My philosophy is that I will not be like most parents at each stage of a child's life to prescribe what to study, what university to study and what major to find what kind of job partner. I

My philosophy is that I will not be like most parents at each stage of a child's life to prescribe what to study, what university to study and what major to find what kind of job partner. I think intrinsic drive and talent are one's core competencies. A person's vision of the living environment from a young age determines what kind of life he wants to live and what kind of job he wants to find when he becomes an adult, and he will have the motivation to make efforts to achieve this goal, which is not what parents can replace, what parents can do is to support him to achieve his goals to provide maximum support, rather than making decisions for each stage of life on behalf of his children. Being too well protected by the family does not necessarily mean that you will not be frustrated, but will spend more time to see the essence of things on your own. Instead of deviating from the big life trajectory, I think we should try to free-range education, and many of the principles that need to be understood by ourselves have learned the general common sense of all aspects of society, which cannot be replaced by parents and teachers. Even if you encounter many setbacks in love and looking for a job, it doesn't matter, get up and move on. Even if there are a lot of bad emotional experiences, even if you meet a few scumbags and scumbags, even if you experience a failed marriage and divorce, everything must be experienced by yourself, in order to be immune to the dark side of some society, better protect yourself, and make more rational choices. Even if the work fails, only when you get up do you know what you lack, where you need to increase your strength, what kind of work is suitable for yourself, maximize yourself, all of which need to be experienced and felt by yourself, in order to become a flesh and blood rich and colorful person. I think so