Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Marriage is a big thing in life, everything can be sloppy, but marriage must not be sloppy. What is the purpose of talking about a long relationship is to determine whether two people are suitable for developing into a marriage relationship, living together, and in the process of getting along, there will be many obstacles, whether they can face the wind and rain together and enter the palace of marriage, which is a test for two people. Two people who are planning to get married should think about these problems in advance, and don't go to the last level and part ways because of an unhandled problem.
bride price
When two people are in love, they will feel that feelings are the most important, and it is really too vulgar to mention money, but only later did they find out that it is very vulgar money that can make you really see a person.
Lin Yan and Yang Yi have been together for many years, ready to meet their parents and get married. Lin Yan's mother said to Yang Yi: "The bride price of 200,000 yuan cannot be less, I will not ask for your money, and the dowry will be returned to you in the future, the most important thing is to see the sincerity of your family." ”
Yang Yi's mother was frightened when she heard 200,000 yuan, and actually gave her son an idea: "You let her get pregnant first, so that their family must be anxious to let you get married, and there is no bride price!" Yang Yi actually listened to his mother's words and said to Lin Yan: "If you want to marry me, you must have a child and get a license to marry!" "Then I won't marry!" Lin Yan did not show weakness at all, and now she understood that the man she had loved for so many years was a mother treasure man, and she did not respect her girlfriend at all.
Whether or not to live with parents
There are many differences between young people and parents' living habits, eating habits, etc. When talking about love, it is necessary to determine whether two people want to live with each other's parents after marriage, if there is a disagreement, communicate well, if one party has to live with his parents anyway, the other party has to live with two people no matter what, then separate as soon as possible, do not waste the time and feelings of two people.
Do you want to have children later?
Having children is not a matter of one person, nor can it be decided by one person, people who like children, dream of having a child of their own, and imagine the joy of a family of three or four. And people who don't want children, seeing children are upset, and they would rather die alone in the future, but also want Dink.
This is actually a big disagreement, when you are in love, you and I, as long as you are happy, you can do anything, Dink will Dink, save the money two people to travel around the world. The idea is very beautiful, but once married, both parties calm down, one party suddenly regrets, wants to have children, and Dink is often a matter of principle, it is difficult to change, this time is divorce or swallow to live a life? On some major issues, do not be afraid of embarrassment, it is important to communicate in advance, which is also a manifestation of responsibility for both sides.
Uncle Epilogue:
It is said that marriage is the graveyard of love, but in fact, it is not, marrying the right person, then marriage is double happiness. When you are in love, all the men who listen to you do not necessarily love you, and those who still regard you as a treasure after marriage really love you. Good communication before marriage can save a lot of unnecessary trouble after marriage, and can also make two people live more at ease.