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Text | Dreamers in the sea
Editor | Dreamer in the sea
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It is clear that he can raise an age to enjoy the joy of being happy under his knees every day, but he wants to marry a 27-year-old "son" husband, with a difference of more than thirty years of mother-son love, Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin, a strange couple, believe that it will still be difficult for many netizens to accept for a while.
It is not difficult to see from the state of the two who have appeared in front of the camera recently, Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin may have broken their relationship with each other long ago, and some netizens revealed that Ma Yuqin was suspected of being subjected to domestic violence!
Netizens are also very strange, Li Yucheng obviously has a good youth, why did he have to choose the 60-year-old Ma Yuqin?
Unrecognized mother-child love
Indeed, the worries of netizens are not unreasonable, although the two dare to break the worldly vision and hug each other desperately for love, but after all, it is not a wise move, the current seemingly vigorous love, can it really maintain a long-term married life?
An already untimely marriage, in what way to start, will naturally end in what way, so such an ending is also inevitable, Li Yucheng, who was obsessed with the two-person transfer when he was young, met the long-established Ma Yuqin by chance by chance, Ma Yuqin at that time was quite successful in the two-person industry, and was a very famous artist, so it also made Li Yucheng, who was addicted to the two-person turn, fall in love with Ma Yuqin at first sight.
After that, Li Yucheng launched a fierce pursuit of Ma Yuqin without saying a word, without caring about the world's views on this matter, regardless of showing favor to Ma Yuqin, relatives and friends who were familiar with the two also discouraged one after another, warning Li Yucheng not to make a wrong decision because of a hot head for a while, after all, this is a lifelong matter.
At the same time, Ma Yuqin's side, the son is also strongly opposed, not to mention how the neighbors will view their mother, such as "old cows eat tender grass" and other bad words will make the mother unable to raise her head in the future life, and then say that it is difficult to raise the children, seeing that it is about to reach the age when the children enjoy life with filial piety, and they have to re-operate their lives to take care of their husbands, and the children are really unbearable.
However, Ma Yuqin still failed to withstand Li Yucheng's sweet words after all, despite the opposition of his family, he finally agreed to Li Yucheng's pursuit, and the two who had just broken through the shackles of the world seemed to have won a battle together, and the two lived very sweetly like glue after marriage, and often sang together in a duo.
But in order to escape the opposition of their families, Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin decided to come out and live alone, but in this way, Ma Yuqin, who has reached his old age, has to continue to come out to perform on stage to earn money to support his family, but this is not a long-term solution after all, and the 60-year-old Ma Yuqin is still at the age of retirement and cannot maintain a long-term source of income.
And the young Li Yucheng conformed to the changes of the times to do live broadcast goods, but Ma Yuqin and Li Yucheng are 32 years old after all, there is a generation in between, Ma Yuqin does not understand the Internet at all, let alone what is live broadcasting, but can make money across the mobile phone, helpless now he has not only completely lost any ability to make money, but also has to rely on Li Yucheng's care.
Therefore, slowly the common topic of the two is less and less, Li Yucheng has long lost the same liking for Ma Yuqin as he did at the beginning, not only has to face the gradually aging face but also take care of Ma Yuqin's life like an old mother, and now 80-year-old Ma Yuqin has long lost the novelty of Li Yucheng, and gradually became impatient with Li Yucheng.
Ma Yuqin was suspected of being beaten
Thirty years of life trivial matters have long smoothed out the original emotions, but also fulfilled everyone's ideas, Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin, the controversy of the strange couple has also brought a lot of traffic to Li Yucheng's live broadcast, among which many netizens who have come to pay attention are more concerned about how such a rare couple like them get along and how they live.
In order to win traffic, Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin also often share their daily life on the Internet, really can't be fake, the same fake can't be real, many careful netizens said after reading: This is also too fake, completely acting for show, from the photo of the two can be seen that Li Yucheng is taking care of Ma Yuqin's fake fake strange expression, and Ma Yuqin's face is also full of disgust.
In this way, the relationship between Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin may have been at odds for a long time, and Li Yucheng often brings some aunts of the same age to play at home, and Ma Yuqin, who is in his eighties, can only turn a blind eye.
