We all know that "companionship" is the best gift for children, and for children who are still growing and developing, high-quality companionship of parents is very important.
Often encounter many parents complaining that they obviously spend a lot of time with their children, but they always feel that their children are not very happy, why is this?
What you think of as companionship is actually just companionship
When parents are with their children, half of them choose to do housework, 40% of them are playing with mobile phones, and 30% of them are working while accompanying their babies. What you think of as companionship is actually just companionship. In fact, this kind of low-quality companionship is not what the child really wants, and it is not good for the child's growth.
It doesn't matter how long or long you spend with your child,
The important thing is to do it
Better for high-quality companionship
In fact, the best way to accompany your child with high quality is to take a certain amount of time every day to accompany your child, and in this time, you are completely part of your child! Can't sweep the floor, can't make a phone call, and can't brush the circle of friends, so what should be done?
No.1
Put down your phone,
Have no distractions and adjust your mindset
Many parents find high-quality companionship difficult, but it's actually very simple. When we accompany our children, we must remember to put down the mobile phone, give the child a warm gaze, adjust their mentality, do not "infect" their bad emotions to the child, and let themselves and the child be in a safe and comfortable state.
No.2
Listen attentively and respond in a timely manner
When accompanying their children, parents should have full interaction with their children and listen to the true thoughts of their children with their hearts. Do not interrupt when the child expresses his own ideas, listen carefully to the child's speech, and appropriately repeat it, so that the child feels that his parents are listening carefully to what he is saying, so that the child feels the respect from the parents.
No.3
Like a child,
Play with your kids
American psychologist Lawrence Cohen pointed out in the book "The Power of Play": "Playing with children is the best way to build intimate relationships." "Parents only need to take half an hour or an hour to play games with their children every day, understand their children's feelings through games, and enter the children's hearts, so as to win their children's trust." In the process of playing games with their parents, children can also learn how to get along with others by observing and imitating their parents' actions.
In addition, for young children aged 0-2 years,
What parents need to do is give it to their children
Plenty of daily companionship and interaction
For example, talk and sing with your child as much as possible, and the parent can explain more about what he sees in front of his eyes, so that the child will receive more information. In addition, play with children more, play with children, play with toys and make games with children. In play, children can cultivate and develop self-awareness, observation, creativity, social skills and other skills. As long as the child is given enough high-quality companionship, the child's self-confidence and sense of security will be steadily established.
No matter how busy life is, remember to give your baby a little more high-quality fresh companionship. Because it has long been infiltrated into all aspects of life, affecting our parent-child quality and family relationships.
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Hope to be lively and cheerful, enthusiastic
Positive, strong and optimistic
A small cute four-eared monkey full of positive energy
Can accompany children to grow up together
Bring more surprises and joy to the family.
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