Text/Dancing Fei Yang
In the original work of "Heart Residence", the emotional experience of each woman seems to be very tortuous.
The 3 unmarried and pregnant women specifically mentioned in it seem to get everything they want through calculation, they are of different classes, but if you think about it carefully, you will find that their fates are surprisingly similar.
why?
Just one sentence: Women are boneless, as low as mud!
Feng Xiaoqin
Feng Xiaoqin came to Shanghai when she was less than 20 years old, she did a lot of business, suffered a lot of hardships, this ambitious foreign sister has only one idea: to stay in Shanghai, to be a Shanghainese, to have a house of her own.
Later, through Zhan Xiang, I met Gu Lei, she was 7 or 8 years younger than Gu Lei, it was the same age as the flower, young and beautiful, Gu Lei liked her in his heart.
But Gu Lei, in the eyes of many Shanghainese, is not a good match: he has a pair of high and low feet, people have no ability, in addition to the Shanghai hukou, he has no other advantages.
But no one expected that Feng Xiaoqin was pregnant before marriage and rushed to marry him.
This is the case in Chinese society, and the treasures of their own families are all fragrant.
Gu Lei's gu family knew what kind of heart, what Feng Xiaoqin was plotting, they knew better in their hearts, but it was difficult to buy Gu Lei's likes, and even so, the Gu family also followed.
Entered the Gu family's door, but the Gu family did not necessarily recognize Feng Xiaoqin as a person.
Even if she has been serving the elderly and taking care of the small ones for more than ten years, the Gu family feels that it is taken for granted and should be done.
Feng Xiaoqin did not fall a little good.
Especially gu Lei's sister Gu Qingyu, she didn't even look down on Feng Xiaoqin.
Gu Qingyu is a living Miss Shanghai, looking delicate, but very scheming, Feng Xiaoqin's past, she touched it clearly:
Including when she had a child at 15, the child was called her sister.
Nowadays, Feng Xiaoqin has dragged Gu Lei by virtue of her unmarried pregnancy, and she has landed in Shanghai and become a Shanghainese.
But she still couldn't squeeze into the circle of the Gu family, her calculation seemed to succeed, but at the same time, it made Gu Qingyu look down on a lot.
In Gu Qingyu's eyes, a woman like Feng Xiaoqin, in order to achieve her goal, can do everything and be open-minded.
The "bane" was planted by Feng Xiaoqin herself, and she wanted to remove Gu Qingyu's view of her, and it was difficult to ascend to the heavens.
The only way to blame is to blame Feng Xiaoqin for acting too absurdly and without boundaries.
Whether it is the stupid thing that is done less than anything, or for gu lei, unmarried and pregnant, it is her own child who gave the "handle" to Gu Qingyu, no wonder people look down on her, it is she herself who is not angry!
Ge Yue
Ge Yue is a Shanghai girl, although she has a good family, but she does not have Gu Qingyu's good figure and beautiful face.
She finds a boyfriend, all relying on "spelling daddy", naturally, there are many people chasing her.
But she only looked at Gu Xin, Gu Xin's spirit and ability were good, but her family was generally well off.
Gu Xin wanted to marry a noble woman, and it was not so easy.
Ge Yue is actually a very inferior person, she knows that except for her father, she basically has no advantages.
Fortunately, she likes Gu Xin, Gu Xin also likes her, and people who are happy with each other can't help themselves, so the 2 people who have been in a relationship for a few months are in a hurry to do the wedding.
It was still a joke from aunt Gu Shilian at the dinner table, and everyone knew that Ge Yue was pregnant.
Gu Shilian poked Gu Shihong meaningfully: It is worthy of being a brother, and they all get on the bus first and then make up the ticket.
A joke, but the meaning behind it is obvious: Ge Yue is born tall, or is he still rushing to Gu Xin and making him a daughter-in-law?
Ge Yue became pregnant before marriage, which undoubtedly accelerated the marriage process between her and Gu Xin.
But this is exactly what Gu Xin meant. Frankly speaking, the reason why Gu Xin married her was for his own future, nothing to do with love, only desire.
Ge Yue seems to be married to the person he loves, but he doesn't know it, but he makes clothes for people.
