Everyone will grow up, and when they reach the age of talking about marriage, they naturally have to find a partner, and then get married and have children, upgrade to parents, and live a happy but full and hard life.
Talking about love can not be underestimated, marriage is a big thing! It is very important to be a doorman, but it is more necessary for women to have these three things, otherwise, no matter how beautiful you are, you are advised not to marry.
First, the correct concept of feelings
Not to mention how the three views are, let's say that when getting married, choosing a wife needs to see whether this woman has a correct view of feelings.
Quite simply, love is not a person to pay alone, it is necessary for two people to work together to complete, women have little strength, they can do some easy housework at home, men have great strength, and physical work is handled by men.
Women are at home with children to do housework, and men are out there struggling to earn money to support their families.
This is very good, it is an ideal marriage, but if a woman does not have a correct view of feelings, just thinks that she is dressed beautifully, and her body is fiery, she can not work?
In the face of men desperately running outside to make money, without even a word of relief, it will chill men's hearts.
Is this marrying an ancestor or a vase?
Such a marriage does not last long, and even if it is long, it will make men suffer from sin for a long time.
The really correct view of feelings should be evenly matched, that is, what you pay with your own ability, what I pay with my own ability, the two people work together to support each other, in order to create a good family.
Second, the sense of responsibility
A responsible person can do great things. In a family, both men and women need to be responsible. Women must not have such a thought: if they are beautiful, they can do nothing.
She is a woman, a wife, a mother, at least to bear this part of the corresponding responsibility. In the same way, men must also do their own things, which is the most basic point. When you finish your errands, you still have the strength to help men work together.
Only in this way will the feelings between husband and wife be better and better, and the family will be more harmonious and happy.
A woman without a sense of responsibility, even if she is beautiful, do not marry, that is a vase, marry home as an ancestor to provide? It will only hurt itself.
Third, pay attention to politeness and understand some human feelings
The mainland is originally a country of etiquette, not only treat the elders and leaders, treat colleagues and friends, and even treat the juniors, but also have their own etiquette, politeness, others will be comfortable to see, understand a little bit of human sophistication, others will praise you.
Not to mention that we need this praise, in fact, politeness in life, understanding people's feelings and sophistication, can better make others feel comfortable, because this is the fundamental of being a person!
I hope you can understand that respecting others will inevitably gain the respect of others, and if a woman fails to have these three things, then she is just missing the profession of "wife". If you insist on marrying her home, you are doomed to a bad life. Or, for the rest of your life, it will be very difficult for you to get along, after all, people are not machines, who can work 24 hours a day without rest? Who can give unconditionally and permanently?
People who are all in love have an IQ of 0. From the perspective of psychology, the hormones generated when we are in love will blind our minds, make you feel that the other party is good everywhere, she becomes cute, even if she is not polite, foul language, you even think that she has a personality!
Hormones cast a filter on our relationships, and really smart men are going to jump out and look at the problem correctly and objectively. In short, a woman who does not have these three things must not marry, otherwise, the consequences will be at her own risk. Hee-hee~