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As parents, we naturally want to help our children, especially when faced with many life choices. Do we believe that our children actually have their own original motivation? Can we think from this perspective and see the original motivation that every child has?
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Parents believe in their children, which is the real help for their children's growth. When the child encounters something, if he does not ask for the help of his parents, the parents need to retreat to the side, do not rush to help the child, and let the child face it at his own pace first. Perhaps after a while, he solved it on his own, and this solution was handled by his own ability. It is a hundred times better than the parents helping him to complete it, because this is his self-driving force at work, which will increase the child's self-confidence several times.
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Parents should not impose anxiety on their children because they are worried. When faced with some things, parents should not be anxious, but should first stabilize their own state. Anxiety is not one of us, anxiety is something that each of us will have, and it's not a problem. When we can see this, we can slowly relax ourselves, slow down, and put more of our attention back on ourselves.
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Parents focus on themselves, and it's important to grow yourself. It is important to take the focus back from the child, put it on yourself, and grow yourself. We think that parents should always pay attention to their children and focus their energy on their children, but the truth is that parents need to take the eyes of their children to themselves. It takes a judgment ability to really grow yourself and accompany your children steadily.
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Learn to appreciate your own children. As parents, how can we appreciate our children? First of all, we start by appreciating ourselves, doing one thing every day, we can give ourselves a compliment, or give ourselves a hug within ourselves. Even an affirmative word or a warm smile is fine. Then when you are able to appreciate yourself in this way every day, you also learn to appreciate your children and family.
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Everyone has resources, you have them, and so do your children. What parents can do is to maintain more patience with themselves and their children, constantly discover their own resources, and then use them in their lives. When we are able to use our resources in our lives, our children will be able to discover their resources in himself and use them as well.
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