Fathers are an indispensable role in the normal growth process of children and in the process of children's education, but in reality, this lack has become a social problem and a real problem that has attracted attention. Many fathers prevaricate on the grounds that they are too busy at work, so they do not have free time to spend with and educate their children.
1, be a 60 point father, set aside 40 points for the child. Leave room for your child to be himself and reach his potential; give yourself time to continue to grow and learn, and adjust his state at any time.
2, if you think of the family as shooting a long TV series, the protagonist is the child, the director is the mother, and the producer is the father. After studying, dad will add another role and become a "co-director" with mom, cooperating with each other and complementing each other.
3, if the child lacks the company of the father, he will lack a sense of purpose, and will use games to fill his gaps. Children need role models, need to see, need to imitate, this person has no one else, that is, parents, especially fathers.
4, the father never "mentions" the grade with the son. Even if the son's exam is "screwed", the child is not afraid of difficulties, not afraid of the ability to have problems, so that the child has a good state to solve the problem, firmly believe that the child's next time must be better than this time.
5, [the way the father keeps the child's "heart"] Use the identity of the father to share a little more for the mother, let the mother do what she likes, reduce the anxiety of the mother, and the father will free up time to create a "golden time" with the child. If you didn't save in your child's emotional account as a child, but took the "results" you created, it is difficult for your child to accept you. Children are based on feelings, and they must leave the best memories for children.
6, busy dad can still be a "good dad", we just need to sit in the co-pilot, follow the child to play. The cause of accompanying children is a cause that makes the family more prosperous, more weighty and more valuable.