"It is difficult to say goodbye when we meet, and the east wind is powerless to have a hundred flowers." A few words reveal a lot of sadness.
It is difficult to meet, it is even more difficult to part, and the pain hidden in the heart, no matter how time passes, can not be alleviated at all.
Only because once a person is in love, he will long to breathe that the air is sweet, and he will want to stay by the side of the person he loves anytime and anywhere, and he will put the atmosphere of two people, even in winter, to emit the warmth of spring.
However, there are some people who are born with many concerns and many ideas.
He loves you very much, but he wants to be with you forever, and he wants to protect your feelings more, and he will not be separated for the rest of his life.
Therefore, once a man meets someone he really likes, in fact, he is not as brave as we think, and he will be like a woman, with many more worries and more ideas.
He will say a lot of "mountain and sea oaths" to you, and he will have a lot of "sweet words" to you, but more importantly, he has a jealousy of this relationship in his heart, he will worry that your story is short, and he will be afraid that you will turn around and leave.
Therefore, if he has you in his heart, he will have a word: fear.
Because of fear, so behind his seeming inaction, there will be some hidden feelings, and because of fear, he seems to be careful behind his back, all hiding affection.
Especially when missing you, some men's inaction does not mean that he does not want you, nor does it mean that he does not have you in his heart.
The following three times, see if the people around you are like this. If there is, then you must cherish him, because he has always cherished you in his heart.
01, when you just fell in love, he will be afraid of too much "confession", which will make you think that he is "frivolous"
At the beginning of two people's love, the sweetness of love will immediately fill every small space of life.
Whether it is on campus or a small couple who have entered the society, most of them will have the joy of love, longing for romance, eager for freshness, and eager for more solitude space for each other.
However, compared with men, women often have a lot more sensitive and suspicious elements in their personalities. When she is affectionate, she will see how the man is pleasing to the eye, and when it is light, she will wonder whether the man is sincere to her.
Therefore, at this time, men tend to be very careful with women, and he will be afraid that if he does not pay attention, say the wrong word, or do the wrong thing, he will provoke the woman to be angry and make her tired of herself.
He will want to give her the image of a perfect man, whether on the outside or on the inside, he will make himself very "warm" and will also have some "reservedness", he does not want to expose himself to the slightest shortcomings, exposed to women.
Love, in fact, is two people who are not related by blood, because some ambiguous feelings come into each other, let the hormones evaporate, so that the two people are more and more intimate, more and more love each other.
So, a man who doesn't say "I miss you" is not necessarily that he doesn't have you in mind, but that he wants you to have an elegant image of him in your heart, and he longs for your impression of him to be handsome, decent, and even cool.
You will find that he will be present whenever you need him, and when he asks you to meet, he will always "dress" himself up very "to attract your eyes".
Only because he has you in his heart, he will not want to let his own "I miss you" when you have just fallen in love, and let you feel that he is very frivolous, do not want to make a confession of his own, and take the liberty to miss you from now on.
02, in your hot love, he will be afraid of too much "initiative", will make you think he is "greasy"
In fact, in life, there are many women who emphasize that men must have a sense of ceremony for themselves.
The so-called sense of ceremony may be to say "I love you" to her every day, or it may be a holiday and birthday, two people, to celebrate well... In this way, it can be proved that they are in love.
However, many men, once they step into love, you will find that he not only says "I love you" and so on in your daily life, but also wants to be with you anytime and anywhere.
People in love are the happiest people, and this sentence is not false at all.
However, when men and women are in love, there is often a time difference. For example, men have been put into hot love, and women are still in the stage of hesitant understanding of men, so women will not respond to men very warmly, and men's initiative, in women's eyes, will have some "greasy".
Therefore, once a man finds out that women have this kind of thinking, he will be very afraid that he will not act too aggressively, and let the woman back off.
After all, the promise of the vow, although it is very good, a sentence of "I miss you", although very intoxicating, but the sublimation of a woman's love for men, but a little progressive, if she has a true feeling for this person, she will examine the man from all aspects.
For example, if a man says "I miss you" to her, as if he can say it casually, she will think: Has he talked about many girlfriends before, how can he be so deeply familiar with women's minds?
The story of love, although beautiful, is very good to say "I miss you", but if it is mixed with half sweetness and half doubt, it is not good.
Therefore, if a man perceives that you don't want to hear, he will say less, or even not say, he will find a way to use actions to prove that he really loves you, and he will also use actions to prove that he really misses you.
03, your old husband and wife for many years, he will be afraid of too much "confession", will make you think that he is "different"
The way men and women in marriage most desire to get along is: comfort.
You don't doubt me, I trust you, we depend on each other, we stand in the storm together.
Therefore, if two people are already old husbands and wives, and suddenly, men always say sweet "I miss you" to women, then women will most likely mutter: Is this person cheating?
More likely, she would think that the man must be something, hiding himself, not daring to say, and constantly trying.
So, this is very interesting, obviously men are expressions of love, but women think of it as superfluous, but it is not as good as before, normal contact, plain life.
Love is strong, sometimes between husband and wife, it is really not a sweet word, can represent, but occurs when two people encounter something.
For example, two people in a different place, a few days of small goodbye, will definitely miss each other, at night to a sentence "I miss you", will be very sweet.
But if a man has to say "I miss you" to a woman every day, the woman will definitely worry about whether the man is having a bad life over there, and will also worry about whether he will have an affair, so she is comforting herself.
In short, the woman's heart is really as deep as the sea, and there is nothing she can't imagine.
So, smart man, he will be as usual, how or how, occasionally add a little sweetness to two people, but also let women worry more about themselves.
Of course, if some men, in their daily lives, have a lot of love for you, but suddenly, indifferent to you, then you have to pay attention to whether there is something different in his heart.
You know, "I love you" is easy, but saying "I miss you", usually, is the most able to see a person's true heart, because "thinking" is the least likely to be adulterated.
Conclusion:
Love, really magical.
Because you don't know when, you will fall into it, and you don't know when, you will be abandoned by it.
Missed love is lost and desperate.
Therefore, if a person truly loves you, he will certainly do his best to take good care of this relationship, and he will use his "fear" to let you see that the original man will also have a "provocation".
Of course, this "encouragement" is because he is afraid of losing you, afraid that you will leave his life. A sentence of "I miss you" seems simple, but it can also be seen that a person's serious attitude towards you and the concern for the emotions between you.
When two people are together, the initial encounter will always be beautiful, however, the next time together, is the process of true love unfolding.
So, when a man rarely says "I miss you" to you, but doesn't see you, he panics, then he definitely has you in his heart.
The different stages of love, the thoughts of men and women, are different.
And, women look at a man unreliable, and it is never he who says "I miss you", how much he loves you, but in the subtleties of life, in every detail, you can feel his strong affection, he is deeply attached to you.
So, women, don't care about the phrase "I miss you."
When a man takes out his heart to "be afraid" of you, it is already better than ten thousand "I miss you", because he is exchanging his love for your lifelong love.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!