From the mouth of the neighbor, I learned that Li Yucheng is also very likely to have domestic violence, often can hear the sound of quarrels and falling things from next door, and from time to time can hear Ma Yuqin's screams, and sometimes even directly in front of the aunts brought back by Li Yucheng began to cry loudly about their scriptures.
Ma Yuqin amended his will
However, some netizens feel that this is actually a farce choreographed by the two themselves, the purpose is to attract traffic and seek attention, but now if they have to say that they are true love, netizens absolutely do not believe, normal couples will have constant friction, not to mention an unusual couple like Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin, so there must be a certain contradiction between them.
So, according to the current age of the two, what is Li Yucheng willing to talk and laugh with the aunts outside for a short time than divorce Ma Yuqin?
When I heard that the two were still very affectionate before, Ma Yuqin intended to leave some of his assets to his man after he left, but he didn't expect that in the end, the relationship between the two gradually drifted apart, Ma Yuqin still decided to leave all his inheritance to his own grandson, and the quarrel heard by the neighbors was likely to come from this.
And now, saying anything doesn't help, after all, Ma Yuqin has passed away, only Li Yucheng is left to be happy, and what he has seen on Li Yucheng's recent social account is the experience of traveling to various places, and he is not happy.
Whether it is appropriate to fall in love with a large age gap
The return to the event itself, in fact, what we mind has always been the problem of the age gap between the two, and now sibling love seems to have gradually become the norm in this society, and sibling love or uncle love is not necessarily far, but there are indeed many practical problems like Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin who are 32 years apart.
For example, Ma Yuqin, who was already half-cut into the soil when the two were together, is absolutely unable to regenerate, so when the two of them are both old, Li Yucheng, who is already fifty or sixty years old, will also take care of the elderly Ma Yuqin, and Ma Yuqin has a son and grandson to handle the aftermath for him, so Li Yucheng, who has no children and no daughters all his life, who will handle the aftermath for him when he is seven old and eighty.
If the age gap between the two sides is basically controlled at six or seven years old, it will form a very complementary state, according to scientific studies have shown that girls of the same age have always been more mature than boys of the same age, and think more and more comprehensively, such as girls in the process of growing up, will be based on their own experience and thinking logic of continuous changes, their ideal appearance will also change, on the other hand, boys may still be around Ultraman's monster fighting process.
That is, many people often say, girls are good at leading the right brain thinking problems will be more emotional, and boys are good at controlling the left brain more rational, from a psychological point of view, people always like to seek security in emotions, usually boys' Oedipal complex will be more serious, but in the later growth process, the mother's figure will slowly decrease.
Therefore, many boys feel that they lack security, and girls are born with maternal bugs, like to exude maternal love, can give boys meticulous care, and consider boys everywhere, which leads to these boys liking girls who are older than themselves, and will make them feel very comfortable in sibling love.
On the other hand, the girls in this relationship, because in the same age group, the ideal or excellent boys they like are basically married and have children, so when she meets a boy younger than herself, she can also re-experience the feeling of youth.
Usually girls are angry just to get more attention and care, maybe only need a simple hug from boys to solve the problem, young boys may not have so much care.
But if you change to an older boy, you are likely to talk about things with girls, without taking into account the mood of girls, and you will never let go of your body to apologize to your girlfriend and make your girlfriend happy, moreover, since ancient times, there has been a saying that the female junior holds the gold bricks, so the appropriate age difference will be easy to be together.
Then uncle love is the same, girls as weak individuals in this world, in the relationship will need more security than boys, so an older boy, has already honed in the society mature men should have the ability and reason, will make girls more secure.
And girls at this age are also full of vitality, will make the boys who have been smoothed by society revitalized, of course, these are the basic conditions for the two to walk together, if you want to go long-term, the three views and living conditions of the two sides are the most important.
In this era, it is already quite inclusive, and there are many years different from uncle love, sibling love, so falling in love, age gap is not a problem, everyone has long put down the old traditional ideological concepts, as long as it is not more than ten years old There is no big problem.
However, the most important thing is that both parties must have similar growth experiences and like-minded interests, and at the same time, both parties must think clearly before making decisions when starting this relationship, is such an emotion really what they need?
Therefore, we must learn to be responsible for this relationship, no matter what kind of relationship is the need for both parties to support each other and grow together, maintain a certain balance, this relationship can be long-term.