There is a saying that women are like water, not only soft on the outside, but also a paper tiger in front of the beloved man, women actually have some times in their hearts, or long to find a man who understands himself and is considerate of himself.
Therefore, many men in life are eager to know when women generally "want to find men"? So when exactly do women "want to find a man"?
Today I interviewed 2 women, let's listen to what they have to say.
01, Ms. Deng, 35 years old
I am 35 years old, married, my husband and I have been married for 8 years, we have 2 children, we were married in free love, because we had a lame leg since childhood.
So when I got to the age of marriage, all the men my family introduced me to were men in their forties and fifties, and I felt that was humiliating to me.
So I was not willing to accept the fate, and finally went out to work, and later when I was working, I met my husband, who had bad family conditions, but he took good care of me and was kind in his heart.
Later, after we got married, although life was not rich, but the family was very happy, but with the birth of my second child, there were more and more places to spend money.
If you ask me, when do women generally "want to find men"?
For me, I think that when my daughter had a fever and a cold in the middle of the night, and there was no one around to help me, I wanted my husband to be by my side the most.
Because then I wouldn't have to be a father and a wife again.
02. Ms. Hu, 30 years old
I'm 30 years old, unmarried, and the reason I haven't gotten married so far is not because I have a flawed personality and don't like men, nor because I think it's ugly, no man likes me.
It was because I was pregnant unmarried with my ex-boyfriend, and at that time I really rejected a lot of men who pursued me in order to love him, but when I became pregnant before marriage, I found out that he had said that he loved me, all of which were false.
Because he just wanted me to have a baby for him, because his wife couldn't have children, this relationship hurt me so much, and since then, I can't believe men.
If you were to ask me, when do women generally "want to find men"? To tell the truth, every time I go home for the New Year, I am complained about by my parents about divorce, and when my neighbors talk about it.
I was still special at that moment, "wanting men"? Marry yourself off.
Because no matter how strong a woman is on the surface, she is always fragile inside, even if she looks strong, in the face of other people's discussion, she is eager to find a man to rely on.
Conclusion: It seems that for the question of when women generally want to find men? Through the words of these 2 women's hearts, we can know.
Whether it is a woman who looks gentle on the outside, or a woman who looks strong on the outside, she is looking for a man who can rely on herself when she is in a fragile mood.