Three years ago, my ex-husband gambled and lost 500,000 yuan, so angry that I really couldn't stand it, chose to divorce him, the other day I went to the market to buy vegetables, occasionally met my ex-mother-in-law, she told me a secret,

Three years ago, my ex-husband gambled money to lose 500,000, angry that I really can't stand it, chose to divorce him, a few days ago I went to the market to buy vegetables, occasionally met my ex-mother-in-law, she told me a secret, after listening to it I was unbelievable, shouldn't I get a divorce?

My name is Mei Mei, 36 years old, is a Zhenjiang person, working in a foreign company, the monthly salary is 8,000 yuan, my husband is one year older than me, accountant, a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan, not much earned but need to work overtime.

My husband and I met at a volunteer event in the second semester of my sophomore year, and although he looked cute, he was quite able to bear hardships, and the heavy things were always the first to rush up, which made me particularly impressed with him. Later, coincidentally, we were assigned to a group for the activity, and he also took good care of me, so the two of us left contact information.

Later, after he went back, he took the initiative to chat with me, and slowly the two of us got closer and closer, chased me for almost half a year, and I was with him. Although he is not as romantic as someone else's boyfriend, he is really nice to me and always tolerates me.

So we successfully passed the university, after graduating from college, neither of us continued to study, and chose to work, now think about that period of time to find a job is really very difficult, without the help of parents, all on their own, two people rented a house of less than 30 square meters.

Later, slowly we had savings in our hands to pay a down payment, although life was hard, but at least love each other, warm and tolerant of each other, after the third year of work, the two of us got married, the in-laws gave a dowry of 80,000 yuan.

After getting married, there seems to be no change in life and feelings, but more and more happy.

In the second year after marriage, I became pregnant and gave birth to a son, the long tiger head is particularly cute, the mother-in-law likes it, so I give us two 1,000 yuan a month, hoping to reduce the burden for us a little.

Watching the children grow up day by day, I thought that our family of three would be happy and happy all the time, but I didn't expect something to happen.

I don't know why my husband suddenly seemed to have changed into a person, during that time he liked to gamble, and even lost money and came back to me to lose his temper, drunk every day, I asked him why, but he never spoke.

From the time he liked gambling to the time the creditor came to ask for a debt, it took less than half a month. I thought he was just killing his time after work. But what I didn't expect was that he actually quit his job in order to gamble money and lost 500,000 yuan.

500,000 must be saved how much is enough! His monthly salary is only how much, not to mention that she has already left her job, and the two of us are not rich in the hands of the two of us, it is already difficult enough, it is undoubtedly worse.

And at that time the two of us quarreled every day, and the child cried when he saw him, and I didn't want my child to be told that there was a gambler's father.

So I thought he proposed a divorce, and when I proposed divorce, he didn't think about it, didn't say a word, didn't even keep it, and directly agreed.

At that time, my heart was broken, the two of us had been together for so many years, I didn't expect him to be such a person, the more I thought about it, the more angry he became, I asked him to get out of the house.

But he said that he did not allow anything, and without my knowledge, he directly sold the house we lived in and took it to pay off the debt.

After hearing all this, I was particularly angry, but there was nothing I could do, and I knew that if I didn't pay it back, some people would find me and find our children in the future.

Instead of doing this, it is better to take that house as a conclusion. Because of his behavior, I never had contact with him again.

After I divorced him, I changed places to live, but it was quite close to the original home, in order to take care of the children, I changed a job, although I did not earn as much as before, but nine to five, there was time to get along with the children, and the days were still passable.

I thought I would never have any intersection with their family again. But I didn't expect to meet my ex-mother-in-law when I went to the market to buy vegetables, although I was divorced, but the former mother-in-law was very good to me before, and even treated me as my own daughter.

After seeing my former mother-in-law, I took the initiative to say hello, but I never thought of how she had grown up like this in just a few years, and suddenly seemed to be more than 10 years older, her face was dry, it was all wrinkles, and she looked like she had lost a lot of weight.

The former mother-in-law saw me and took my hand and cried, the first sentence was that my ex-husband died, when I heard this, my heart giggled a little, especially sad, how can I say that death is dead?

Before I could ask, my ex-mother-in-law told me a secret, and I burst into tears after listening to it.

She said: "Mei Mei, you don't blame the rule of the country, he is a good husband and a good father, in fact, ah rule the country does not gamble at all, he is the unit to check the terminal illness, he can't bear to drag you and the child, so he pretended to play a play with friends, so that you can still be better, and the money from the sale of the house, he has also been saving for you two, and now that he is dead, I called you to find that you changed your number, just met you here, you will come home with me, I will give you the money." ”

After listening to my mother-in-law, my heart was like a knife, how I didn't expect my ex-husband to love me so much, they all lied to me, just to make me and my son have a better life, but we are husband and wife should love each other and bear it!

I don't want this money, because my in-laws are also older than my husband's son, and now I have passed away, and after they are sick and hospitalized, they need this money more than me, but my mother-in-law does not agree, what should I do? (Contributed by netizens)

Man cannot be resurrected from the dead, and mourning will change! You are actually very lucky to have a baby son and a husband who loves you, although he lied to you but hopes that you can be better, and you are also a kind person, maybe you really have no luck!

This money is your husband's wish, you still take it, otherwise the mother-in-law is not at ease, when the former mother-in-law is sick and hospitalized, if the situation allows you can also take care of it, help or something, after all, it is still the son's grandparents.

Finally, I hope you can get out of this thing, life still has to go on, come on!