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The recent hit drama "Heart Residence" is a family reality genre drama, whether it is family relations, kinship relations, or workplace relations, it can arouse the resonance of the masses.
Living in the world, we all have to deal with people, inevitably need to deal with a variety of relationships, used to always maintain the most pure and kind heart to treat everyone, and then found out that in fact, there are more hypocrisy in this world, more people waiting to see your jokes.
People live in this world, like a sandwich cookie, need to resist malice from all directions, and this malice often comes from people around who originally thought they were close.
Never overestimate human nature, everyone has selfish intentions, no one will be good to a person without reservation, profit and avoid harm is human instinct, no matter what kind of relationship, there is a long food chain, in this food chain, everyone is looking down on people who are inferior to themselves. If you don't have the ability, don't blame others for looking down on you.
At first, each of us was very simple and naïve, and always maintained a pure yearning for the world, and then slowly saw through some human truths, slowly quit innocence, and became mature. Only by understanding the truth of human nature can we truly understand it.
The reality of "Heart Dwelling" is that we can all find the shadow of some people in life, and watching other people's stories is like looking at our own lives, and we can all get some inspiration from it.
I hope that we can all understand the truth of these human natures as soon as possible, and see clearly as soon as possible and benefit early.
In the family, if you have money, you have the right to speak
Money is the foundation of a person's life, and it is also the ownership of the right to speak in a relationship.
People without money are always not looked up to, and they can't look up in any relationship, just like Feng Xiaoqin, although she, as a daughter-in-law, would have had a layer of estrangement from her in-laws, but in fact, money is still making trouble, if she has the ability, Gu Qingyu will not treat her as a thief.
It was also like Shi Yuan, because he had no ability to earn money, so the inferiority in his heart was always hidden, causing him to always be unable to raise his head in front of Gu Qingyu. Two people often quarrel over money.
Feng Xiaoqin and Shi Yuan's state is triggered by no money, no matter how much you pay your heart and lungs, no matter how hard you try to prove yourself, but in the family, there are still rich people who control the right to speak.
Gu Qingyu is such a person, she always has a lofty posture, talking with a gun and a stick, looking down on many people, these undertones are actually given to her by money.
In the Gu family, she controls the absolute right to speak, including her father, brother, and even the whole family, she does not fear anyone, everyone has to let her in front of her, give her a thin noodle.
She can lend 300,000 yuan to her aunt with a wave of her hand, and then openly and secretly punch the face of the great aunt in the family group, Gao Chang said: I look at this family, that is, Qingyu dares to say a few fair words, others are in the mud, it is the money that has such a confidence.
Gu Qingyu didn't have to do anything in her mother's house, like a relative, she didn't pay for anything, but everyone in her family obeyed her. No matter how much Feng Xiaoqin pays for this family, she is just a nanny-like existence, which is the difference between having money and not having money.
Few of your relatives really want you to be well
In fact, in our lives, the biggest object of comparison is relatives, relatives seem to have a blood relationship, but in fact, everyone is comparing openly and secretly, afraid that the other party is better than themselves.
In "Heart Residence", this comparison is intuitively displayed, and the excessive attention of the aunt and the great aunt to the Gu Qingyu family in the play is not the mutual correlation between relatives, but the fear that they are better off than themselves.
It is reasonable to say that relatives should not have interfered too much in the lives of other people's families, and those relatives who pay attention frequently are not really good to you, but because they are waiting to see your jokes.
When Gu Qingyu got married, the great aunt and aunt went to inquire about the man's conditions for the first time, in fact, they were all pregnant with ghost fetuses, Gu Qingyu's conditions were the best among all the descendants, which they could not compare, so they wanted to be better in her marriage.
Knowing that she had found a working-class, family man with an average family situation, the great aunt immediately showed a smug look on her face, and was happy that her son had found a good family.
Relatives often seem to be just inadvertent questioning, in fact, everyone is silently comparing in their hearts, asking your salary income, in order to compare with your own children, asking about your marriage, is to compare yourself, to see who is looking for the other half more.
Of course, I admit that there are indeed some relatives who have a very good relationship, who do not have two hearts with each other, and who are sincerely good for each other, but there are indeed many relatives who are competing and competing with each other, afraid that you will live better than them.
Among colleagues, the wall is pushed down by everyone, and more people who see the wind and make the rudder
Colleagues are the most familiar strangers, colleagues seem to be closest to each other every day, spend the most time together, but in fact, the heart is far apart, it is difficult to establish a deep friendship.
Colleagues, with the entanglement of interests, are calculating with each other, wary of each other, on the surface polite greetings, but you never know how they are talking about you behind your back, whether they will give you a trip.
When you are beautiful, they will surround you and show a look of courtesy, but once you fall, they will immediately draw a line with you, how far to hide.
In "Heart Residence", Ge Father is the director of the Land Bureau, Gu Jia originally looked at his identity, gave up his first love girlfriend, and Came together with Ge Yue, when Ge Father was in power, he had a patron, and everyone in the unit was very attentive to Gu Xin, and tried to get close to him. However, after Ge Father's accident, he immediately turned his face and did not recognize anyone, and everyone deliberately alienated him, pointed at him behind his back, and tried his best to alienate him.
When people are beautiful, they can never see whether the people around them are people or ghosts, once they fall down, they can see human nature clearly, after Ge Father fell, even his brother immediately turned his face, let alone others?
The wall is pushed down by everyone, and there are more people who see the wind and make the rudder in the workplace, and their attitude towards you depends on where you are, never treat colleagues as friends, keep vigilant, and how long you have to look at it, so that you can save yourself.
In this life, it is better to rely on anyone than on oneself
In fact, we should have understood that in this life, the mountain will fall, everyone will run, and the only thing that can be relied on is themselves.
Some people take their parents as dependents, but their parents will eventually grow old and cannot accompany you forever, some people regard their husbands as their own dependence, but they will also have unreliable times, some people want to find a backer for themselves, but the world is unpredictable, you never know what will happen in front of you.
Gu Xin regarded the old man as his own dependence, and in order to find a patron, he did not hesitate to give up his happiness, and in the end it was just a dream of Huang Liang.
Feng Xiaoqin once regarded her husband as her own dependence, was good at calculation, tried her best to get a house, forced her husband to advance, pinned all her hopes on men, and waited until her husband died before she had to force herself to stand up.
No one can really rely on it, and it is the most untrustworthy to want to build the rest of their lives on others, and only by relying on themselves can they be the most reliable.
In this life, it is better to rely on anyone than on yourself, do not hope on others, make yourself stronger, and the rest of your life will be guaranteed.
The truth of human nature that people should see through in this life, about family, about family affection, about the workplace, covers all aspects of our lives.
Only when you have money can you have confidence and have the right to speak. Don't take family affection too seriously, many relatives are looking at your jokes, don't treat colleagues as friends, or be wary in order to protect yourself. Don't rely on anyone, quit relying on others, rely on yourself is the most reliable.
Only by reading these things and seeing through human nature can we completely understand them.