On the left is Gu Ailing, on the right is my girl, hoping to do a good job of herself, the Buddhist mentality on the road to parenting, companionship does not intervene, encouragement does not force.
What mother doesn't want her child to be someone else's child? However, in my opinion, Buddhist mothers are not good. In the spirit of unintentional willow shading mentality, but often because of many factors, affecting our emotions, judgment, unconsciously began to worry again, began to prepare for the child.
In any case, as long as it is a good recipe, it may be used to help children succeed.
Gu's mother once said that the secret of her education is actually:
"Gu Ailing must be allowed to sleep enough, not blindly forcing her to train." Conform to the child's hobbies and do not set arbitrary limits on her life. ”
In a speech, Gu Ailing said:
"I do all the exercise because I like to do it, but I have a secret weapon, since I was a child I slept 10 hours a night."
I summarize that adequate sleep, a hobby that children can like and stick to, self-confidence and vitality is the preservative to success.
