Reporter | Jiang Jingling
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On March 8, Women's Day, the social company Tantan released a report on the "New Women's Mate Selection Standards". The report conducted questionnaire surveys and interviews with more than 3,000 female users of the exploration platform, and more than half of the respondents were post-00s.
The conclusion of the report shows that the traditional mainstream expectations such as "male talent and female appearance" and "male outside, female inside" are gradually changing. Nowadays, women are also paying more and more attention to men's appearance management when looking for partners, and body shape is symmetrical has become the most common body expectation for women for their partners. Compared with before, let women pay more attention to men's income when choosing partners, and judge them by taking their place as the economic pillar of the family. Today's women, the need for survival resources through marriage has been greatly reduced, and the need for love is becoming more and more pure. When it comes to falling in love, there is a decline in attention to the financial aspects of the partner.
According to the "Report" data, 74.8% of female respondents prefer men with well-proportioned body shape, and when asked "what you can't accept about men's appearance", the shouting options are "the facial features do not meet my aesthetics" accounted for 33.9%, "poor clothing" accounted for 22.8%, and "hairline emergency" accounted for 15.9%.
In the survey, 12.9% of female respondents said that they "can accept that their partner's income is lower than their own"; 39.6% said they "depend on the situation"; 47.6% said they "cannot accept that their partner's income is lower than their own". There are slight differences between different age groups, and the younger the woman, the higher the proportion of women who can accept that their partner's income is lower than their own. The most common expectation of women for their partner's monthly income is 5,000-10,000 yuan per month. Entrepreneurs, civil servants/institutions are the most preferred male occupations for women.
In addition, the "report" mentioned that with the further independence of contemporary women's spiritual thoughts, "sense of responsibility, respect for women, self-motivation", has become the most likely male character for women to have a good feeling, in the voting on men's daily charm, understand me, have an account of everything, can cook has become the most plus of male traits TOP3, love neatness and humor followed. The most resentful masculine traits of women are lying, spending hearts, and bragging.
Source: Tantan
In addition, according to the results of the report, for the love motivation of contemporary new women, 62.9% of women chose to "experience love", 52.1% chose to live mutually, and 42.7% chose to alleviate loneliness. Meeting emotional needs is the most important love motivation for women.
Sun Ping, deputy director of the Institute of Journalism and Communication of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences and the World Media Research Center, said, "The so-called mate selection criteria are actually behind the understanding and expectation of love, marriage and self. Today, both women's mate selection criteria and the way men view women are changing. Women are adjusting their expectations, and men are constantly updating their understanding of women. I believe that with the development of society, there will be more and more "new men" who can see the value of women, and love will become purer, simpler, and closer to the ideals of men and women. ”