Nowadays, many young people do not want to get married, in addition to the fear and distrust of feelings, money is a very important reason.
Now the cost of marriage is too high, many people ask to buy a house, buy a car, there is no house and car, others will not talk to you about marriage at all.
Even if you buy a house and a car, many people will fiercely ask for a dowry before marriage, although high dowry is not advocated now, but there are still many people who want high dowry.
After all, now there are more men and fewer women, even if girls are divorced with a child, there are still many men rushing to get it, and you refuse to give the bride price for some reasons.
It is said that Jiangxi's bride price is high, and many people did not believe it before, but as more and more netizens complain about Jiangxi's bride price on the Internet, this seems to have become the consensus of everyone.
Not long ago, some netizens complained on the Internet that they gave hundreds of thousands of bride price, and as a result, the woman's family returned two suitcases, as well as a little thing, it is estimated that it is two or three thousand pieces, really too little.
On the afternoon of February 11, another netizen in Jiangxi posted a video, but he was not complaining about the bride price, but asking netizens for help.
Now that it is already a new society, this netizen did not expect that such a thing would happen to him, which was very unbelievable.
The woman's parents' approach is really very difficult to accept, netizens sent out the picture of the monitoring record at home, hoping that everyone will give comments.
The man said that he had been in love with his girlfriend for more than 6 years, and his love had run for so many years, and finally he had the right results, and the two were ready to get married, but suddenly jumped out of a roadblock.
Originally, the two families discussed marriage, but the girlfriend's parents had to ask for 500,000 yuan, which was completely impractical in the eyes of the man, and he could not afford to give so many bride price.
Now how many families can casually take out 500,000 cash, not to mention a young man who has not yet started a family, how much savings he can have, the woman's requirements are really very excessive.
And the boys are still very good, through their own hard work, have bought a car and a house, much better than their peers.
The man wanted to talk to the woman's parents about this, after marriage, the house will be registered in the name of his girlfriend, can you lower the bride price, everyone takes a step back to do this marriage.
In fact, the man is already very sincere, but the woman's parents are still unmoved, in short, it is a word, without this 500,000 dowry you don't want to get married.
When encountering such a woman's parents, the man also feels very helpless, quite a powerful feeling of nowhere to go, after all, the initiative is in the other party.
The girlfriend did not dare to disobey her parents too much, and could only argue quietly with her parents, and as a result, she made a fuss as she spoke, and the two sides began to fall into each other's pull.
Although the man feels that the 500,000 dowry is too much, but the woman's parents feel that it is very reasonable, it is not easy to provide for the daughter, and now the daughter has grown up and has a job, and as a result, she will get married before she earns any money.
There is also a younger brother in the family who is in school, and when the time comes, there are more places to spend money, and the daughter will marry into someone else's family without contributing anything to the family, and it is not too much to ask for 500,000.
And in the eyes of the woman's parents, if the two are really married, the man is his son's brother-in-law, and the brother-in-law should not help his brother?
For this dowry, the two sides quarreled for nearly half an hour, seeing that the man refused to take the bride price, the daughter also vigorously defended the man, and the woman's parents were angry.
In the end, the woman's parents forcibly dragged their daughter out of the house, and also beat the daughter who refused to leave with a branch, forcibly taking the daughter away.
The man finally chose to call the police, according to the dynamics released by the man, he has contacted his girlfriend, and everything is very good.
The girlfriend hopes that her boyfriend will take the police to take her away, and then the two leave by train, and does not want to hold her parents accountable.
Obviously, the two parties in the 6-year love long-distance run have known each other well enough, and the decision to get married is also deliberate, and I believe that the two can be very happy after marriage.
The man bought a house and a car through his own efforts, and promised to write the name of his girlfriend after marriage, it is obvious that this man is a very good man.
Who knows that the woman's parents have to 500,000, feel that they have raised their daughters, and the daughter has not done anything for the family to marry, and she is very much at a loss.
This is actually a very selfish approach, the child is not a vassal of the parents, nor is it an extension of the parents' life, the child is also an independent person.
If the woman's parents are a little smarter and now take the initiative to lower the bride price a little, will the son have difficulties in the future, can the sister and brother-in-law stand by and watch?
Now to 500,000 but cut off the love of both sides, really very unworthy, parents are completely for the benefit, regardless of the happiness of their daughters, it is really very sad to meet such a family.