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Young men and women are looking forward to encountering beautiful love, and many people believe in love at first sight, just like the romance and magic of fate. Many people will pay more attention to the first meeting with each other, and will also regard this encounter as a gift from heaven.
After two people fall in love, they will naturally have a relationship with the deepening of the relationship. In psychology, it is believed that whether a relationship can occur between men and women is actually doomed when they first meet.
Psychologists find the first side of your relationship through analysis, which determines whether there will be a relationship in the future, and will directly affect what kind of relationship two people will develop in the future.
Influence on future evaluations of each other. People will also pay more attention to the words and deeds and behaviors of the first meeting. When people know a person, at the very beginning, they have a preliminary impression based on their first feelings.
This is not a stereotyped thinking pattern of people, but a normal psychological reaction of human beings, once this impression is formed, it will not be easily changed in future interactions or exchanges, and people will therefore solidify their views and impressions of this person. Even this impression will affect the understanding and judgment of the person for a long time to come.
So people fall in love at first sight the first time they meet, and that's why.
When the opposite sex interacts, especially when two people meet for the first time, there will be a feeling of sparking, which is called love at first sight by people.
In a moment, he was touched by the image or temperament of the other party, and some emotions were generated in an instant. This reaction is a primacy effect.
After two people experience love at first sight, they will feel that the other person feels similar to himself, and he is destined to meet in the dark, and there is a feeling of seeing each other and hating late. This feeling has been described in many famous plays and literature.
Two people who fall in love at first sight develop their feelings faster than ordinary couples, they quickly come together because of their mutual attraction when they first meet, and they urgently want to fall in love with each other.
People who fall in love at first sight have a very high chance of falling in love, and the time is very fast. As long as one person pokes through this layer of affection, they can get the other party's approval to walk together, so they can quickly enter the hot love.
And these people progress very quickly in the process of falling in love, and two people will be more likely to have a relationship with the deepening of their relationship. Because the first time the two people met, they already had a fierce affection, and the surging feelings in their hearts overflowed their chests. They release their love and liking for each other by increasing intimacy.
The love brought by love at first sight is turbulent, and two people are often impulsive, and such love is also very romantic. But how long this relationship can last, how to keep the freshness of love are all problems that need to be faced.
To get to the end, we need to put more effort into managing the relationship. Many couples who have been in love for many years have not been able to enter into marriage together, and this example of love at first sight is even more difficult.
Love at first sight is a blind liking, and two people begin to have a deeper understanding after they are together.
At that time, after being full of freshness and investing in this relationship, the two people directly crossed the initial stage and entered the later life, and even planned to have several children.
Such feelings are often emotional and impulsive. Therefore, you must be rational when you are impulsive, after all, the first time you meet, you can't understand each other deeply, and you can't determine the person who is most suitable for you.
If you decide to be together in a hurry because of the good feelings generated by the first side, it is too irrational, and such a relationship will face many unforeseen problems and troubles.
Some people do not have any good feelings when they first meet, and intuitively believe that the other party is not their own dish, and they will not have feelings with each other in the future.
Such a person can become a good friend at most, but it is difficult to produce love.
Of course, there are also no feelings at the beginning, and finally with the two people getting along, they slowly develop feelings, and finally they naturally become lovers.
But this kind of long-term affection is difficult to happen, because people always make decisions at the first meeting according to the standards of their own aesthetics. If a person's first impression does not meet their own aesthetic requirements, it is difficult to have a good impression in future interactions.
If a person leaves a very good first impression on you, there will be expectations in your heart, hoping to spark love with each other. But for people who don't have feelings, they don't waste energy to continue to know each other.
Now the society is developing very rapidly, and the pace of people's lives is also accelerating. Interaction between people is similar to the form of fast food, so the impression left by the first meeting is especially important.
But it doesn't require everyone to dress up too deliberately, or to wear exaggerated clothes. Instead, behave appropriately, behave generously, and dress neatly and neatly.
These are all pluses when meeting, so that you can leave a good impression in the eyes of the other party, which also becomes an important factor in whether you have further development with the other party.
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参考资料：Vogel, D. L., & Wester, S. R. (2003). To seek help or not to seek help: The risks of self-disclosure. Journal of Counseling Psychology, 50(3), 351.