Talking about her vision of her future life, Wu Na sighed deeply.
Wu Na talked about a boyfriend in college, the feelings between the two of them you and me, envy and spoil the people around them, as the feelings heat up, Wu Na made a vision of the future life of the two, she plans to stay in the big city after graduation and her boyfriend to develop, through the efforts of the two, there is no problem in taking root in this city.
In a flash of two or three years, Wu Na was ready to marry her boyfriend, who knew that at this time something happened that was difficult for her to accept, she accidentally found that her boyfriend was cheating, and the other party who cheated was the person she knew best.
For a moment, Wu Na felt that the whole sky had collapsed, and Wu Na, who was devastated, finally chose to leave this sad city and return to her hometown in her own small town.
Wu Na's hometown is located in a small county, the economy is not developed, the local business can be counted on one hand, Wu Na found a job, although the salary is very low, but enough for her to live, and even have a part of the monthly savings.
Wu Na said that she is an only child, the family conditions are not bad, her parents have a pension after retirement, do not have to worry too much about themselves, the body is also very tough, in addition to her parents' house, there is a house at home, her parents live in a set of my set, compared with peers, she does not have to worry about the house.
However, after experiencing a feeling of ruining the three views, Wu Na began to have no expectations for love and marriage, and even contradicted marriage in her heart.
Her parents were very worried about their life's events, and introduced themselves to some peers of the right age, but after several meetings, Wu Na completely cut off the idea of marriage, and she began to persuade her parents to live alone.
Wu Na said that she herself felt fine, but the people around her did not think so, and a colleague in the office who was over fifty years old learned that she was not married at the age of 30 and began to persuade her to find a partner quickly.
Wu Na is mentally prepared to be single for a lifetime, but colleagues say how can women not find a partner, there are no children without marriage, what to do when they are old?
The persuasion of her colleagues made Wu Na fall into meditation, was her idea right?
Wu Na said that she began to save money from now on, and when she was old, she had a house and a deposit and a pension, and she could live alone when she could not take care of herself, and she could also go to a nursing home or hire a nurse, and how to plan was feasible.
Wu Na told her colleagues what she thought in her heart, colleagues told her about some of the things she had experienced, said about the various drawbacks of the nursing home, in short, it was to get married, form a small family that she remembered, take good care of the outside, no biological children served well, in addition to these factors, if you do not get married, there is no wife's care and companionship, the old age will be very lonely, it is difficult for a person to fight against this loneliness.
These witches are not unthinkable, but as an only child, in case she encounters a suitable object, the man is also an only child, just supporting four old people is enough to be tired, even if there is energy to have children again.
In Wu Na's mind, having a child is because she likes children, watching the birth and growth of a life, she can enjoy this joy, and having a child is not for him to retire for me.
After a heartfelt exchange between Wu Na and her colleagues, she learned that her colleagues had divorced early, and that they were currently alone, and the children were out of town, and Wu Na also understood that colleagues often did not go home after work.
Wu Na thought in her heart, even if she is married, what can she do, no one can guarantee that she will grow old with a white head, even if she can accompany her to old age, who can guarantee that she will not be abandoned when she is sick. Instead of leaving halfway after marriage, the money is gone, and the people are gone, it is better to enjoy life at the best time, and let's talk about things later.
According to the latest statistics released by the civil affairs department, the number of marriages of the 90 to 00 generation is about 250 million, but only 17 million pairs are married.
It can be seen from the data that more and more young people of the same age as Wu Na are married, and they have a variety of factors in marriage, and marriage is not the only choice.
Celibacy may not allow them to enjoy the happiness brought by family affection, but at least they do not have to give everything for her children to be wronged in their married life, Wu Na is not confident that she can work the road of marriage to have a happy ending, but she has enough confidence in being alone.