaning of human nature every time.

Whether it is love, affection or various complex emotions, Tu Lei can hit the point directly, and a few words will make people suddenly realize,

Before 2020, "Love Defense War" was broadcast for 10 years, and Tu Lei was also on fire for 10 years.

At his peak, Tu Lei's status far exceeded that of Meng Fei and Lejia, and he sat firmly on the chair of "China's First Emotional Mentor".

However, after 2020, Tu Lei suddenly "disappeared".

When it appears in the public eye again, "emotional mentor" Tu Lei has become a "network anchor",

He used to be on TV, but now he has to sell goods in the live broadcast room and "kneel" fans to tip,

What has Tu Lei experienced in these years? The story behind him is far worse than you think.

01

In 1977, Tu Lei was born in an ordinary family in Nanchang, Jiangxi Province.

My father was a businessman who had been on the run for many years, and my mother was a housewife.

In his childhood Tu Lei, he could not see any spirit, but some inferiority and introversion,

Because soon after giving birth to him, his mother suffered from severe rheumatoid arthritis and was bedridden for many years.

The father alone shouldered the burden of the whole family, but also faced the pressure of business, the temperament is inevitably a little grumpy,

Whenever he heard his parents arguing endlessly over trivial matters in life, Tu Lei's heart was very sad and self-blamed.

He felt that it was his arrival that made the family unhappy.

When he was young, Tu Lei only had one thought in his heart, that is, to make a lot of money to let his parents live a good life.

Therefore, he has been studying hard and has made it his goal to become a successful businessman in the future.

In order to reduce the pressure on his father, the sensible Tu Lei took the initiative to undertake all the housework and the task of taking care of his mother.

Under the persuasion and reconciliation of Tu Lei, the contradictions between parents gradually decreased, and the family atmosphere improved.

The imperfect growth environment has exercised Tu Lei's ability to think independently and can grasp the key to the problem.

Even when there are conflicts among classmates in the school, Tu Lei can solve problems well on the side, quite a "mentor" style.

In 1996, Tu Lei's college entrance examination results were not satisfactory, and he entered the computer department of Jiangxi University of Science and Technology.

After graduation, he was assigned to work in the local bank, which can also be regarded as an "iron rice bowl".

But Tu Lei did not forget the dream of a businessman, and resolutely resigned after the trial period of the bank.

Tu Lei first followed a businessman boss, did sales work, and ran all over the country.

With a clever mind and a good sense of the word, he sat in the position of general manager in only one year.

After learning enough skills here, Tu Lei, who was not satisfied with the status quo, planned to run out and do it alone.

Tu Lei smelled the business opportunities of the times, opened an Internet café, sold touch screens and other electronic products,

Hitching a ride on the express train of the rapid development of the Internet, Tu Lei's business is very hot, and he has also made a lot of money.

In 2000, Tu Lei earned 500,000 yuan, which was an incredible amount at that time.

Perhaps this road has gone too smoothly, Tu Lei's ambitions have become bigger and bigger, and things have also floated up,

He took the money to Anhui, prepared to partner with a friend to open a company, and invested 500,000 yuan in it.

As a result, Tu Lei was deceived, the 500,000 hit the water, and this friend also disappeared.

Tu Lei, who was originally scrappy, lost his family overnight and was fiercely "taught" by life.

The young and vigorous Tu Lei was a little radical, he grabbed a kitchen knife, and he was going to rush to find someone to fight,

Fortunately, the patrolling police found it in time on the way, which avoided a tragic case.

Tu Lei, who was in pain, had to admit his fate, but he was not willing to fall on it.

After eating steamed buns and instant noodles at home for a while, Tu Lei made a decision to break the boat,

With a strong personality, he felt that he had no face to stay in Jiangxi, so he came to Changsha, Hunan Province, with the only 1,000 yuan left in his pocket.

At this time, he had abandoned all the illusions he had had, and only planned to find a job here to make a living.

But what he didn't expect was that when he was at his worst, the favor of fate would quietly come.