Feng Xixi took advantage of Gu Xin's east wind to make the bank's business flourish, promote and raise salary to buy a house, and live a beautiful life.
However, Gu Xin, shortly after Ge Yue was pregnant with her second child, was affected by Feng Xixi and went in.
From the beginning to the end, in the marriage between Ge Yue and Gu Xin, ge Yue was maintained by one person, and her deep affection was finally let down by Gu Xin, and she did not get a trace of pity from Gu Xin.
Not only that, Ge Yue, who married into the Gu family, did not receive any favor from her in-laws because of her status as a noblewoman.
Su Wangdi has been looking at her unpleasantly:
When Ge Yue's father did not have an accident, Su Wangdi was proud that he could not do it, his son was too contentious, Ge Yue was noble, and he was not married upside down;
After Ge Yue's father had an accident, Su Wangdi was anxious to urge Gu Xin to get a divorce quickly! Don't get caught up.
From this point of view, in the Gu family, Ge Yue is dispensable and profitable, she is the icing on the cake, and when there is no profit, she is the burden of the Gu family.
She was pregnant before marriage and eager to marry Gu Xin's wife, which seemed ridiculous to the extreme.
At the beginning of the emotion, she put herself in a very low position, and her "kneeling licking" of Gu Xin did not exchange a trace of Gu Xin's love.
Gu Xin is thin, but Ge Yue is not innocent.
Everyone's path is their own way, and Ge Yue's fall into such an ending is her own fault and does not deserve sympathy.
Lily
In the original "Heart Dwelling", Lily is the least existential woman, but the most ironic existence.
She is Shi Yuan's neighbor and sells seafood.
She likes Shi Yuan and has maintained an ambiguous relationship with Shi Yuan for many years.
Before Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu reunited, she proposed that the two of them live together, but Shi Yuan did not respond.
She once jokingly told Shi Yuan: She was pregnant, Shi Yuan did not respond for half a day, she originally wanted to ask him for 100,000 yuan, but she still laughed and quipped: joking.
Lily was very unwilling and depressed, but she was used to following Shi Yuan and relying on Shi Yuan.
Her love, very humble.
It wasn't until Shi Yuan wanted to marry Gu Qingyu that Li Li went to find Gu Qingyu, and she burst into tears: she said that she loved Shi Yuan very much and was pregnant with Shi Yuan's child.
Gu Qingyu was very resentful of this, but still looked at Lily mockingly and asked her: What do you want?
Lily directly made it difficult: the child in the belly wants to have a Shanghai hukou.
Gu Qingyu introduced her to a widower:
In his fifties, childless and childless, there are two sets of houses, one set of Hongkou and one set of Pudong. Bi Shiyuan is rich, does not look old, squints his eyes, and speaks with a big tongue.
Gu Qingyu originally had the intention of taunting Lily, but he didn't expect Lily to actually leave.
Is she really in love with Shi Yuan's people? Or Shi Yuan's Shanghai hukou?
The answer is obvious.
After thinking about it, it is extremely sad.
Most women have sex with love, and she and Shi Yuan have been ambiguous for so many years, but they still haven't got a name.
In the end, she was pregnant with Shi Yuan's child and married a widower with 2 suites in Shanghai, which can also be regarded as taking what they need and getting what they want.
Like Feng Xiaoqin, she hopes that her child is a Shanghainese, and she does not hesitate to take her own "innocence", calculate marriage, and calculate men.
They get what they want, but in exchange for the contempt that others have for them to be low to the dust.
He who despises himself will be humiliated by others.
If a person does not even respect himself and does not love himself, how can others respect you and cherish you!
Write at the end
In the original work of "Heart Residence", these 3 unmarried and pregnant women have different origins, but their fates are strikingly similar.
They used their "innocence" to calculate what they wanted, but in retrospect, they lost more.
In today's society, although it is already very enlightened, women who are unmarried and pregnant before marriage will still be looked down upon by most secular people.
The person who truly loves you will never let you get pregnant before marriage; the person who truly loves himself will never let himself get pregnant before marriage.
As Yang Xiwen said:
Treat yourself as a work of art, polish it well, and love it with your heart. You look good, the world looks good.
Man, always take yourself seriously.
Especially when others don't take you seriously, know that if the flowers bloom, the butterflies come!