Love mountain alliance sea oath, even if the world falls apart, you always have the unity of heaven and earth, only dare to be brave and romantic with the king. Unfortunately, marriage is different. Marriage is a wall, people on the outside want to go in, people inside want to come out, in that wall, love looms, human nature begins to struggle, hesitation and cringe gradually grow. Whether it is worldly or practicing, two people who once wanted to grow old with a white head were forced to meet the ditches and bumps along the way and start the greatest experience of life. Fortunately, the three biggest obstacles in marriage have been a lifetime.
First, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of a big family, especially the matter of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the heating of the love of husband and wife. A bad mother-in-law relationship is an accelerator of marital breakdown. Many newlyweds don't realize the significance of marriage. Children will leave their parents and set up a new home in the future, which refers more to psychological distance. The so-called new home, is the husband and wife as the mainstay, parents and in-laws as guests, if the man escapes confrontation with others, the marriage of two people will be stuffed with the grievances of three people, even the best couple will have cracks, but if the husband and wife respect the elderly, but also always bear the responsibility and obligation of being the master of the house, the family is also happy.
Second, parenting differences
The two have the crystallization of love and are of course ecstatic. The arrival of each new life brings not only surprises, but also fright. The concepts of the two generations are inconsistent in all aspects, and when there are no children, some things are accommodated and forgotten. But after having children, many things become intolerable, easy to erupt, coupled with children as a third party, so that the couple who should be the closest slowly becomes an obstacle. For children, the love of parents is far more important than economic conditions.
Third, life is trivial
The complicated life of day after day brings couples heartfelt boredom and disappointment. Emotional discord, in short, is that the husband and wife are tortured beyond recognition by the trivialities of life. Whether it is love or marriage, what is most needed is cooperation. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a competition between the small family and the original family, and the cooperation between husband and wife can get real growth.
A happy marriage has never been smooth sailing to the whitehead, but a bumpy road, and the husband and wife can always work together to break the gold, far more critical than love.