02

After coming to Changsha, Tu Lei felt very confused for a while, unable to see the future direction,

After going around for a while, a job advertisement of Changsha Radio Came into his eyes.

At that time, midnight emotional radio programs were very popular and popular among young people.

Tu Lei thought that he always helped his friends around him solve emotional problems, so he signed up for a past interview host.

Among the hundreds of applicants, Tu Lei is not from the class, and the 28-year-old is also considered to be older, and does not occupy any advantage.

However, in the interview, Tu Lei's deep voice and social experience after experiencing ups and downs played an important role.

The interview was very optimistic about Tu Lei's potential, and he successfully stood out and was successfully admitted to the radio.

Tu Lei thus began his radio hosting career, the first program was "Foothills Night Talk",

Tu Lei, who was born in Yeluzi, has no constraints and wants to try a different hosting style.

He felt that the previous host spoke too softly and easy-going, not only had no characteristics, but also could not really help the audience solve problems.

So in this show, Tu Lei spoke without mercy, and he dared to say and fear anyone who was not accustomed to it.

For those who twisted their posture and distorted their thoughts, Tu Lei scolded them to the point of bloodshed, and even foul-mouthed.

His views are to the point, his style is sharp and bold, and his poisonous comments are heard by people who are directly happy and applaud him, clapping his hands and applauding,

"Lushan Night Talk" quickly became popular, the listening rate jumped to the top of the list, and Tu Lei also became a celebrity in the hosting industry.

Many listeners suddenly woke up after being "scolded" by Tu Lei and thanked Tu Lei.

But there were also people who were scolded and red-faced, harbored hatred for Tu Lei, wrapped in clothes and knives at the radio station door, waiting to retaliate against him.

Tu Lei was impressed by this: "Fortunately, I ran fast that day, jumped into the taxi and escaped the disaster",

This vignette did not affect Tu Lei, and his hosting career on the radio was still in full swing.

Not only did he like more and more listeners, but there was also a girlfriend who admired him, Xiao Maruzi,

Xiao Maruzi is 9 years younger than Tu Lei, and has become a loyal fan of Tu Lei because she loves to listen to Tu Lei's programs.

After meeting, Tu Lei fell in love with Xiao Maruzi at first sight, and the two soon fell in love.

At that time, although Tu Lei pointed out the country in the program, in fact, his monthly salary was only 400 yuan.

He not only has to support himself, but also sends money to his family from time to time, and he is even more stretched after falling in love.

In order not to let Xiao Maruzi follow his grievances, Tu Lei began to develop to a higher-income TV program.

In 2006, Tu Lei hosted programs such as "Fangyuan Investigation", "Not Tu Is Not Happy", "Very Observant" and other programs on Changsha TV.

With the consistent poisonous tongue style, the ratings of these programs hosted by Tu Lei are very good,

In order to attract the attention of the audience, Tu Lei expanded the object of the shelling to some celebrities.

In 2010, Tu Lei scolded the writer Han Han for being a "mad dog with connotations" on the news talk show "Ga-Popcorn".

Tu Lei's fame is getting bigger and bigger, and his value is also rising.

In 2011, Tu Lei joined the Zhejiang Satellite TV times program "9:30", with an annual salary of 500,000.

While presiding over the bright future of his career, Tu Lei's love has finally come to fruition.

Soon after, Tu Lei and his girlfriend Ofe, who had been in love for four years, entered the marriage hall and held a grand wedding.

They gave birth to a lovely daughter after marriage, Tu Lei can be said to be a double harvest of career and family,

At this moment, he is stepping onto the "altar" step by step, and he is about to usher in the real peak of his career.

In 2014, a number of TV stations simultaneously threw olive branches to Tu Lei.

Liaoning Satellite TV invited him to host "Perfect Confession", and Zhejiang Satellite TV invited him to host "Love And Look".

There are also Tianjin Satellite TV's "Nothing But You", "Love Defense War", "Boss Metamorphosis"...

