There is no feeling of hot love, but there is an urge to get married, can you

Love talk is tepid, but feel that the other party is a person who can get married, the other party does have the will to get married, break up will feel pity, at this time, how should you choose?

Take it easy, as a person who believes in seeing people's hearts for a long time, I feel that some experiences before marriage or after marriage are harmless to modern people - both of you feel that it is convenient and practical to have a certificate, and it is not a bad thing to want to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to queue up.

After a period of time, it was found that there was a difference in cooperation between each other, and for two people who already had the benefits of cooperation and could be distributed win-win, it was not an unbearable price to divide the previous points and then go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for a one-month cooling-off period.

Look, there is an urge to get married, there is no shame, and then consider how to get the proceeds of marriage.

Taking myself as an example, there are two measures of the benefits of cooperation, first, the process of marriage and cooperation is profitable; second, under the premise of acknowledging the withdrawal mechanism of divorce, a distribution plan accepted by both parties is determined.

At that time, our approach was to first calculate the overall household expenditure, discuss the way or proportion of each other's investment, and the excess money was in the accounts of the villagers themselves, and agreed that under this account, each belonged to each other.

Here is a little knowledge, after marriage, the husband and wife agree in writing that each account belongs to each other, which is legal and valid, and can be used as the main basis for divorce to divide the property.

If you feel trouble, don't agree, and the excess money is also a common account, but then I can't taste the pleasure of the other party giving me some pocket money (because this is equivalent to my own money to myself), haha.

Anyway, I am not an emotionally supreme marriage faction, if there are only male and female feelings, there is no interest growth, I think the way of weekend dating is more suitable for my own personality.

One of the growth points of the benefits of cooperation is that the cost of living together for two people is lower than the sum of the cost of living alone for two people. Here I am particularly opposed to living alone before marriage can save money, and after marriage, I want the cost of marriage before giving birth.

So I often suggest that everyone can live independently for a period of time after work, rather than living with their parents, so that they know how much money they really make and how much money they spend, so that they can't face their own poverty because they are not independent and live with others, in fact, they need to live a frugal life.

The second point of interest growth is the allocation of assets. Of course, this should be noted because it is a marriage house to waste excessive area, the era of brainless appreciation of buying a house has passed. When buying large assets, lots, lease-to-sales ratios, leverage ratios, transferable costs... It's all about taking into account.

In addition, because it is a common allocation of assets, even if you can't make half of the down payment, it is only a partial proportion, and I also recommend that you write your name proportionally on the house book. Although the other party's separate name does not seem to be a loss after the marriage, but there is a name that you enjoy the property rights of the house, and the other party needs your consent to dispose of the house.

The other party's name alone, he is likely to mortgage the house or sell the transfer of assets alone, although in theory he should compensate you, but in fact there will be a lot of implementation difficulties, it is better to prevent problems before they occur.

The third point of interest growth is that cooperation can also improve personal work efficiency.

Marriage does have a reproductive purpose, but it cannot be only for the purpose of procreation. I look for a cooperative person, not to ask him for benefits, but to give both people more energy to benefit in social cooperation.

After marriage, you can't stop your own growth, and because you can clearly understand the limitations of married and childless children in the employment market, you are more motivated to develop in many ways.

Whether it is to open a small company, do a side business, wealth management or investment... When we are in love, we may arrange more entertainment activities in order to date, and after marriage, we should give ourselves at least two or three days a week to study or try other possible time.

Don't be in a hurry to say how much money you have to make at what time, but believe that learning to make yourself happy, master more laws, and not easily be blinded by the temptation of some interest groups. The joy of learning to grow up is not under the love of love

When talking about marriage, I will not be afraid to tell men, I regard the growth of interests as the main basis of the marriage relationship. I would neither marry a man whose house did not write my name and wanted me to renovate, nor would I have children when I found out that I could not save money after marriage and did not have time to develop myself.

Don't assume that men don't like money, or that men can't accept women who are financially spontane. The longer you look forward to the cooperation time, the more you must understand that having an economic accumulation and growth curve not only improves your sense of security, but also more effectively maintains men's cooperative attitude towards you.

Although there are all kinds of annual income on the Internet that can't look at women earning a million or two million, it is not as good as full-time remarks, but in reality, the proportion of annual income is not high, and secondly, even if there is enough to earn millions of lines, if there is no complacent, in fact, I also know that the income is not once and for all, especially with the market fluctuations, he will feel that there is a partner who can properly arrange his belongings, and does not have to completely rely on his own income to determine the quality of life of the family, quite a sense of security.

Finally, acknowledging that there are benefits that arise and there is a way to distribute benefits, when distributing benefits, there must be bottom-line thinking: when preparing to experience any kind of cooperation, do not just think about the upper limit of interests, but want to produce the worst possible filing.

It is only that the other party wants to terminate the cooperation, not the worst possibility, to dare to think about the other party is not willing to end the cooperation before squeezing all the cooperative benefits, and they can only forcibly withdraw from the possibility.

Why should we agree in advance to have a personal account, the common assets should be determined by name, and the parents' gifts should be implemented into the gift agreement, etc., all in order to gather the income of the scattered distribution plan when starting the exit mechanism, which can be higher than the forced withdrawal after tearing the face.

Marriage, sometimes like a partnership company, never said that opening the company itself, you can do everything, sit and wait for dividends, right?

After entering the marriage, we are still a free soul between heaven and earth, neither a little white rabbit who understands everything, nor a hen who should be kept in captivity, maintaining her own independent account and assets under her name, at the same time, maintaining our own growth, and continuing to understand and link various social relations and participate in social activities after marriage.

When you enter marriage, you still have to be enlightened that you are your master.

Some cooperation experience, even if it is not to the first part of the feelings, but you want to clearly understand the interests and bottom line, then try it if you want to, people can also continue to grow and become stronger in various attempts.

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