It is very tiring to bring children, which is the experience of many parents.
A Ms. Liu once posted that since having a baby, the sweetness that my husband and I once had is gone, and there are two main reasons for not having it: first, I feel tired every day and have no mood; second, the child is a kind of "bondage" after all, always thinking of living a sweet two-person life with her husband, I will be discovered by the child, and my heart should be diaphragm, so after my baby was born, I was rarely with my husband.
In fact, Ms. Liu holds a similar view to Ms. Guo from Quanzhou, Fujian Province.
Ms. Guo said: "I am a mother of two children, the eldest son is 6 years old this year, and the younger son is 5 years old this year. Since both sons were mischievous and unashamed, my husband and I had rarely had a sweet life since we had both of them. ”
Ms. Guo continued: "Two children is one of the main reasons that affect my sweet life with my husband, of course, there is another very important reason, that is, our husband and wife run a convenience store, every day from morning to night, there is no time to live a sweet life with my husband." ”
Ms. Guo continued: "On April 3, my father-in-law who lived in the countryside wanted to take his two children to the countryside to play for a few days, so my husband and I were very happy, after all, when the children went to the countryside, my husband and I could worry about it for a few days. After my father-in-law took the two children away, my husband and I were very excited, but who knows, the excitement of both of us had just begun, and there was a very embarrassing scene. ”
According to the surveillance video uploaded by Ms. Guo, after her father-in-law took the two children out of the convenience store, she happily embraced her husband, but just when she was lifted up by her husband, a customer suddenly walked in, and the scene was very embarrassing. So, her husband quickly put her down, so ashamed that she squatted down, eager to drill a seam into it. Of course, after seeing this scene, the customer also felt very embarrassed, laughed awkwardly and hurriedly exited the store.
When Ms. Guo uploaded the surveillance video to the Internet, netizens had a heated discussion.
Hello netizens, I am also good: nothing, don't be embarrassed, I see that the person who walked into the store is also an adult, I understand everything. What else is embarrassing? Ha ha.
Netizens are not old: two children around, you will feel too depressed, when the two children are picked up by their grandfather, you two naturally want to relax yourself, netizens have expressed understanding, but your husband and wife are also too bold, even in the store to relax themselves, how anxious should this be? Ha ha.
Netizen Fenghua Xueyue: As long as you don't feel embarrassed, it is useless for others to be embarrassed. However, customers don't know why you are so excited, so you add to the imagination of customers. From this point of view, you should pay the customer for the labor. Ha ha.
In short, there are many comments among netizens.
A marriage expert pointed out that many couples will deliberately inhibit their nature after having children, which will make them feel that married life is boring. After a long time, it may also affect the feelings between husband and wife. Based on this, couples should learn to self-regulate, and should psychologically eliminate the concept of "children are bondage", so as to take the opportunity to create a sweet life that should be between husband and wife.
Can you agree with what marriage experts say?