It can be said that which program Tu Lei hosts, which program can burst into flames,

Many hosts can do a good job of a show even if it is successful, but Tu Lei can achieve "full blossoming",

With his participation, the ratings of these shows have soared, and his popularity has also climbed.

What made Tu Lei become "China's chief emotional mentor" was the "Love Defense War" that was popular all over the country at that time.

This emotional talk show focuses on the various confusions and contradictions encountered by men and women in reality in their feelings.

Tu Lei can grasp the focus of the problem every time, in a word, and analyze the facts to the head of the Tao,

Under his guidance, many couples and couples have saved the right feelings, or bid farewell to the wrong people.

For those who are obsessed, Tu Lei scolded with his head covered until he "woke up" the other party.

Some netizens concluded: "Tu Lei hosted the show, with two mouths and one ear",

In this way, Tu Lei suppressed LeJia and Meng Fei and sat on the top seat of "emotional mentor".

03

However, happiness is born of sorrow, things will be reversed, and people will always start to decline when they are most proud,

Tu Lei is no exception, after the explosion of popularity, there are more and more controversies around him,

First of all, he was "too fluttery", I don't know when to start, Tu Lei's poisonous tongue sharpened into no one in sight,

He began to "judge" others in a condescending posture, and his attitude became more and more violent and extreme.

In the emotional program "Love Defense War", Tu Lei scolded some guests as "scumbags and scumbags", "white-eyed wolves" and "green tea".

These behaviors are indeed unpleasant, so Tu Lei's face-to-face golden sentences made the audience laugh.

But on the job search show "None of You", Tu Lei's poisonous tongue seems a bit out of place.

In one episode, a 53-year-old Uncle Xu came to the stage to apply for a job, and also carefully prepared the application works.

But Tu Lei was dismissive the whole time, and used an attitude full of contempt to ridicule this uncle,

In his demeanor, words and deeds, instead of respecting the elders, he was not inferior everywhere.

For example: "People without self-knowledge do not need courage" "You are 53 years old and still apply, can you give yourself a decent, can you rely on the dot score", he even put his hand on the shoulder of the uncle, full of playful expressions,

The uncle who was "educated in public" by Tu Lei was angry, ripped off the headset, and left the stage in anger.

There are still a lot of similar things, because people will float when they are red, and Tu Lei's temper is getting bigger and bigger.

On the show, he doesn't allow others to contradict his point of view, as long as what he says is "the truth",

If someone disagrees, then he will raise his voice to persuade the other party, and even escalate to insulting the other party.

Because of his repeated outspoken words, Tu Lei blackened his image,

Although many viewers have resented him, there are many people who support him, which can only be said to be a mixed reputation.

It wasn't until something more surprising happened later that Tu Lei gradually fell into a "career crisis.".

In 2019, a netizen posted a video of encountering Tu Lei on the plane on social platforms.

Only to see Tu Lei wearing a T-shirt, stepping on a pair of flip-flops, and sitting on the seat of first class with a big grin.

Then, he pedaled his slippers to the opposite cabin of the plane, looking leisurely and self-satisfied.

In a public place like the aircraft cabin, but also a confined space, Xu Lei's behavior is very uncomfortable,

Ordinary people who do uncivilized things will also be criticized, let alone a public figure like Tu Lei?

After the video was exposed, there was a lot of noise on the Internet, and countless voices of criticism and insults poured into Tu Lei.

Netizens who exposed this video left a message: "You are dismissive of me, I still have you a million hot",

It can be seen that Tu Lei's previous lofty posture has already offended many viewers, which has laid the foundation for the curse.

Many people left messages: "On the surface, humble and gentleman, behind the scenes, dirty villains" "In the program, it is full of benevolence and morality, teaching others how to be a person and three views, and it turns out that privately it is this quality".

With the rapid fermentation of public opinion, Tu Lei's public image has also plummeted, and he has to respond.

To this end, Tu Lei specially recorded an apology video and wrote a "small essay" of more than a thousand words.

He sincerely apologized publicly and said that he needed to raise his legs because of varicose veins.

