#How to look at Gu Ailing's mother's education method#
Seeing the success of Gu Ailing, many parents began to be restless again, you see people are only 19 years old, everything will be, how old are you, nothing. Interest classes are going to start getting hilarious again [nose picking], but if you do the same, then you're so pathetic. Because you didn't really understand anything about Gu Ailing's mother's educational philosophy.
Force the child to register, force the child to learn, some parents are generally poor, have to smash the pot to sell iron to force the child, the child does not like, is not suitable or has no talent in this regard, will be scolded by all kinds, what does not understand the parents' good intentions, not motivated, really useless, etc., what baggage is thrown to the child, as if as long as you sign up, your child can become the second Gu Ailing.
Remember, success cannot be replicated. If you really want to learn, you should really understand her educational philosophy [Thinking]
Gu Ailing's mother taught her from an early age: You have to try again, the worst result is that you don't like it, but if you particularly like it, then you will earn [send heart]
So this is a combination of the mother's educational guidance and her own choices
And many parents who give their children the opportunity to try, see what is hot, and force their children to learn something. Some parents are what they liked when they were young and couldn't do it, so they forced their children to realize their dreams and regrets, and never asked their children if they wanted to learn, whether they liked it or not!
More parents deny their children's own preferences, the funny thing is that when they were young, they were denied by their parents for their preferences, resulting in regret for so long, they will complain about their parents and feel that their lives have been delayed, but when they become parents, directly the same routine, at this time they will not consider the child, will not think in a different position, obviously they have experienced it, and also impose this pain on the child.
Gu Ailing started skiing at the age of 3, joined the professional ski team at the age of 8, and won the championship at the age of 9. He is good at multi-sport, basketball, football, rock climbing, archery, horse riding, skateboarding, surfing, etc., as well as piano, ballet, musicals
To be able to do this, first of all, the child herself likes to try, and then the parents have the conditions to give her professional learning, do you give the child the opportunity to try? Do you have the conditions for him to study professionally? [Nose picking]
Seeing that Gu Ailing knew so much at a young age, many parents directly filled in the duck registration and filled the time. I was tired enough, and I felt that this was maternal love, in fact, it was for my own vanity. It is really a mother's love, and you should respect the child's choice
[This is your game, I hope you can enjoy it] Gu Ailing's mother's words show her educational attitude
[Hard work is not to train for the sake of competition, but because I like to ski] Gu Ailing's words show that she has been insisting on doing what she likes, rather than being forced to learn! Interest is the best motivation!
A child does what she loves and enjoys it, and finally her efforts reap achievements and are recognized [Sending hearts]
But many parents let their children participate in competitions or exams, always thinking about the championship and the first place, rather than thinking of letting their children enjoy it, and the vanity of parents becomes the pressure of their children [nose picking]
Most parents only see Gu Ailing's achievements and want their children to replicate success
However, in the eyes of Gu Ailing's mother, freedom, richness, happiness, and use for experimentation are her greatest expectations for her daughter
In contrast, many parents, in the name of loving you, don't even give you the right to choose in marriage
Mother's education, guidance, children's efforts, preferences, talents, self-discipline, family conditions and other factors have jointly cast today's Gu Ailing, without any one may not be today's her
And she has a secret weapon that is to sleep for 10 hours, which is difficult for us to really do even if we sleep in the morning. Because we need to study, write assignments, and there's a lot more to do.
Many people preach online about how to replicate the success of Gu Ailing!
In fact, what you really should do is, combined with the actual situation, family conditions, children's interests and preferences, personality characteristics, as far as possible to cultivate children's self-discipline, insist on doing what you want to do and can do, suitable for things! Appropriately encourage children to do more different attempts, but also have selective guidance, such as children obsessed with online games, do you want to let him devote himself to playing games? When Jean is not, they are all adults, what can be learned, what is not suitable also has the ability to judge!
The key points of Gu Ailing's mother's education are [encourage children to do more common sense] [respect children's preferences and give support to their ability] [The importance of cultivating children's time from an early age] [Do not put pressure on children with vanity and fame, but let children enjoy the game after hard work]
Many of us can no longer become "Gu Ailing", because our parents are not Gu Ailing's mother, but we can make ourselves strive to become "Gu Ailing's mother", and we become her, not to cultivate a champion like Gu Ailing, and really know how to love children!
If the purpose of becoming Gu Ailing's mother is to cultivate a champion, a first place, then you still don't learn, so as not to harm the child [nose picking]
Because you have such an idea, you are already off track
