Nowadays, many men feel that women are emphasizing women's rights and equality between men and women, and they feel that they do not have to give a bride price, because in their view, girls want a bride price is an inequality, which is the oppression of their men. There are also many men who mention the AA system in marriage, feel that the pregnant wife is arrogant, and the full-time mother spends a lot of money, in fact, this is simply not to throw away the machismo in the bones, but also want to enjoy the benefits of modern concepts. For such men, once they recognize their true faces and understand that they are basically hooligans, the marriage will come to an end, let's take a look at Jin Yu's story today.
Jin Yu is an only child, the family is rich, from a young age do not worry about food and clothing, so she actually has no concept of money, coupled with her parents gave her superior educational conditions, after graduation the salary is not low, so she believes that money is earned. Comparatively speaking, Jin Yu's boyfriend Xie Mingyang in college does not think so, his family is ordinary, his mother can only be a full-time housewife because of physical reasons, plus Xie Mingyang has a younger brother, so the whole family is very frugal. After such two people fall in love, Xie Mingyang will complain that Jin Yu spent a lot of money, but at that time, the two people were just in love, and when dating, Jin Yu chose AA, or simply paid for it himself, so Xie Mingyang did not say much. Until after the two people got married, Xie Mingyang finally couldn't help but say these brains, Jin Yu's idea was very simple: "I like a lot of things, if you think I spend too much money, then our salaries should not be put together, so that if I buy something expensive, I will not move your money." At that time, Xie Mingyang reluctantly agreed.
However, not long after, Jin Yu bought several expensive clothes for his parents as a new year's gift, which made Xie Mingyang very unhappy. In his concept, what Jin Yu gave to both parents should be the same, but in his hand it was different from what he imagined, Xie Mingyang directly quarreled with Jin Yu, accusing her of favoring one over the other. Jin Yu was also very aggrieved: "I spend my own money to buy clothes for my parents and your parents, this is originally a heart, and your parents' is not so bad, if you are really not satisfied, you can buy it with your own money!" Jin Yu's mind is simple, the mother's parents only have their own daughter, of course, filial piety, eccentricity is normal, to really calculate, Xie Mingyang has not bought anything for her parents! But what Jin Yu did not expect was that Xie Mingyang was holding on to this matter, saying that she did not treat herself and her in-laws and parents as a family, and had to set an AA system with Jin Yu. Jin Yu was enraged by him, and agreed to it, but Xie Mingyang said unforgivingly: "That line, if you want to implement it, be thorough, each one is in charge of his mother, and all the expenses are shared equally." Jin Yu also did not eat this radical method, originally her salary was twice Xie Mingyang's, and this marriage room was still her dowry, she thought that she was filial enough to her in-laws, simply took this opportunity to let Xie Mingyang take a good look.
After the fight that night, Jin Yu no longer inquired about the doctor, nor did he pay any more money, but instead concentrated on preparing for his mother's birthday feast. Again, in order to punch Xie Mingyang's face, the Jin Yu family originally did not want to show off, but this time they were specially prepared to do a big event, and all of a sudden they paid a deposit of 100,000 yuan in the hotel. As for the content of the birthday banquet, it is even more impossible to be hasty, Jin Yu even took three days off to do the invitation and set the menu, in short, to face Xie Mingyang. So when the matter was settled, Xie Mingyang quarreled with Jin Yu again: "My mother is still lying in the hospital, the operation fees are not even, you are good, for your mother's birthday feast, you are also too selfish!" Jin Yu didn't even want to be angry, because she was already completely disappointed in Xie Mingyang: "It's not that I'm selfish, it's that you put yourself too much in the center, and I don't want to revolve around you, so you can stay wherever you are cool!" At this point, Xie Mingyang began to panic, and for the next few days he had been apologizing to Jin Yu, and he was soft and miserable, hoping that Jin Yu could help. In this regard, Jin Yu did not buy it, so Xie Mingyang changed his method, she and he, who had never prepared gifts for her in-laws, began to knock on the side of her mother-in-law's preferences, obviously wanting to be happy with her mother-in-law at the birthday banquet. Of course, Jin Yu did not buy it: "Don't, this AA system is the best, because my parents said, so that your family does not have to drag our family, right, this time my mother's birthday banquet is done, let's divorce it, save you the grievance!" After saying that, Jin Yu flew away.
Jin Yu has no feelings for Xie Mingyang, so she speaks very happily, and she has also learned this lesson, marriage must be equal, and you can't think about others with all your heart. As for Xie Mingyang, he also lifted a stone and smashed his own foot, seeing that he had become a joke pointed out by others, he still couldn't let go of that bit of self-esteem, and chose to agree to divorce.