Tu Lei's attitude of admitting mistakes is quite positive, and many netizens have gradually calmed down their anger after seeing the response.

Originally thought that this matter was about to turn over, but I did not expect that Tu Lei offended not only the audience, but even his peers hated him to the bone.

Shortly after Tu Lei released his response, CCTV host Liu Yuanyuan also released a long article, fiercely attacking Tu Lei.

Liu Yuanyuan began with a sentence: "Tu Lei, I haven't seen you for many days, I heard that you have varicose veins?" ”，

The implication is that Tu Lei is deceiving the public that his varicose veins are just an excuse.

In the following article, Liu Yuanyuan even scolded Tu Lei to the point of being deceitful, summing it up as follows: "To put it bluntly, life is too spoiled for you, and spoiling you so much that we look unpleasant!" "This makes people wonder what kind of deep hatred they have?

This long article once again pushed Tu Lei to the cusp of the storm, when some people also pointed the spearhead at Liu Yuanyuan,

Saying that her "shrew scolding the street" statement is too indecent, and there is a bit of suspicion of borrowing the topic,

But no matter what, with Liu Yuanyuan's "assistance", Tu Lei's reputation has been completely incurable.

Tu Lei knew that he was in a loss, so he put away the character who did not accept defeat, and did not return to Liu Yuanyuan.

After this incident, Tu Lei's "gentleman" image completely collapsed, and his career also fell into a trough.

But the controversy that followed did not diminish, and Tu Lei was soon revealed to be the news of the program's fraud.

Sharp-eyed netizens found that in an issue of "Love Defense War" in 2017, there was a male guest named Ye Trough.

This male guest is a "strange person", who usually lives by spending his girlfriend's money, and acquiesced to the good brother's oil girlfriend,

In that episode, Tu Lei scolded him to be complete and self-conscious, making the audience clap their hands and applaud.

As a result, only a month later, the male guest changed his appearance to "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb", his name is Zhang Wei,

So this person is obviously an actor, and Tu Lei's anger on the show is "singing double reeds",

Netizens sarcastically said: "Tu Lei, as a host, did not expect that his acting skills were quite good."

04

In 2020, Tu Lei announced his withdrawal from "Love Defense War" and no longer served as an "emotional mentor".

He said that in the past ten years, because he was busy with work, he lacked the company of his family and missed a lot of beauty.

So he decided to fulfill the agreement with his wife and daughter, reduce his work, and return to his family.

This heartfelt remark has resonated with many people, many people have expressed support for Tu Lei's decision.

But what people did not expect was that Tu Lei, who left the stage, did not really "retire", but began to live broadcast goods as an Internet celebrity.

After Tu Lei opened a short video account, he quickly had nearly 50 million fans.

He broadcasts live at 9 p.m. every day, helping merchants with goods and analyzing emotional problems from time to time.

Compared with his previous host, Tu Lei's current income is only increasing, and he is making a lot of money.

In this way, the real reason why Tu Lei left the TV show is to make more money.

After all, the TV industry is declining year by year, this cake is getting smaller and smaller, and there are fewer and fewer to share,

But after a two-hour live broadcast, Tu Lei's fan tips alone have tens of thousands of pieces, not counting the share of the sale,

He himself once said: "Only money is real, everything else is fake."

Some people say that tu lei has been abandoned by capital and is just "fishing for gold" with fame.

From a well-known program host to a sensational anchor with goods, Tu Lei "degenerated",

But there are still some people who still like his sharp and poisonous tongue and sharp style, and think that he lives too dashingly.

However, for Tu Lei today, it does not matter what kind of view the outside world has on him.

Because he not only has a pair of wives and daughters to accompany him, he is also mixed up in the live broadcasting industry.

From the former "emotional mentor" to the "hypocrite" that everyone shouts and beats, and then to the current "selling anchor",

Tu Lei is indeed "not red", but he also lives a very moist life, and he does not worry about money at all.

The Tu Lei who was in the limelight at that time has completely disappeared, will you feel sorry?