At the beginning, after the love affair between Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin was exposed, their love of 32 years apart soon caused an uproar in society. In the face of overwhelming denial and unblessed marriage, this pair of "old and young lovers" suffered a wave of ridicule and ridicule. When people lament the huge difference in age between the two of them, they also ignore the soul fit of the two of them.
Now that 25 years have passed quietly, I think that the voices of opposition at the beginning have gradually become doubts, what is the reason that caused this old wife and young husband to go against the wind, despite the world's prejudices, they still have to tie the knot? In the face of this marriage, how did the husband and wife cherish each other?
Seeing each other and hating late, the old wife and the young husband first met
The combination of the two of them should start from when Li Yucheng was a child. At the age of 8, under the leadership of his father, Li Yucheng went to see Ma Yuqin's duo, and ma Yuqin was 40 years old, relying on her loud and sweet voice on the stage, so that Li Yucheng remembered her style. Who would have thought that Li Yucheng, who watched the two-person turn for the first time, was fascinated by the two-person turn.
For a long time since then, when he heard that Ma Yuqin's duo had a performance, Li Yucheng would always grab a seat at the first time. Every time Ma Yuqin appeared, Li Yucheng's heart was very happy. On the stage, Ma Yuqin's style is still the same, and under the stage, Li Yucheng is intoxicated, and the reverence that rises in his heart is like a spring.
Two people of different generations are on their own path of life. Once, Ma Yuqin's partner was temporarily absent, and when she saw that she was about to go on stage, Ma Yuqin was completely panicked, and at this time someone recommended Li Yucheng to her. At that time, Li Yucheng was already a 24-year-old lean boy, and the two took the stage for the first time, and the applause of the audience was endless.
With this cooperation experience, Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin have become a new pair. In addition to performances, Ma Yuqin often teaches Li Yucheng to learn to sing two-person turns, and as a reward, Li Yucheng will also teach Ma Yuqin to sing some popular songs. Between the two backs and forths, the two hearts gradually got closer and closer, and in learning from each other's strengths and complementing each other's weaknesses, the two had a feeling of seeing each other and hating each other.
Relatives objected, and the mandarin ducks went against the current
This relationship lasted for a long time, and Ma Yuqin was glad that he could find a good partner in his ideal, but Li Yucheng on the other side had further ideas for Ma Yuqin. Until one day, Li Yucheng blurted out, "Auntie, can you marry me?" Ma Yuqin was completely confused, and for a while he even lost his sense of proportion, and did not know how to reply to Li Yucheng.
In the village, his father and Ma Yuqin were elementary school classmates, and according to this generation, Ma Yuqin naturally became Li Yucheng's aunt. Ma Yuqin calmed down for several days before he expressed his heart to Li Yucheng in a serious tone: "Our personalities are very suitable, but it is limited to the care and love of the elders and juniors, where dare you want to live together!" ”
Since ancient times, we have known that sincerity can only be exchanged for sincerity, and this is true for any feeling. In the day-to-day cooperation between Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin on the same stage, this friendship will inevitably change its flavor. Time flies, after more than two years of getting along day and night, Li Yucheng's heart Ma Yuqin can't feel it.
In our traditional thinking, people seem to be more willing to accept marriages between men and women, and conversely, if the woman is older than the man, it will attract different eyes, not to mention the marriage that is 32 years apart. Sure enough, the people in the village did not understand the combination of this pair, and the families of both sides were naturally very opposed.
Especially for Li Yucheng's family: "He is so old, two years older than your mother, I really don't know what ecstasy she injected into you!" Similarly, Ma Yuqin's family also has a resolute attitude: "My father has been dead for so long, you are more than half a hundred years old, do you know what outsiders think of you?" The four words 'for the old disrespect' are too heavy! Despite the difficulties of the families on both sides, Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin never thought of separating.
Depending on each other for their lives, the days are sweet no matter how hard they are
In the end, in the case of soft and hard and fruitless, Li Yucheng did not hesitate to break with his family. In order to avoid the villagers from gossiping, Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin eloped to settle down in the wasteland a hundred miles away from the village. Before the house was built, two people built a house at sunrise during the day, and at night they were used as beds on the ground.
Li Yucheng said: "In the beginning, we had a very difficult life, but the hearts of both sides were sweet, when we were not working, we would sing and sing the two of us, as long as we hummed up, the suffering in front of us would not be anything, because they knew that after surviving all the suffering, the rest must be sweet!" ”
The first thing after the house is built is to get a license to get married. There are no relatives to witness, no high-ranking friends to fill the seats, everything is simple at the wedding, and the days after marriage are poor but also comfortable to spend a full 10 years. Seeing that Li Yucheng's parents were old, Ma Yuqin advocated a reunion on the occasion of August 15, and He Nai once again suffered rejection from Li Yucheng's family.
When they returned home, the house they had worked so hard to build had also become a rubble and rubble, and together with the house, there were dozens of pounds of grain that the two relied on for their lives. Watching the former love nest gradually collapse, Ma Yuqin did not shed a tear, Li Yucheng comforted her: "The house will burn down, it is a big deal that we will rebuild it, as long as we are here, everything has the possibility of starting again!" ”
After 25 years of perseverance, young and old love bursts with new vitality
In the face of her 54-year-old husband, Ma Yuqin also can't bear to live up to her husband's years of perseverance, in order to accompany her husband for longer, Ma Yuqin will insist on exercising every day as much as possible without getting sick. Once upon a time, Ma Yuqin also used the money earned by the couple to shoot short videos to do some plastic surgery, hoping to be worthy of her husband. Every time the couple goes out to the market, the crowd often casts a strange look, but Ma Yuqin has long been accustomed to all this in front of her.
No matter how the outside world evaluates and what kind of eyes they look at, the hands held by Ma Yuqin and Li Yucheng have never been separated. For Li Yucheng, perhaps Ma Yuqin is not beautiful enough, but she is not afraid to accompany herself without fear of hardship, and this dedication to love is enough to make him worry about his stomach. For Ma Yuqin, a man gives himself his best years, but he can't have children for him, although it is a pity, but there seems to be destiny in the dark.
Today, Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin have been in the same boat for 25 years, although Ma Yuqin is 86 years old at this time, but the feelings of the two people have never deteriorated. On weekdays, from Li Yucheng's combing of Ma Yuqin's hair, the action of picking vegetables and the look in his eyes, you can see love, the action can be fake, but the eyes cannot be faked, although the age is not matched, but the fate has let them go through 25 years.
In the end, what is love, how to count love, what is the most precious friendship in the world, how to see the most beautiful scenery of nature, the answer has always been difficult to determine since ancient times. But in the couple who are 32 years apart between Ma Yuqin and Li Yucheng, many people have found the most beautiful answer that they can accept. Perhaps they did not love fiercely like a storm, but they were better than the weather after the rain, as brilliant as a rainbow.
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