The eldest sister was 49 years old and had not yet married, and her parents introduced her to a man who was unmarried and had no children, younger than her age. The man was not generous and could quickly come up with 100009 dowry, which he had borrowed from the Internet. The eldest sister's family is facing demolition, and he can get a license, you can share more money.
Ms. Chen runs a beauty salon, and although she is 49 years old, her looks and temperament are good, and she has no marriage experience.
Mr. Chu, 45, has been working outside the home and has never been in love or married. His family conditions are not very good, and in the process of getting along with Ms. Chen, he always feels that he is climbing high. For him, it is a great fortune to be able to marry Ms. Chen.
Because of the pressure of her parents to marry, Ms. Chen hastily agreed to marry Mr. Chu, but always believed that Mr. Chu was not her ideal husband.
In order to show his sincerity, Mr. Chu quickly took out a dowry of 100009 yuan. And this large amount of money was borrowed by Mr. Chu online.
After the two were married, Mr. Chu asked his wife to come to Guangzhou to reunite with him.
On that day, Ms. Chen got off at the train station. Mr. Chu arrived at the point in advance to pick up Ms. Chen and sent her various guidance messages for the line. And Ms. Chen, because she was not familiar with the place of life, she went with the flow and did not meet Mr. Chu.
Although Mr. Chu called many times to send messages to contact, Ms. Chen ignored it, because she felt that Mr. Chu was too intrusive and could not touch the road like a headless fly.
When we arrived at the residence, Mr. Chu said to Ms. Chen: Let's order a bowl of noodles, or will we eat outside?
Ms. Chen was very dissatisfied after hearing this, as a newlywed wife, how should she have a candlelit dinner, or her favorite dish. It's so unusual for newlyweds to eat only noodles.
Ms. Chen thought that Mr. Chu was already in his 40s and did not need to be taught by others, but she did not expect that he did not understand this bit of romance.
Later, the two went out to have a meal and ordered a sauerkraut fish, but Ms. Chen's unpleasant feelings still did not disappear.
In Mr. Chu's eyes, it seems that Ms. Chen's standards are too high, and what she buys does not seem to meet her intentions. Mr. Chu would be very nervous with her, like serving the queen.
In order to teach her husband to learn romance, Ms. Chen communicated with him directly. Mr. Chu understood that what his wife needed was love and warmth. Since then, I have decided to study well in the course of feelings.
But within two days, he directly ran away from his wife.
In the evening, Ms. Chen and Mr. Chu went out together, Ms. Chen wore a thin skirt and walked outside with the neighbor's aunt, and Mr. Chu sent his colleagues to the high-speed rail station.
Ms. Chen deliberately did not bring the key, and Mr. Chu did not ask much.
Not long after, Ms. Chen went home, but the door of the house was not opened, Mr. Chen Chu did not return, and Ms. Chen went to the neighbor's house to sit for a while.
At 9 o'clock in the evening, Ms. Chen came out and sat down by the door, and Mr. Chu returned, but did not say half a word, and directly opened the door.
Mr. Chu knows that Ms. Chen loves to eat fruit when she does not eat at night, so after sending her colleagues to the high-speed rail station, she transferred to the subway to buy fruit for Ms. Chen.
When he went home with fruit that night, he saw that the door was still locked and went in to put the fruit, and saw Ms. Chen sitting outside the door, thinking that it was her usual habit and did not think much about it.
Before Mr. Chu's kindness in buying fruit was shown, Ms. Chen became angry and clamored to go home tomorrow. Mr. Chu deliberately angered her and said: You are not allowed to go back.
At that time, Mr. Chu wanted to destroy his wife's prestige and did not want to get used to it, but he clearly realized in his heart that his wife was the queen, and he just said it lightly.
Ms. Chen didn't really want to leave, but Mr. Chu had no intention of staying.
Mr. Chu, who is over 40 years old but has no experience in love, can't guess his wife's thoughts, and the honeymoon only lasted for 3 days, and the two did not disperse happily.
Before Ms. Chen returned to her hometown in Hunan, Mr. Chu sent a breakup text message, which made Ms. Chen confused.
Mr. Chu's original intention was not to separate the two, but he felt that things were big, and he did not dare to solve the problem, and then he used Ms. Chen's hour eight characters on the Internet to check her personality and temper to see how things were solved. Mr. Chu thought about waiting for his wife to calm down and then communicate slowly.
1 A wife does not choose her husband because of love
Because of her parents' urging to marry, facing the reality of age and living conditions, Ms. Chen has stress and uneasiness, which affects the judgment and choice of marriage, and hastily chooses to obtain a certificate in a person who is not ideal in her eyes, resulting in dissatisfaction after marriage.
A person who does not have independent judgment and is not ready can enter marriage quickly, let alone maintain a good marital relationship.
2 After marriage, couples have different identity positioning, and their hearts are not satisfied
Mr. Chu cares too much about Ms. Chen, treats his wife as a queen, and is like a follower, always following his wife, taking all her orders and demands as his own, so that he loses himself.
Ms. Chen subconsciously also believes that her husband is a servant, but in fact the two are not the relationship between the queen and the servant. Ms. Chen always feels that she is just an ordinary woman, and has a girlish heart, and wants her husband to be romantic and intimate like a lover in love.
Because the identity of the two people after marriage is different, the inner needs are not met accordingly, and the contradictions will accumulate more and more.
3 If the wife insists on divorce, the husband has the right to recover the dowry and share of the demolition
Mainland justice clearly stipulates that if one of the following three circumstances is met, the court will support the requirement of returning the gift.
Type 1: The parties have not registered the marriage. Type 2: The parties have gone through the marriage registration procedures, but they have not lived together
live. Type 3: Premarital payment and causing difficulties in the life of the payer.
Ms. Chen and Mr. Chu spent a short time together, a total of three days, and there was no substantial common living situation, which was in line with the provisions of Article 2.
Mr. Chu's bride price was received through a loan, and he is now in a state of debt, which is in line with the third scenario.
If Ms. Chen insists on divorce, Mr. Chu has the right to recover the bride price.
Ms. Chen personally faces the expropriation of the house, and if the demolition payment is allocated according to the head, Mr. Chu has the right to return the demolition money allocated to his account after divorce.
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