Families with sons all want to raise their sons strong, brave and responsible.
There are boys in the family, so pay special attention to the parenting methods of boys, and now combined with personal experience and parenting knowledge learned, the following 3 age groups for raising boys well, as well as the focus of parenting at different ages.
Even if you do one of them right, your child has a good chance of becoming a good man in the future.
Preschool from 0 to 6 years old
Whether it is a boy or a girl, the sense of security established before the age of 6 is very important, and the sense of security is insufficient, and the child will be timid and sensitive. Especially for children before the age of 3, it is best to grow up with their parents.
Boys at this stage are very dependent on their mothers, in fact, because the children need to feel safe, so the mother accompanies the child as much as possible and gives the child a sense of security.
If you can't get a sense of security from your mother, then your child will feel more insecure, inferior and timid, and lack of confidence in other places.
What the mother has to do is to accompany the child as much as possible, accept the child's emotions, avoid using yelling to educate the child, and do not often scare the child.
For example, if the child's desires cannot be satisfied, crying and making a big fuss, parents should not directly say to the child, do not cry, cry and shut you out of the door to reflect on things like that, and do not say without moving, do not want you, and so on.
Because such words will destroy the child's sense of security and affect the development of the brain. Boys tend to grow up to be sensitive, indifferent, vulnerable, withdrawn from things, and insecure men.
6-12 years of school age
Boys after the age of 6 have a strong desire to explore, and the role of dad at this stage is crucial.
A large number of facts have proved that if the father participates less in the child's growth process at this stage, not only is the father-son relationship not good, but more importantly, it will affect the boy's personality, and the manhood of the boy is mainly imitated by the father.
Therefore, even if the father is busy at work, the child's growth should not be missed. Fathers should participate in the growth of their children, and can accompany their children to do some adventurous things, such as climbing, long jumping, climbing, etc. to meet the child's desire for exploration and curiosity, and cultivate the boy's perseverance, decisiveness, courage to challenge and other characters.
Moreover, taking more boys to exercise can also improve the physical fitness of children, making him stronger, braver and more responsible.
Puberty from 12 to 18 years
Adolescent boys face physical changes, academic pressure, and friends and other aspects of confusion, this period of boys are often full of contradictions, his heart is actually urgently need a guide, that is, boys have to worship idols in their hearts, therefore, adolescent children chase stars is also understandable.
But if there is no positive guidance, children are easy to go astray, so the key parents should have the right guidance for their children, let them read celebrity biographies, discuss their dreams with their children, pursue, and help their children establish the correct three views.
If children in this period have dreams and pursuits in their hearts, they will study hard for the sake of their dreams, which is also the reason why some boys "open up" in high school and their grades suddenly get better.
Therefore, parents must communicate more with their children, children will be less anxious, less rebellious, children have goals in their hearts, have ideals, will work hard to achieve goals and ideals, and become a man with ideals and goals and a sense of responsibility.
epilogue
There is no way back for the growth of children, in order to raise children well, in order not to regret in the future, we can not give the child to the teacher, we also need to learn family education, because some education teachers can not give children, only parents give.
If there are boys in the family, you can refer to it.
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