Emotional expert Tu Lei said: Men's nature is to conquer women, and women's nature is to be conquered.
Men prefer to conquer women, and women enjoy being conquered by men even more. But true love is gender-neutral, especially when true love comes to us, and as women, we are also eager to conquer the men we like.
Silly women may only use their hearts when they get along with men, but in the end they will be abandoned by men. In fact, women also need skill to conquer men. The trilogy of smart women conquering men is noble, generous, and strong.
01. Noble
Writer SuZen said: Can make a person love you all the time, not because you are gentle and kind, but you have value, can bring him more happiness and sense of accomplishment. valuable
Men are very realistic, not only do you let men love you all the time, you have to be valuable. When you first met a man, you can't leave a feeling that you are cheap and worthless in the heart of a man. Otherwise, the man won't even get close to you, let alone that he will be attracted to you and chase you.
In the Japanese drama "Quartet", it is said that the women who make men can't help but get close and remember after leaving are usually as clingy and noble as cats, domineering and preferred like tigers, and as weak and pitiful as dogs in the rain.
If a woman wants to conquer a man, it is important to make the man think that you are noble or difficult to chase.
02. Generous
Roh Herrick said: The joy of love is mixed with tears. Indeed, love is not only full of joy, when we enjoy the sweetness and beauty of love, love will also bring us a lot of pain and even misfortune.
If a woman wants to conquer a man, she must give in and compromise in the relationship, and cannot blindly act willfully.
Xiao Fang, the girlfriend of friend Xiao Jun, looks very beautiful, but Xiao Fang has a shortcoming, has a bad temper, and always quarrels with Xiao Jun because of a little sesame small matter.
Xiao Jun loves Xiao Fang very much, just thinking that he is tired, it is nothing to coax Xiao Fang more. But a year has passed, and XiaoFang's temper has not changed at all. Every time no matter what happened, It was Xiao Jun who bowed to Xiao Fang and confessed his mistake.
After a year of dating, Xiaofang mentioned breaking up hundreds of times. Xiao Jun really couldn't stand it, and there was no way to agree to separate from Xiao Fang. After two years, Xiaojun found a girlfriend named Lulu.
Although Lulu is not as beautiful as Xiaofang, her personality is gentle and considerate than Xiaofang. During the relationship between Xiaojun and Lulu, both sides will tolerate each other and get along very well. XiaoJun told me that Lulu was more generous and comfortable to get along with than Xiaofang, so he now decided to marry Lulu.
The writer Wanqing once said: One of the most difficult problems for women to overcome is stinginess, calculation, a little bit of small things can not be thought of, and geng is worried about many days.
Deeply. Men care a lot about the experience of being with women, and they will judge whether they are suitable for each other through your relationship. Although many women are beautiful and make men fall in love at first sight, they are easy to get bored for a long time. Because they are usually too stingy and calculating, they always hold on to men with a little thing and do not tolerate men, resulting in men preferring to give up on them and choose women who are not beautiful, but they are more generous and feel more comfortable to get along with.
03. Strong
Many women have just lost love, been abandoned by men, and when they find me, they will always ask me such a question: I am so good to him, how can he betray me?
The writer Suzen said that if you say that you can give up everything, including life and dignity, for him, then love is not far from betraying you. Yeah, you might be really nice to him. Have you ever thought that such a you will lose your own charm in the hearts of men.
A man has really liked you, but what he likes is the principled and framework you used to be. But now you have given up your ego for him, and you can not hesitate to turn yourself into a fish on the nail board for him, and any he slaughters.
Such a weak you in the eyes of men can be bullied, step on you, your value is not high, and even men will feel that he conquered you anyway, and he does not need you. So when a woman is getting along with a man, she must be strong when she should be strong, and let the man clearly know that you are a woman with a bottom line and self, and he cannot easily hurt you, so that the man will be in awe of you and you will be in awe of your relationship, and you can also grasp the man's heart.
It is true that feelings need to be sincere, but silly women do not understand men. Men are fickle, you blindly treat men sincerely, and smart women know that you can't keep men like this.
If a woman wants to conquer a man, sincerity is the foundation, noble, generous, strong, and skill routines are also inevitable.